Fall in love with FL

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by dlfc

Well, this is my maiden post and would like to ask bros and sis here for advices.
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I am very vexed by this.... Whether shall I continue this "chasing" or like what big Sammy bro has said, "a FL is always a FL" - should I move on?

Appreciate bros and Sis valuable feedback and comments, pls.

Originally Posted by dlfc

.....Well, actually, I have told her I do not mind her past, I do not mind her present (she did FL to clear debts), I only concern our future.
Actually, if you ask me whether I mind she taking appts, initially I do mind. But, I can't help her in $ terms. .... That's why I have chosen to close eyes.
Having said that, I would not mind her current if in event that we are together.
I have to disagree to what Bros have said that FLs will go back to FLs.
How are we so sure that our current "clean/virgin" gfs or wife won't go into FL behind our backs?! These are questions nobody will have answer. - This is a very strange defensive question from the seeker.

Smile n cheers :-)

While I was comparing the election candidates speeches, I started to come to a realisation that many past election speeches that try to sway public opinion are often unsuccessful.............Same goes for this thread. Thus I end my belief that you will sacrifice your love based on public opinion. And just like any elected candiates, you never know you got the stomach to run the administration till you are in the hot seat! Good luck!

[shawnsean]

anyway i do believe genuine love is always possible no matter of what status. Do have cases that ppl marry a freelance. After all they are normal human too. BUT be reminded that special cases do happened, but rarely. dealing with this type of matter u must have self protection and self awareness. Over trusting and over engross in it can lead u to blindness. i am not sure what type of gal she is, but thats the most general and fair advice for u. stay clear and alert in mind,be flexible and do the right thing no matter how hard the decision can be at times. All the best for u,because u still have a long and unpreditable difficult journey ahead of u with her. Good luck dude.

[sytloverr]

Originally Posted by dlfc

How are we so sure that our current "clean/virgin" gfs or wife won't go into FL behind our backs?! These are questions nobody will have answer.

Bro. Seems like your response suggests you've already long made up your mind.

[MaMister]

Looks like you are looking for that jackpot feeling....

The feeling to find out that when you call her and talk to her the same time she is fucking another man....

[swakoo1409]

Alot of comments will be to drop the idea of falling in love with FL. that's because of what we have seen in life and in threads of people getting conned.

There is that big risk involved and that is what all the comments of asking you to stop is trying to put forward.

The risk is there and its a very very big risk.

And from the defenses, like many other threads, you have the feeling of the famous last words "she is different from others".

So we have said our piece. You want to take the risk, all the best to you.



Do share with us your results !

[Batmanandrobin]

As the chinese saying goes,alright to marry a pros but is not alright to ask your wife to be a pros.

[Duios]

Originally Posted by dlfc

Hi Bros n Sis, many thanks for your feedback :-)
Well, actually, I have told her I do not mind her past, I do not mind her present (she did FL to clear debts), I only concern our future.

Actually, if you ask me whether I mind she taking appts, initially I do mind. But, I can't help her in $ terms. .... That's why I have chosen to close eyes.
Having said that, I would not mind her current if in event that we are together.
I have to disagree to what Bros have said that FLs will go back to FLs.
How are we so sure that our current "clean/virgin" gfs or wife won't go into FL behind our backs?! These are questions nobody will have answer.

Smile n cheers :-)

bro just go for it. who knows the current gfs we find last time not FL. Even if not FL maybe also 'lok' lol we will never know. since you know and can accept. go for it!

[olalala]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Bro,

After 1st session you fell in love with her?

You power lah!

he maybe fell in the floor during the session, and think fell in love himself

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by Batmanandrobin

As the chinese saying goes,alright to marry a pros but is not alright to ask your wife to be a pros.

Well said! Old. But zhen Yan

[hilltower]

Think about this: After you marry her, you are at a party and you meet some male friends who have had sex with her before. From the expressions on their faces, you know that they have bonked your wife...may be many times.
How will your feelings then be? Will you be comfortable with your old friends now?
Or will you be thinking about what they might be saying behind your back?

[count]

Originally Posted by swakoo1409

because u know u have to close one eye means you cannot accept. and its not easy to accept.

the girl is in a situation whereby once you accept you cannot turn back.

everyday eat fried rice also will sian thats why some of the people go for FL are married.

you get married with her, u sian of fried rice want to eat tom yum u find FL then kanna caught , will you guarantee in a emotion driven heated argument you wont bring up her past?

bro, easier said than done. better to leave it as it is. friends is ok. because singapore is small and you are already in a stage whereby you know her friends and know her personally.

until she , on her own accord and will, quits FL and gets another job, stay away from emotions.

totally agree here. Couples will tend to have arguments after some time, and confirm 100% u will bring up the past. It's a bad situation to start with, but now it's time to choose to let go or not. Some things are fated.

[ATAP]

Originally Posted by hilltower

Think about this: After you marry her, you are at a party and you meet some male friends who have had sex with her before. From the expressions on their faces, you know that they have bonked your wife...may be many times.
How will your feelings then be? Will you be comfortable with your old friends now?
Or will you be thinking about what they might be saying behind your back?

If you think so much, that proves that you love yourself more than her. If you love her, why think so much? Why care so much? Just be blessed that you can be with someone you love. Then rather you lost someone that you truely love. Think you won't know how heartbreak it feels until you really encounter it.

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother a couple of comments. You are head over heels over something that's not there. When you met her you were a customer. She's nice to all customers. Don't think about the first time meeting her as love at first sight. You are reacting because you are love void over her but she provides an act for all. If you met so another gal of equal looks and demeanor and not a FL would you still be interested in this one? Have you tried?

[ATAP]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother a couple of comments. You are head over heels over something that's not there. When you met her you were a customer. She's nice to all customers. Don't think about the first time meeting her as love at first sight. You are reacting because you are love void over her but she provides an act for all. If you met so another gal of equal looks and demeanor and not a FL would you still be interested in this one? Have you tried?

Another one condemning FL. Just to remind you, FL are also humans too. They have feelings too. So, why can't they fall in love? Think you don't know what is true love.

[see see only]

Hey TS,

Good idea, they (ktv gals, singers, FL) are usually more understanding and can act better blur especially if you r the sort who is super 花心 .... that hav the urge to screw another girl once a while, when in relationship with them

Of cos they might do the same to you too ....


BTW falling in love is no problem at all .... anything more would required more thoughts, regardless who the girl is when you are in Singapore