Advise please

[CeiResident]

if i see one drowning, i will stretch out my hand and if he/she refuses to accept it and drown, I've still done merit.
But if he/she stretches out their hand & i shrug it off, its nothing short of murder. Everybody has a choice, 1 to offer, another to play deaf. while the recipient has but to choose between accepting the offer or declining it

.... well, as the old saying goes, 1 can lead the horse to
the water, but cant make it drink.

thai-land is truely a paradise for men. truely. the girls are sexy, the softness of their culture, the way they wear (shorts), the way they show-off their leggy ... their doll hairstyles, they can hold you, touch you, even the way they speaks their language, whether she just met with you, or commercially received money frm u ... doent matter bcos they are able to naturally so make u felt u just stepped into heaven. kena play or being played also can take it bcos many of us still can afford the baht . ( ) jing. But, we came, we saw, we may conquered, but we easily forget (or do not wish to) return to reality liao.

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Hi bro. It's been long since we met. care to catch up after my match in national stadium tml?

sorry didnt check on forum for few days.

you played for the vietcongs right? hahaha that's why kicked our singaporean butts la. you can meet meh? xmas eve you need to be in thailand for 1st leg finals leh :P

Anyways, you have my number, just buzz me.

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by vmtech

sorry didnt check on forum for few days.

you played for the vietcongs right? hahaha that's why kicked our singaporean butts la. you can meet meh? xmas eve you need to be in thailand for 1st leg finals leh :P

Anyways, you have my number, just buzz me.

just finish the match at rajamangala stadium.. the new pm was there. Had supper at the nearby mengjai . i would be flying up to hanoi from here to support the viets bro. see u in singapore on the 29th.

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

just finish the match at rajamangala stadium.. the new pm was there. Had supper at the nearby mengjai . i would be flying up to hanoi from here to support the viets bro. see u in singapore on the 29th.

sorry mate. catching a flight on xmas to bkk enroute to kengtung. will be there till jan.

catch u again when im back

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by vmtech

sorry mate. catching a flight on xmas to bkk enroute to kengtung. will be there till jan.

catch u again when im back

Woohoo Kengtung sia. Bro vemtech conquerer of the shan state..

[CeiResident]

i'm so tired of being here
Suppressed by all my childish fears
And if you have to leave
I wish that you would just leave
'Cause your presence still lingers here
And it won't leave me alone

These wounds won't seem to heal
This pain is just too real
There's just too much that time cannot erase


When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears
When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears
And I held your hand through all of these years
But you still have
All of me

You used to captivate me
By your resonating light
Now I'm bound by the life you left behind
Your face it haunts
My once pleasant dreams
Your voice it chased away
All the sanity in me

These wounds won't seem to heal
This pain is just too real
There's just too much that time cannot erase



I've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone
But though you're still with me
I've been alone all along

__________________
I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.

[sporeaninbatam]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

i'm so tired of being here
Suppressed by all my childish fears
And if you have to leave
I wish that you would just leave
'Cause your presence still lingers here
And it won't leave me alone

These wounds won't seem to heal
This pain is just too real
There's just too much that time cannot erase


When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears
When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears
And I held your hand through all of these years
But you still have
All of me

You used to captivate me
By your resonating light
Now I'm bound by the life you left behind
Your face it haunts
My once pleasant dreams
Your voice it chased away
All the sanity in me

These wounds won't seem to heal
This pain is just too real
There's just too much that time cannot erase



I've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone
But though you're still with me
I've been alone all along

__________________
I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.

Whahahaha. Evanessence. My immortal

[CeiResident]

Love is blind, they say. But if there's one thing that restores clear vision, it's living with someone day-in, day-out. Nothing like that to topple a lover off their pedestal and expose their flaws, right? Well, sometimes not it seems. The idealised view of a partner doesn't always disappear when the early throes of passion have passed.

In the first flush of love, we almost all gloss over our partner's faults. But researchers studying married couples have found that in the happiest marriages, this overrating habit continues – in fact it's the glue that keeps these couples together over time.

These are spouses who tend not to notice their partners' shortcomings and recall only the good times in their relationship. This positive spin seems to not only keep them content, it's also good for their health. Spouses who see things this way have less chronic disease.



