Can you accept your wife's Ex-bf as frz?

[milo_man]

I can't accept dat..No way man. But if e other way rd, i m owis looking towards to b frens when i break up cos anytime when i have e nds, can owis ask anyone out to my hse for a show den we start producing shows of our own

[onion_rings]

Originally Posted by Acerpac

I'm wondering can you bros here accept your gf's or wife's ex-bf or ex-hus as a frz? Meaning that you and your wife go out with her ex-bf together, maybe the ex-bf also got a gf now lah.

Can accept?

Not that im a MCP or what...I dun even allow or talk to my OC much abt my ex...So it's a definite NO to going out together with her ex & his girl...

[TheGreatOne]

Ask yourself, do you meet you ex too? [/QUOTE]

Totally agreed with bro here.

[Kyser Soze]

I'm not so gracious to accept that. From another point of view, would she accept my ex as a friend? I doubt so.

[samschnur]

i m a firm believer tat i could never be friends with my gf's exes, n i also dun believe in being friends with any of my exes.....

n it is strange in a way tat one of my exes got involved with someone tat we all dun like in school....

[xiangso]

It depends on how you think about the situation. If my wife has got lots of ex-bfs, but in the end , finally make her choice and select me as her life partner then it means i m the best of the lot. So even if she maintain relationship with her ex, whenever i see the ex, my mind will be thinking 'i m the better man, you (ex-bf) are the loser' . As the husband, i will have the self confidence that she will still think I m the best and that no matter how hard the ex try, he will not get anything. also, it has to do with training our own mind not to think too wild. also, if the ex-bf try to be too cosy, give them a warning phone call not to show disrespect. just to share share opinion

[kefuso]

Originally Posted by xiangso

If my wife has got lots of ex-bfs, but in the end , finally make her choice and select me as her life partner then it means i m the best of the lot. So even if she maintain relationship with her ex, whenever i see the ex, my mind will be thinking 'i m the better man, you (ex-bf) are the loser' . As the husband, i will have the self confidence that she will still think I m the best and that no matter how hard the ex try, he will not get anything.

Bro, who dump who doesn't matter...what matters is that he fucked your wife before and most guys can't tolerate such things...it doesn't matter if you don't know him but now you know who is he and can still allow your wife to befriend him???

If possible, I would try to fuck his gf or even wife back so that me and my wife are quits...That bastard and his gf are also even....Hmmm... come of think of it, perhaps could even organise a swing party...

[GarlicBread]

I would said it's an unhealthy pratice.

Gals should respect their man's ego before suggesting such approach but the world have changed,nowsaday got man happily watching their soul mate screw by others

[blackeagle10]

Most men/women will pretend that they are being generous by letting their spouse to keep in touch with their exes. The truth is something must have happen to render that relationship 'unworkable' resulting in the break-up.

Otherwise you would not end up with this woman/guy in the first place. Given that scenario I don;t see any point in keeping exes as friends as they are more of an emotional baggage anyway.

There are rare exceptions of course but still always a shadow of suspicion if yr wife/husband is still keeping close contact with their exes.

[whitegals]

I have no problems with having her ex bf as a fren. In fact, I can let him watch me screw his ex-gf if he likes...

Similarly, I also have no problems if my gf wants to give me a BJ in front of my ex gf...

[zhivago]

Originally Posted by onion_rings

Not that im a MCP or what...I dun even allow or talk to my OC much abt my ex...So it's a definite NO to going out together with her ex & his girl...

yeah... wait their love rekindled and we just lan lan sit at home wank at the AV gal moving on the TV nursing a broken heart.

[nokia3100]

lolz... after all this discussions, i think marriage in sg in going down again...

[Superhamsup]

if they are still frens that means they must have split peacefully last time....that means theres a chance they will fuck each other again especially if both of u quarrel and she is feeling down....

So why want to take such chance? Split means split liao...better dun contact anymore.

[JWNY]

I wouldn't encourage it no matter what the circumstances.

JWNY

[ahpaul25]

The world is changing......I can accept it, just like my wife know that I still meeting my ex gf as frz....