Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

[Siriusam]

hmm, don't understand why some guys share about double dating as in BGR only.. I thought 小三 is more specifically married guys with affair outside?

tbh before marriage u want to have multiple gf or FBs, it doesn't matter. There are no rules.

[fmylife]

So just wanna check. if she is willing to have sex with you when u asked for it and she doesnt even ask about being paid for this, what does this mean? lol

[LurkerLurks]

Originally Posted by fmylife

So just wanna check. if she is willing to have sex with you when u asked for it and she doesnt even ask about being paid for this, what does this mean? lol

means she is willing to be fwb lor. but becareful, esp if u married. u dk what she thinking, is it purely fwb or got other motive. imo just stay as fwb should be ok, and delete all traces with her esp after each meet or deed done.

[fmylife]

Originally Posted by LurkerLurks

means she is willing to be fwb lor. but becareful, esp if u married. u dk what she thinking, is it purely fwb or got other motive. imo just stay as fwb should be ok, and delete all traces with her esp after each meet or deed done.

Thanks for the advise. Well she did tell me a few things, like we can't control a relationship when it comes, she is not controlling herself but we have to set boundaries as she does not want to hurt me and my family because of her. So I respected her for that. Still have been meeting up and talking about setting up legal businesses instead. Wonder how that came about.

[fmylife]

Wonder if any bros out there have some advise on this? I do have boiling questions on my mind like, why me? I mean there are a lot of other bros other there who maybe even wealthier than I am and am I the only one that she has considered to move on like this?

Originally Posted by fmylife

Thanks for the advise. Well she did tell me a few things, like we can't control a relationship when it comes, she is not controlling herself but we have to set boundaries as she does not want to hurt me and my family because of her. So I respected her for that. Still have been meeting up and talking about setting up legal businesses instead. Wonder how that came about.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by fmylife

Wonder if any bros out there have some advise on this? I do have boiling questions on my mind like, why me? I mean there are a lot of other bros other there who maybe even wealthier than I am and am I the only one that she has considered to move on like this?

it means you are getting emotional about her

A FB is someone you have sex with, no emotions, you don't pay officially, you might pay with wining and dining, maybe even gifts.

A little 3 is someone you have emotions with, sex and you are married,
you don't pay officially, you might pay with wining and dining, maybe even gifts.

A WLF/FL is someone you have sex with, no emotions, you pay for the service. You do not wine and dine or give gifts

Wife is someone you might or might not be having sex with her after marriage, lots of emotions, positive and negative. You pay officially in allowance, you must wine and dine her, and you must give gifts.

[royalrabbit]

well said !!

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

it means you are getting emotional about her

A FB is someone you have sex with, no emotions, you don't pay officially, you might pay with wining and dining, maybe even gifts.

A little 3 is someone you have emotions with, sex and you are married,
you don't pay officially, you might pay with wining and dining, maybe even gifts.

A WLF/FL is someone you have sex with, no emotions, you pay for the service. You do not wine and dine or give gifts

Wife is someone you might or might not be having sex with her after marriage, lots of emotions, positive and negative. You pay officially in allowance, you must wine and dine her, and you must give gifts.

[ramon]

Originally Posted by fmylife

Wonder if any bros out there have some advise on this? I do have boiling questions on my mind like, why me? I mean there are a lot of other bros other there who maybe even wealthier than I am and am I the only one that she has considered to move on like this?

Don’t get involved in her business by being partners. You can invest or help out occasionally. The more time both of you spend together the higher chances of you getting emotionally sucked in into her world.

[fmylife]

Nice one, especially the last one. Lol

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

it means you are getting emotional about her

A FB is someone you have sex with, no emotions, you don't pay officially, you might pay with wining and dining, maybe even gifts.

A little 3 is someone you have emotions with, sex and you are married,
you don't pay officially, you might pay with wining and dining, maybe even gifts.

A WLF/FL is someone you have sex with, no emotions, you pay for the service. You do not wine and dine or give gifts

Wife is someone you might or might not be having sex with her after marriage, lots of emotions, positive and negative. You pay officially in allowance, you must wine and dine her, and you must give gifts.

[fmylife]

Oops. I guess I am getting quite involved now.

Originally Posted by ramon

Don’t get involved in her business by being partners. You can invest or help out occasionally. The more time both of you spend together the higher chances of you getting emotionally sucked in into her world.

[fmylife]

What if I get her emotionally sucked into my world? Have been spending time with her and she does pay for some good when we eat out together. She does ask me for advise and follows them to an extend of not doing certain things. At the moment she says she likes it this way that I am concerned on her well being and helping her emotionally and she doesn't want to break up my family. She also gets concerned on what I do to help her in certain things. Hmmm... So how will this end?

Any bros here still with the ML or Ex-ML now after a long period of time?

Originally Posted by ramon

Don’t get involved in her business by being partners. You can invest or help out occasionally. The more time both of you spend together the higher chances of you getting emotionally sucked in into her world.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by fmylife

What if I get her emotionally sucked into my world? Have been spending time with her and she does pay for some good when we eat out together. She does ask me for advise and follows them to an extend of not doing certain things. At the moment she says she likes it this way that I am concerned on her well being and helping her emotionally and she doesn't want to break up my family. She also gets concerned on what I do to help her in certain things. Hmmm... So how will this end?

Any bros here still with the ML or Ex-ML now after a long period of time?

this is my 8th year. does that count as a long period of time?

[fmylife]

Wow. Yes bro. Still going on strong?

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

this is my 8th year. does that count as a long period of time?

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by fmylife

Wow. Yes bro. Still going on strong?

yeah well it settles into a routine

if you think that sex crazed woman you met is going to be like that forever, I can only say once these WL become ex WL, they no longer need to please you. And it becomes like your long term gf or wife, sex becomes rare and few.

haven't really felt any passion for years, so we settled into companionship of eating, watching movies with emotions and feelings in the relationship. more care than passion or love.

somewhere though you know because of how we started, there will never be a legality to this arrangement.

[fmylife]

Nice. Well I hope that happens for me but my libido is still quite high. Lol. So I guess the sex will still go on. Lol.

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

yeah well it settles into a routine

if you think that sex crazed woman you met is going to be like that forever, I can only say once these WL become ex WL, they no longer need to please you. And it becomes like your long term gf or wife, sex becomes rare and few.

haven't really felt any passion for years, so we settled into companionship of eating, watching movies with emotions and feelings in the relationship. more care than passion or love.

somewhere though you know because of how we started, there will never be a legality to this arrangement.