While the experts are still exploring exactly what's going on, the heart of the issue might be the way these couples approach conflict. When they have a dispute, they talk about the issue in a calm, rational way and listen to each other's point of view. This might mean they have less exposure to stress hormones, which are known to be associated with illnesses like heart disease.

Whether you can learn to see your partner as nicer than he or she really is, isn't known. In the couples studied, it happens unconsciously and has nothing to do with gender, religion, education or socio-economic background. But personality features, like being easy-going might make you more likely to idealise things.

Interestingly, the habit need exist in only one partner, for the effects to be seen. So if you don't tend to wear rose-tinted glasses yourself, at least choose a partner who does.

PeaceMaker

[CeiResident]

See u on the last week of May bro jun!!!

[ahyong]

Archan CeiResident am i invited?

[Playman]

Originally Posted by ahyong

Archan CeiResident am i invited?

Uncle Yong.....it been a long time since I see you over here......! Nice to see again!

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by ahyong

Archan CeiResident am i invited?

U put me aeroplane so many times, so sad na. Was waiting for u at seacon square MK yesterday.

[CeiResident]

Extracted this from a fellow samster and it sounds interesting:

Does the so call " true love " still exist???

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Often, i hav tot alot abt this, especially when i am going to work and after work,
and i started to think back, during sch time, gf are hard to find cos not handsome enough, then some more that time no balls also, unlike now, can approach any gals, then when u enter poly, tats no pretty gals in ur same class and all ur friends are mostly guys, single, n of course,they also hav no gals to intro to u cos even they themself can't get gf. Then wat can we do, other than to surf net, msn, friendster to find gals, but all the gals are so "dao" if u can get a reply, can consider very lucky,but of course i do get a few ons n flings from this type of channel, but although every time i get into this kinda of " play play " affair,even though i know that this kinda relationship won't work but every time i will treat it like a serious relationship, maybe deep deep down inside my heart , i do longed for a fairy tale like ending.

Then when u stepped into the working society, u find that ur working area also got no gals, mostly all married old woman, so no chance to get to know suitable gals too.And after work, i would listen to sad love song, thinking how difficult is to fall in love. And when u alone at home, i would cry sometimes, seriously, no joking, when u notice that u are so alone in ur life that there's not even a single caring gal who will ask u something like how is ur work
today, tough? I mean such a simple gesture that i see from other couple is
such a normal simple everyday thing to them, but to me, is like striking toto.
When i am young, i use to hope to live life simple,like those Qin Mei Zhu Ma, to married the gal i like n live happily ever after, not when i grew older, i come to realise that it is something like " mission impossible".

So wat can i do, i cannot jus anyhow approach gal which i like in the street and ask them for a date right. So wat can i do, other then to go geylang, and surf sammyboy. Seriously this forum is like become the core to my life ord, addicted to it, and also i notice alot other samsters is also trying to find their fairy tale love life, but in vain, thats y we go geylang and so emphasis "GF" feeling when we visit lorong 18,we are so pathatic that we hav to turn to a pro for some time limiting and costly "GF" feeling.

And often , i longed for someone to hug when i am feeling down, but deep down, i also know that love can't be force, and preciesly becos i know this, i am feeling more sad, how i wish that Love can be bought, then it will make things less complicating for me, at less i know that if i got the $$, i can have love.Thats y so many ppl turn to china or viet for option to marry wife. But in reality, it is not like that , $$ can't buy love., Up till now, i still wonder how my life will be in future, but i have a strong feeling that that's it for me ord, nothing big turn or twist will happen to me, still i will visit geylang,go home after work, visit sammyboy, then when i am old, die lonely.


Anyone here share the same thoughts as me? Is this the meaning of life?

Bro Jun, does this reminds us of those days we were hanging out in nana burger stands? Time flies, it has already been more than 4 years.

[yinyang]

Bro CR, once awhile you pop in and start on your lovey dovey (or sentimental) pieces. So are you in or out of love? Just taking a dig, no offence

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Bro CR, once awhile you pop in and start on your lovey dovey (or sentimental) pieces. So are you in or out of love? Just taking a dig, no offence

Coz i miss u bro....