woes of a tirak

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by kudos

Got one tirak ask me to lend her my hp to let her call long distance call to thailand during the session time.. as a gentleman, i lend her for a while..

So bro Kudos, what is the main point your try to put through?

Always lend your hp to a WL to make long distance phonecall so to become a gentleman or suggesting to others to follow your gentleman style?

Probably you felt that by doing it is a gentleman antic but to most of the WL, their mind will be thinking, today hosay liao got "Gong Kia" pay telephone bill for me. Why don't you apply for a permanent line for her so to upgrade yourself into the SUPER GENTLEMAN class. Like that you can also force yourself into the "Champions Tirak League Qualifying Round".keke

[norigo77]

Originally Posted by poolhot

Hope i can make tis my last sentence in tis thread.......

U guys can carry on & do wat U deem fit wiz SM.

I am very tired. Are u guys not tired?

Sigh
Poolhot

Tired? But I barely did anything!

Anyway thaz besides the point. After quietly observing all the flames and bickerings firing around in this forum, I think most issues should have been more or less addressed and settled. So letz move back to the original discussion of the thread and keep things in perspective...

Woes of a tirak...hmmmm.

Like to juz share my 2 cents worth of insights to this subject on tiraking.

I believe that all of us in this forum have experienced certain emotional fractures in our lives that somehow drew us into the world of GL and tiraks, myself included. It could be due to neglect from our gfs/spouses, or loneliness, low self-esteem, lack of confidence in socialising etc etc... Hence the world of tiraking is so enticing and addictive becuz walls are easily broken down when the WL feeds you with KC as she sextifies your instant gratifications. We all know that she'd probably has only $$$ in her agenda but we still happily paid for her services as our emotional backdoor opens up to receive unconsciously what we've been deprived of all these while.

That leads to the creation of emotional bonding. Moment by moment as the emotional deposits are made into each other's emotional bank account thaz where the "woes" start: She has a foothold on you. You miss her badly, can't sleep or eat, starts getting suspicious of her other tiraks, jealousy, possessiveness, pettiness, insecurity, denial, betrayal etc becomes part of the natural progression after a fairy-tale high.

Woes of a tirak? Aren't us who brought the woes unto ourselves when we compromised with the fact that commercial sex is meant juz for commercial sex??? Logical? Yes. But emotionally unacceptable if we choose to live in denial.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by norigo77

That leads to the creation of emotional bonding. Moment by moment as the emotional deposits are made into each other's emotional bank account thaz where the "woes" start: She has a foothold on you. You miss her badly, can't sleep or eat, starts getting suspicious of her other tiraks, jealousy, possessiveness, pettiness, insecurity, denial, betrayal etc becomes part of the natural progression after a fairy-tale high.

Woes of a tirak? Aren't us who brought the woes unto ourselves when we compromised with the fact that commercial sex is meant juz for commercial sex??? Logical? Yes. But emotionally unacceptable if we choose to live in denial.

N77, its clear that u've seen enuf n experienced enuf to share those thoughts. i cant agree more to the particular post... i suppose for some of us here, denial probably is still looming either cos the relationship is just budding/just bloomed...yet to experience the ''stake in the heart'' or in some cases pitfalls.

as much as it seems doomed for some gals that they'll continue making flesh-trade their livelihood. surely there would be some/ if not a handful that'll retire for gd...n lead a simple life after ORD. fact that they lack relevant experiences to be competent in other lines of work in society, there's still a glimpse (very slim) of hope, should they find that guy whom she can invest hopes on.

i guess, for some of us (including myself)... sigh... "still q-ing up on sat n sun in hope to strike 4D top prize"

[free]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

...surely there would be some/ if not a handful that'll retire for gd...n lead a simple life after ORD. fact that they lack relevant experiences to be competent in other lines of work in society, there's still a glimpse (very slim) of hope, should they find that guy whom she can invest hopes on.

There are,my good bro, there are... Known of several already...some even posted in SB.

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

...i guess, for some of us (including myself)... sigh... "still q-ing up on sat n sun in hope to strike 4D top prize"

Think you should say "most of us", kekeke. Me rather try toto or big sweep. Kena once, song song liao. Go retire in LOS for good immediately.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by free

...There are,my good bro, there are... Known of several already...some even posted in SB.

