Advise please

[NakaSky]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Happy Birthday to u khwan.....

I know of a thai girl also by the name of khwan who's birthday around the corner. U know her from where?

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by NakaSky

I know of a thai girl also by the name of khwan who's birthday around the corner. U know her from where?

How do u know mine is a thai girl? Her name is Khwan Teen.

[ahyong]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

How do u know mine is a thai girl? Her name is Khwan Teen.

wah bro why u so nasty to him, he is worrying u KC her tirak mah

[NakaSky]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

How do u know mine is a thai girl? Her name is Khwan Teen.

Originally Posted by ahyong

wah bro why u so nasty to him, he is worrying u KC her tirak mah

I do not like long term relationships with thai girls. Feel free to KC my girls so that they dun stick to me.

[Charmaine]

A random update for anyone remotely interested in my sadfuck life:

I just came back from Bangkok and it was a good trip overall. I met up with her parents and her friends were all curious to see me (she's been talking about me a LOT to everyone who cared to listen) so an originally-planned, closely-knitted family dinner affair became a big deal. Everyone was suitably soaked with the spirit of the occasion and the entire gang ended up singing karaoke after dinner. It was fun and relaxed event which was a huge relief. Her mum was cool and said the exact same things any mum in the world would say in that situation - she just wants somebody to take care and love her daughter well, for him to be a nice and sincere man and for her daughter to be happy. Cliche I know, but music to my ears when I heard it. Her mum wore a great dress and put on light make-up, and I was extremely touched by this show of sincerity - it proved to me how serious everyone was treating this. The next day she insisted I come over to have a taste of her home-cooked food and the feast was amazing. It was during that meal that her mum invited me back to their province the next time I'm here. I happily said yes. We talked about everyone going back to Singapore to meet my parents by early next year and she was elated. My girl's daughter started to call me dad by the second day I was there.

Before I was scheduled to fly back to Singapore, we went for a romantic meal and I gave her a ring. I've never seen anyone blush so much in my life. When she regained her senses, she asked me what it was supposed to mean. I said it could be anything that she wanted it to be. She told me she wanted it to be a proposal ring. We went back to her place and she practically called the whole of Thailand on her mobile phone to tell everyone about the good news.

I left Bangkok with a smile on my face.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

A random update for anyone remotely interested in my sadfuck life:

I just came back from Bangkok and it was a good trip overall. I met up with her parents and her friends were all curious to see me (she's been talking about me a LOT to everyone who cared to listen) so an originally-planned, closely-knitted family dinner affair became a big deal. Everyone was suitably soaked with the spirit of the occasion and the entire gang ended up singing karaoke after dinner. It was fun and relaxed event which was a huge relief. Her mum was cool and said the exact same things any mum in the world would say in that situation - she just wants somebody to take care and love her daughter well, for him to be a nice and sincere man and for her daughter to be happy. Cliche I know, but music to my ears when I heard it. Her mum wore a great dress and put on light make-up, and I was extremely touched by this show of sincerity - it proved to me how serious everyone was treating this. The next day she insisted I come over to have a taste of her home-cooked food and the feast was amazing. It was during that meal that her mum invited me back to their province the next time I'm here. I happily said yes. We talked about everyone going back to Singapore to meet my parents by early next year and she was elated. My girl's daughter started to call me dad by the second day I was there.

Before I was scheduled to fly back to Singapore, we went for a romantic meal and I gave her a ring. I've never seen anyone blush so much in my life. When she regained her senses, she asked me what it was supposed to mean. I said it could be anything that she wanted it to be. She told me she wanted it to be a proposal ring. We went back to her place and she practically called the whole of Thailand on her mobile phone to tell everyone about the good news.

I left Bangkok with a smile on my face.

bro charmaine ... congratulation ..
looks like things do work out pretty good for u ...
i wish all the best ....

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

...talked about everyone going back to Singapore to meet my parents by early next year and she was elated. My girl's daughter started to call me dad by the second day I was there.
..she wanted it to be a proposal ring. We went back to her place and she practically called the whole of Thailand on her mobile phone to tell everyone about the good news. I left Bangkok with a smile on my face.

Plenty to smile about after your last LOS trip. Good stuff, unlike many failures we hear or read about here

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by NakaSky

I do not like long term relationships with thai girls. Feel free to KC my girls so that they dun stick to me.

u are too modest bro.... i am a family man now... enjoy ur game... uncle yong is a senior player... u ought to pick up a few tabs from him.... Your girls???? anywhere on the road side on can pick up....

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

A random update for anyone remotely interested in my sadfuck life:

I just came back from Bangkok and it was a good trip overall. I met up with her parents and her friends were all curious to see me (she's been talking about me a LOT to everyone who cared to listen) so an originally-planned, closely-knitted family dinner affair became a big deal. Everyone was suitably soaked with the spirit of the occasion and the entire gang ended up singing karaoke after dinner. It was fun and relaxed event which was a huge relief. Her mum was cool and said the exact same things any mum in the world would say in that situation - she just wants somebody to take care and love her daughter well, for him to be a nice and sincere man and for her daughter to be happy. Cliche I know, but music to my ears when I heard it. Her mum wore a great dress and put on light make-up, and I was extremely touched by this show of sincerity - it proved to me how serious everyone was treating this. The next day she insisted I come over to have a taste of her home-cooked food and the feast was amazing. It was during that meal that her mum invited me back to their province the next time I'm here. I happily said yes. We talked about everyone going back to Singapore to meet my parents by early next year and she was elated. My girl's daughter started to call me dad by the second day I was there.

