Charmaine, yours is like reading some book or even script for a movie..
On the plus side of coin, it'd have been difficult for her to fit in in singieland.
Pity your fairy tale of proverbial knight in shining armour takes leave here.
If my wife to be earns a boatload of money and more than I do. I'd quit my coolie job, rent out my SG property (if I have) and become a full time piichai/houseman in BKK. Buy me Mercedes Benz and I'll work for my wife to be as a chauffeur and shuttle her to work daily. In between lull period I can drink kopi with samsters and go for soapy massage. At night become goody goody husband and spend time with wife. Occasionally can sneak out to drink in G-Clubs or lim Leo beer at Sutthisan neighbourhood karaoke bar with bro rocksoff. Arhhh what a dream life!
In Thailand there is nothing shameful about it if the wife works and feeds the husband or the whole family. To love a Thai girl we must accept Thai culture even though it may conflict with our confucius influenced upbringing. I LOVE AMAZING THAILAND!
If my wife to be earns a boatload of money and more than I do. I'd quit my coolie job, rent out my SG property (if I have) and become a full time piichai/houseman in BKK. Buy me Mercedes Benz and I'll work for my wife to be as a chauffeur and shuttle her to work daily. In between lull period I can drink kopi with samsters and go for soapy massage. At night become goody goody husband and spend time with wife. Occasionally can sneak out to drink in G-Clubs or lim Leo beer at Sutthisan neighbourhood karaoke bar with bro rocksoff. Arhhh what a dream life!
In Thailand there is nothing shameful about it if the wife works and feeds the husband or the whole family. To love a Thai girl we must accept Thai culture even though it may conflict with our confucius influenced upbringing. I LOVE AMAZING THAILAND!
KNN ... i really take my hats off for u, bro tony ..
these kinda of thoughts u can also come out ...
u r really ............
..In Thailand there is nothing shameful about it if the wife works and feeds the husband or the whole family. To love a Thai girl we must accept Thai culture even though it may conflict with our confucius influenced upbringing. I LOVE AMAZING THAILAND!
Your satire didn't escape us. See (and hear) so many single moms in LOS, who are more than bread winners in extended family. Hubbies or bfs just live off the fat
Yo, yours is a dream life. Only forgot you can also moonlight with lobangs for samsters visiting.. good supplement to your income.
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KNN ... i really take my hats off for u, bro tony ..
these kinda of thoughts u can also come out ...
u r really ............
but i love it ....
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Your satire didn't escape us. See (and hear) so many single moms in LOS, who are more than bread winners in extended family. Hubbies or bfs just live off the fat
Yo, yours is a dream life. Only forgot you can also moonlight with lobangs for samsters visiting.. good supplement to your income.
These are facts (wife feeds husband) that you can see in Thailand and Vietnam. It's as normal as watching Thai soap dramas. Hehehe.
Yes I can become driver/tour guide and pick up samsters from Suvarnabhumi Airport to their hotel. Take them to Cupidy Massage and earn THB500 commission per head. Of course cannot let samsters know lah because they expect me to do it all for free just for them. Later to find out and exposed by them!
Also maybe can become matchmaker for samsters so they can fall into KC traps with puyings that I collaborate with! 50-50 split whenever a samster TT money to his tirak's account. Actually mine but use a Thai female name!
Yes I can become driver/tour guide and pick up samsters from Suvarnabhumi Airport to their hotel. Take them to Cupidy Massage and earn THB500 commission per head. Of course cannot let samsters know lah because they expect me to do it all for free just for them. Later to find out and exposed by them!
Also maybe can become matchmaker for samsters so they can fall into KC traps with puyings that I collaborate with! 50-50 split whenever a samster TT money to his tirak's account. Actually mine but use a Thai female name!
Bro tony.....your dreaming is so "keng'......like that also can arh?
She told me that for the first time in her life, she's doing something meaningful and spectacular, and there's no way she's going to stop now.
I'm happy for her, but that only meant one thing. She didn't want to come to Singapore anymore.
See what you says over here.....!
We started to fight like kids every time we talked to her on the phone. She became busier than me - while I was still able to squeeze in one or two phone calls in the office no matter how busy I was, she's now stuck in meetings with customers all the time. "I call you back ok?" was the normal response. She still picks up her calls every time, of course, and there is absolutely no reason to suspect anything, but she simply became.. too busy for love). She works till late night (sometimes 9 or 10pm), has dinner with her colleagues then go home dead beat. We fought like crazy - I would start demanding that she call me at least twice a day, once at lunch and once at dinner (my fault, I know) and she would say I'm being ridiculous. When she was a G-Club girl, we arguably talked a lot more in the day, but now I never got to hear from her even at night. I became frustrated that I was the one calling her more often than her calling me, and never seemed to understand that this big break was the best thing that ever happened to her this life, and that she needed her space. I helped her get out of the club, but otherwise had nothing to do with this miraculous turnaround. I kept imagining myself to be this "big knight in shining amour" that got her where she was today, so she has to kowtow and bow to my every whim and fancy, but in truth I did nothing. I forgot that outside of the G-Club, she was just a girl. A girl that I disrespected very badly.
I became possessive and demanding, and she told me numerous times that I wasn't helping by "expecting too much". I snapped - I couldn't take the change. I told her that she either decided to come to Singapore soon, or end this relationship. I said that knowing full well that it was a ridiculous ultimatum, and she would never be able to do half as well as a PR here.
She told me that she enjoyed what she does for the first time in her life, is getting a lot out of it, and she doesn't want me to slow her down. if given a choice between her job and me, she would choose to remain in Bangkok. She said she still wanted to have a future with me, but I was "getting more crazy by the day" and she could no longer handle my tantrums and the demands of her job at the same time.
I told her that we should take a break. She said yes. We haven't contacted since.