...Think you should say "most of us", kekeke. Me rather try toto or big sweep. Kena once, song song liao. Go retire in LOS for good immediately.

i've seen a few fairytale situations for some of the WLs, n have seen some happily married ex-WL working in Sg too. ok, maybe its never wise to pick a WL for a prospecting wife, bt there's always a story in every household that is nt for the world to know. just gotta hope that she never resorts to this line again.

i dare not think of myself as the ultimate tirak, nor am i fit to shower her w riches n provide luxury for her n her family. by now, she's aware of my capacity...n if she appreciates/cherish what i can offer... i'd be more than happy liao.

right now, counting down to her ORD is like a dilema to me. 1 moment i'm happy for her, cos she wouldnt have to put up w some sick-in the brain lechers, yet saddened bcos i wont get to see her as often as i want to. day by day the pages of the calendar is torn...day by day my heart is peeled

[Hakoshu]

Right said~

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

right now, counting down to her ORD is like a dilema to me. 1 moment i'm happy for her, cos she wouldnt have to put up w some sick-in the brain lechers, yet saddened bcos i wont get to see her as often as i want to. day by day the pages of the calendar is torn...day by day my heart is peeled

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i dare not think of myself as the ultimate tirak, nor am i fit to shower her w riches n provide luxury for her n her family. by now, she's aware of my capacity...n if she appreciates/cherish what i can offer... i'd be more than happy liao.

Same here. Well.... I guess she knows so i didn't get any request from her when we goes out.

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

right now, counting down to her ORD is like a dilema to me. 1 moment i'm happy for her, cos she wouldnt have to put up w some sick-in the brain lechers, yet saddened bcos i wont get to see her as often as i want to. day by day the pages of the calendar is torn...day by day my heart is peeled

Well.... Guess i can identify with you. Cos the fun we had will become memories when she returns. Unless.... U BOTH ARE willing to take 'BIG Step'. This is a tough qns to answer. Haiz.....

Just like that other Day when my Gal told me that some customer print out some FRs and shows it to them. In my Mind is 'WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS BRO DOING'!!! For the Bro who did that... PLS!!! NO need to print out these FRs to impress yr gal.

I told my gal that i'm not willing to write FRs on her cos i know the Frs will somehow generates more $$ for her But on the other i'm not too keen to see her working too hard. So kinda in a fix... Heng... she told me that she 'Old bird' liao...

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

right now, counting down to her ORD is like a dilema to me. 1 moment i'm happy for her, cos she wouldnt have to put up w some sick-in the brain lechers, yet saddened bcos i wont get to see her as often as i want to. day by day the pages of the calendar is torn...day by day my heart is peeled

I reckon she will be happier when she ORD....seeing her leading a new life...a more meaning one...you should feel happy for her....cos we always want the best for those we like if not loved...
CheerS!!!

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by zunbo

Just like that other Day when my Gal told me that some customer print out some FRs and shows it to them. In my Mind is 'WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS BRO DOING'!!! For the Bro who did that... PLS!!! NO need to print out these FRs to impress yr gal.

It takes all type of ppl to make up the world...including stupid ass and idiots.

[walao]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i've seen a few fairytale situations for some of the WLs, n have seen some happily married ex-WL working in Sg too. ok, maybe

right now, counting down to her ORD is like a dilema to me. 1 moment i'm happy for her, cos she wouldnt have to put up w some sick-in the brain lechers, yet saddened bcos i wont get to see her as often as i want to. day by day the pages of the calendar is torn...day by day my heart is peeled

Know such thing as AIR ASIA??? Kotek, save some money now and see her there..



Walao

[suchern]

Originally Posted by zunbo

Just like that other Day when my Gal told me that some customer print out some FRs and shows it to them. In my Mind is 'WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS BRO DOING'!!! For the Bro who did that... PLS!!! NO need to print out these FRs to impress yr gal.
...

Ur gal's command of English is good enuf to read the FRs? pei fu pei fu.

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by walao

Kotek,
Walao

WALAN... yr english chim chim leh

Wat Kotek???????

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by suchern

Ur gal's command of English is good enuf to read the FRs? pei fu pei fu.

Maybe that guy who wanna boast to her paid 5 sessions just to explian the FRs to her...

[free]

Originally Posted by zunbo

Well.... Guess i can identify with you. Cos the fun we had will become memories when she returns. Unless.... U BOTH ARE willing to take 'BIG Step'. This is a tough qns to answer. Haiz.....

Yaa Kit Maak Maak. Follow your heart's lead. Ask yrself what is the worst thing that can happen? It don't work out and u say the final good bye to each other.

Nothing worst in life than never to have tried anything. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

[Luna]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

I reckon she will be happier when she ORD....seeing her leading a new life...a more meaning one...you should feel happy for her....cos we always want the best for those we like if not loved...
CheerS!!!

I fully agree with this. This is what i told my tirak. I wish she faster ORD so that she no need to suffer so much here & under that F***ing boss. Best of all we can go shopping together openly without people from the boss to see.