Do you sleep in a different room or bed from your wife?

[cramlover]

Watch out!!! The relationship will slowly drift apart and in no time love for each other will longer exist. Too long sleeping apart can be a ground for divorce also.

[peanutbutterjel]

Originally Posted by peanut123

Surgery is probably the only effective cure. All others are merely temporary or just plain don't work.

Uh oh. Jialat liao. But anyway to the others saying sleep separately no good. Hmmm. Maybe just think it as you all dating time also never sleep together mah. Hor. sometimes sleep together the couples also will feel void of love. Its all about the mentality I think. If both feel positive about it den not sleeping together also won't harm. :x

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

Is any brother here also sleeping in a different room or bed?

can you help me find out if sleeping in a different room or bed, means can go home anytime i want?

it doesn't make sense to me if she still keeps checking whether I'm in my own room or not.

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

Why did it end up like that and how do you have sex with your wife if that happens?

one of the reason can be because there is no love to start with in the first place. Either from one party or from both.

whatsapp wifey to tell her that you are hard now and wait for her reply?

[patkeane]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

Recently I have heard from my friends that their wives sleep in eitger a different bedroom or a different bed from them. They didn't share with me why that is happening. Is any brother here also sleeping in a different room or bed? Why did it end up like that and how do you have sex with your wife if that happens?

Yes i m one of them sleeping separate room from my wife , it started when my young daughter (which was sleeping with us )was sick and cannot use the aircon and so i went to the other room to sleep alone .(cause i cannot sleep without aircon) , and since then we sleep separated rooms it has been quite a while now....,

Well the real reasons is that when we are GF/BF we are very loving and i love my wife alot , but after having our 1st child everything changes she turn low sex drives and never talk to me and only playing with phone and watching movies from internet all the times , and only keep focusing on our baby and only our child .......things got worse when we have the 2nd child ......she hardly talk to me , and is me that always look for subject and chat with her , i arrange for romantic outing .... holiday.......sweet talk .......employ 02 maids (she not working )....tried everything i could, and also confess to her about our problems (she said i m a pervert married her because of sex only) , she even recommend me to go look for prositude ( i m telling the truth) .

Most of the times she rejects me for sex with various reasons , but there are times that i agreed to pay her $500 for each sex and she agreed to it happily and these occasion happens many times, but i stopped doing that, this is not healthy to our relationship as well.

You know the whole process of the above event that i am sad with is that , i know there are problems i find ways to improve our relationship (cause i loved her very much) , and she knows there are problems and she does not treasure our relationship and she is not going to do anything to change or improve it , the most "hard paint" and "angry" things is she can't be bother with whether i am happy or not she sent a strong signal to me "live with it" or "leave it".

Till now it has been 3years i have tired of trying alone , cause in a marriage it really takes 2 hands to clap, i am tired of trying alone , and now that i sleep separate rooms i fell more happy cause now i m trying to live without her and taking her as a mother of my child that's all that will make me a happier person.

[parrotkid]

To pay her $500 for sex doesn't make her feel like a prostitute?

[Nokia69]

bro patkeane, you are not alone. i feel so stuck in a similar situation. at least u are told to outsource, it will be hell fighting women charter for me in my case.

[tungsten]

If my wife ask me to pay for $500 to have sex... I will go withdraw and change money in $2... throw it at her face and ask her to strip...

Bro... this is not low sex drive... she love money more than you. If really low sex drive will not agree to this deal...

If she really low sex drive and agree to have sex for money... she is a pro. Simple as that.

Get her to write down in her handwriting that she agree to let you have sex with other woman. Video cam the process... Then go out and get woman back to fuck at the house.

[SinDellman]

bro patkeane, it's now 3 years, and soon it will be 5, 10, 15, 20.......
She WILL NEVER see the problem, but you know that there is now very little love in you for her, and you are still in a marriage because you still love the kids and of course the Women's Charters.
How sad.

[LeeHsienLoong]

If you had a wife like Ho Ching, I bet you would want to live in a different house altogether.. Let alone sleep in a different room.

[ch18]

Pays $500 to fuck the wife?
I might as well pays $500 to fuck 3-5 PRC at Geylang, at least still has the choice to pick who to fuck.....

[wackyboy]

Personally, I don't see the point to be in this relationship anymore. It may turn nastier further down the road that she felt detest looking or just be around you.

While I'm not an advocate for divorce, it would seem that it is a way to be out and you still can be a good father to be your kids while seeking a companion that is truly life-long and sexisfying.

[sundial]

Originally Posted by LeeHsienLoong

If you had a wife like Ho Ching, I bet you would want to live in a different house altogether.. Let alone sleep in a different room.

after losing billions of our money she better make it up in service

[biozaogeng]

if husband and wife don't sleep in the same room; confirm jia lat one. drug her with horny drug la. pay $500 LOL... do you remember before they changed the rules, it was legal to rape your wife?

haiz... indeed agree with all the other bros here. leave here, keep 1/2 your money and find another wife. that S$500 you can find a S$100 fuck and save S$400 for your children.