How to handle a FB??? - Page 2

hihiz · #16 24-05-2009, 12:57 AM

bro, please be faithful to ur wife...imagine ur wife having a fb too...u ok with that?

apalucakap · #17 24-05-2009, 02:04 PM

If you are worried of any consequences, drop her like hot potato. Less issue.

iceman72 · #18 24-05-2009, 03:18 PM

Bro,there will never be any free lunches in the world or free fuck,surely will have to pay back in one way or the other.

joew2005 · #19 24-05-2009, 04:10 PM

Bro,if u were 2 get married u shld not get involved emotionally with another woman.
The woman k agree 2 wat ever terms with u nw,but is bound 2 change her stand 1s it gets 2 emotion 4 her 2 handle.

Longitude · #20 25-05-2009, 09:08 AM

I have a similar experience. Its 10 years now and we are still together. But the initial years were tumultous. She knew I was married when we first met. At that time my marriage was on the verge of a breakdown and my OC had already consulted lawyers for a divorce. However, when my OC had some inkling that I may be having a liaison she held on to the marriage and told me that she would not let anyone take me away from her. My gf then threatened to come to my house to confront my wife. I told her if she does so she will be sorry for I will deny everything and my wife will believe me and then it will be the end of the both of us. She didnt make the trip to my place. I still see her once in a while and we talked over the phone alot. Its 10 years already and many times I had the intention to end it. But its very difficult to extricate myself completely when emotions had set in and become entrenched.

daggerboy · #21 25-05-2009, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by qwertyuiop

Hmmm, agree that's the ideal. Even woman also have flings/fb(s) too that men doesn't know. I guess this world is still about doing it in the smart way not hurting the other party.

At times also must be due to that the wife does refuse to or does not want to perform certain sexual actions like bbbj etc to the husband which is the reason why fb(s) exist. Many other reasons to like high sex drive can lead to unsatisfied sessions and thus the appetite for more outside.

Have rewarded u back daggerboy. Cheers.

Thanks for the points and your well-considered comments. To read without reflecting is like eating without digesting.

bangbangben · #22 25-05-2009, 09:55 AM

No point driving a car when you can't handle it.

No point having a FB when you can't control her.

TS, sincerely... No Point in carrying on... Sooner or later you going to end it. Why let yourself get mentally and physically drained before you realise the fact that she no longer understand that the relationship is purely FBs?

apalucakap · #23 25-05-2009, 10:06 AM

The beauty of my broad minded OC is I am allowed to bonk elsewhere provided NO string attached and NO mistress, period, end of story. Summore, she feels extremely horny and wanna screw when I relate my escapade . What more can I ask for?

handcell · #24 25-05-2009, 10:10 AM

TS,
try some excuse to change your HP no or better still move house....
just my opinion......

Jintian · #25 25-05-2009, 10:12 AM

Better to stay away than to be sorry later.

poorman4sex · #26 25-05-2009, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Longitude

Its 10 years already and many times I had the intention to end it. But its very difficult to extricate myself completely when emotions had set in and become entrenched.

same same here.... dunno how to put an end to it....

Nickolasleong · #27 25-05-2009, 11:44 AM

Seriously!! I was quite surprise when so many fellow bros here were trying to dissuade me from taking it up...esp those who went through it all..... guess these are wisdom from experiences

There is nothing interesting to it ... she was just one of the few usual clubbing partners, friend's friends kind of thing and when the relationship got closer, things get a bit touchy and feely ... and I was like .... exploring the idea of having her on. Am also fully aware of the risk and danger involved and thus the big dilemma.....

well I will definitely have something to think it through.. thanks everyone for yr thoughts and views..

Benefit · #28 25-05-2009, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Longitude

I have a similar experience. Its 10 years now and we are still together. But the initial years were tumultous. She knew I was married when we first met. At that time my marriage was on the verge of a breakdown and my OC had already consulted lawyers for a divorce. However, when my OC had some inkling that I may be having a liaison she held on to the marriage and told me that she would not let anyone take me away from her. My gf then threatened to come to my house to confront my wife. I told her if she does so she will be sorry for I will deny everything and my wife will believe me and then it will be the end of the both of us. She didnt make the trip to my place. I still see her once in a while and we talked over the phone alot. Its 10 years already and many times I had the intention to end it. But its very difficult to extricate myself completely when emotions had set in and become entrenched.

This is like a cable. We weave a strand of it everyday and soon it cannot be broken.

cheapcharlie · #29 25-05-2009, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by apalucakap

The beauty of my broad minded OC is I am allowed to bonk elsewhere provided NO string attached and NO mistress, period, end of story. Summore, she feels extremely horny and wanna screw when I relate my escapade . What more can I ask for?

You are very lucky dude.