The story isn't over, but it very nearly is. i don't know what to feel.
On the one hand, I'm absolutely delighted with her new life. On the other, though, our plans, what we've been discussing everyday for ages, never seems like it's going to materialise. Just before we decided to cool it off, she gave me an extremely intense feeling (she has never said this out in the open) that she wants to remain long-term in Bangkok to seek out this new career path and see how far she can go.
I know she misses me. I miss her too, but there isn't much of a future to be considered if she doesn't want to come to Singapore. Me going to live in Bangkok is out of the question (demand for my profession is almost non-existent in Thailand and I have already bought a house here). At the end of the day, maybe it's best for both parties that it ends this way - I managed to pull a decent girl out of a nightclub and indirectly saved her life. Maybe that's all I sought out to do this whole relationship, and now I am done. Sometimes, it's not necessary that you end up with that person to know that you've done something right with her life. That warm fuzzy feeling in your heart - it's something money can't buy.
That is the right way and only way to handle this.....bravo!
Well, you are not alone in this......I have gone through the 'almost" the same routine as you but then I let her go peacefully.....and reluctantly and she is grateful for that as initially she refuse to let go of our 'relationship" but after a while she realised that I would not be able to shift my whole life to start fresh in BKK.....likewise she would not come down to Malaysia for the same reason.....as...
No friends to gossip in the morning
no soap dramas in the TV......even these we have it now but none those days
couldn't speak the local tongue so got to depend on me even to order food for her.. she feels so hopeless even though that she can speak relatively good English but she cannot use it for hawkers food and in the wet market in M'sia...hahahah!
different culture especially the food...
But until today she is a dear friend as we meet whenever I am free to meet her and her handsome young son for lunch or dinner.
Btw, she is not from G-clubs.
Take it positively and it is a karma.....to help others!
Your satire didn't escape us. See (and hear) so many single moms in LOS, who are more than bread winners in extended family. Hubbies or bfs just live off the fat
This is quite true... I can see husband drinking Thai whisky while, wife opens legs everynights... I also once company my friend to his so called tirak's house, n I'm very sure that guy intro to us is not her bro but either her bf or husband.
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Yes I can become driver/tour guide and pick up samsters from Suvarnabhumi Airport to their hotel.
Pls include me.... pick me up n be my guide
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But until today she is a dear friend as we meet whenever I am free to meet her and her handsome young son for lunch or dinner.
Errrrr what has the handsome young son gonna do with u???
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Well, you are not alone in this......I have gone through the 'almost" the same routine as you but then I let her go peacefully.....and reluctantly and she is grateful for that as initially she refuse to let go of our 'relationship" but after a while she realised that I would not be able to shift my whole life to start fresh in BKK.....likewise she would not come down to Malaysia for the same reason.....as...
But until today she is a dear friend as we meet whenever I am free to meet her and her handsome young son for lunch or dinner.
Btw, she is not from G-clubs.
wow .. didn't know bro playman have this history ...
so ..... when u meet ur ex in bkk ... did u or did u not ...... u know lar ...
that thing ... between 2 ppl in a room ...
aiyah, u know wat i mean, right ... so did u or not for old time sake ..
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Bro tony.....your dreaming is so "keng'......
that's an insult to bro tony ....
what keng ??? it's keng mak mak ... kow jia mai ??
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Errrrr what has the handsome young son gonna do with u???
now .. that's a pretty good question ....
maybe ... u know ...... maybe, maybe the handsome young son is bro playman sxx .... aiyah ... paiseh said lar ...
what keng ??? it's keng mak mak ... kow jia mai ??
...
Wow, bro didn't know your thai so good
__________________ وَالسَّمَاوَاتُ وَبَرَزُواْ للّهِ الْوَاحِدِ الْقَهَّارِ يَوْمَ تُبَدَّلُ الأَرْضُ غَيْرَ الأَرْض One day the earth will be changed to a different earth, and so will be the heavens, and (men) will be marshalled forth, before God, the One, the Irresistible
This is quite true... I can see husband drinking Thai whisky while, wife opens legs everynights... I also once company my friend to his so called tirak's house, n I'm very sure that guy intro to us is not her bro but either her bf or husband.
This one I must really give it up to the Thais! Excellent reality drama except it's for real! Hahaha.
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Pls include me.... pick me up n be my guide
Wait for me to get employed by Thai girl as piichai first. Haha.
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now .. that's a pretty good question ....
maybe ... u know ...... maybe, maybe the handsome young son is bro playman sxx .... aiyah ... paiseh said lar ...
If it's not his sxx why would he called her son a "handsome young son". Must learn a thing or two from the KC sifu!
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ni noi ni noi ... chok dee ...
What ni noi ni noi? You want to teh ni ni (press boobs) is it? Hehehe.
That is the right way and only way to handle this.....bravo!
Well, you are not alone in this......I have gone through the 'almost" the same routine as you but then I let her go peacefully.....and reluctantly and she is grateful for that as initially she refuse to let go of our 'relationship" but after a while she realised that I would not be able to shift my whole life to start fresh in BKK.....likewise she would not come down to Malaysia for the same reason.....as...
No friends to gossip in the morning
no soap dramas in the TV......even these we have it now but none those days
couldn't speak the local tongue so got to depend on me even to order food for her.. she feels so hopeless even though that she can speak relatively good English but she cannot use it for hawkers food and in the wet market in M'sia...hahahah!
different culture especially the food...
But until today she is a dear friend as we meet whenever I am free to meet her and her handsome young son for lunch or dinner.
Btw, she is not from G-clubs.
Take it positively and it is a karma.....to help others!
Err.. Bro intro to me leh, i treat u guys moo ka ta or MK na ja...
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11-06-2009, 12:58 AM
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