Before I was scheduled to fly back to Singapore, we went for a romantic meal and I gave her a ring. I've never seen anyone blush so much in my life. When she regained her senses, she asked me what it was supposed to mean. I said it could be anything that she wanted it to be. She told me she wanted it to be a proposal ring. We went back to her place and she practically called the whole of Thailand on her mobile phone to tell everyone about the good news.

I left Bangkok with a smile on my face.

I listen already also cock steam now nia, dun u agree bro adidas, machiam fairy tale ending wor.... so when is the analogy? No wonder u dun wan to join me for ladies nite at zouk now la...

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

I listen already also cock steam now nia, dun u agree bro adidas, machiam fairy tale ending wor.... so when is the analogy? No wonder u dun wan to join me for ladies nite at zouk now la...

well ... maybe fairy tales really do exist in this world ...
ladies nite at zouk ?? i better sleep at home ...
all the SPG's .... no money no honey ... unfortunately the honey is expire date ....

[etct88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

A random update for anyone remotely interested in my sadfuck life:

........My girl's daughter started to call me dad ......

........I've never seen anyone blush so much in my life (very difficult to fake a blush!).......

..... left Bangkok with a smile on my face.......

Way to go! Congrats Bro .....

[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

I listen already also cock steam now nia, dun u agree bro adidas, machiam fairy tale ending wor.... so when is the analogy? No wonder u dun wan to join me for ladies nite at zouk now la...

I didn't even know Zouk had a Ladies' Night anymore! Clubbing in Singapore is terribly muted in comparison to some of the best nights I had in Bangkok drinking, partying and generally having a good time. I'm almost always guaranteed a fun night in Bangkok, but am almost always disappointed when I do the exact same things here. Strange country, this.

Thank you to all friends for all your words of support and encouragement. It's not a fairy-tale - as CeiResident has reiterated many times before, the road is long and we all have to pace. Certain things remain the same - she still works in a G-Club entertaining men every night for a living, and the existence of her daughter will present a much sticker problem when her family eventually flies over to meet mine. But I'm trying to enjoy the process now because I know happiness doesn't last forever.

For a Thai, she's extremely atypical and it's hard to put a finger on who exactly she is sometimes. Thai girls are generally submissive, demure and even shy, but she's never been any of those traits. Her friends have openly described her as "head-strong", "able to support her family without anyone else's help", and "never needed a man and never will." At the same time, they already know enough about me to deduce that I am a "hopeless romantic" and a "sweet man". It's ironic - I found a Thai girl arguably more strong-willed, stubborn and independent than Singapore ones. And we always thought Thai girls are more "girl" than our own local breed.. anyway she's extremely stingy with thank-yous, praise, sweet words and the like, preferring to keep quiet most of the time and talk about absolutely irrelevant things that don't matter. But that's only one of the reasons why I love her so much.

Anyway, the dinner wasn't perfect - for one thing, she spent all her time talking to her mum, friends and their boyfriends, leaving me pretty much alone to attempt to decipher what everyone was laughing about based on the very limited Thai vocabulary I had at my disposal. I almost felt embarrassed to speak English at the table - I felt so farang it was an unbelievably uneasy feeling overall. I could only smile and wished I knew Thai.

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by adidas88

well ... maybe fairy tales really do exist in this world ...
ladies nite at zouk ?? i better sleep at home ...
all the SPG's .... no money no honey ... unfortunately the honey is expire date ....

Haizz, Bro tell me anymore good places to chill? Bobian la, prefer local joints rather than go into local thai scenes to be carrotheads.

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I didn't even know Zouk had a Ladies' Night anymore! Clubbing in Singapore is terribly muted in comparison to some of the best nights I had in Bangkok drinking, partying and generally having a good time. I'm almost always guaranteed a fun night in Bangkok, but am almost always disappointed when I do the exact same things here. Strange country, this.

Thank you to all friends for all your words of support and encouragement. It's not a fairy-tale - as CeiResident has reiterated many times before, the road is long and we all have to pace. Certain things remain the same - she still works in a G-Club entertaining men every night for a living, and the existence of her daughter will present a much sticker problem when her family eventually flies over to meet mine. But I'm trying to enjoy the process now because I know happiness doesn't last forever.

For a Thai, she's extremely atypical and it's hard to put a finger on who exactly she is sometimes. Thai girls are generally submissive, demure and even shy, but she's never been any of those traits. Her friends have openly described her as "head-strong", "able to support her family without anyone else's help", and "never needed a man and never will." At the same time, they already know enough about me to deduce that I am a "hopeless romantic" and a "sweet man". It's ironic - I found a Thai girl arguably more strong-willed, stubborn and independent than Singapore ones. And we always thought Thai girls are more "girl" than our own local breed.. anyway she's extremely stingy with thank-yous, praise, sweet words and the like, preferring to keep quiet most of the time and talk about absolutely irrelevant things that don't matter. But that's only one of the reasons why I love her so much.

Anyway, the dinner wasn't perfect - for one thing, she spent all her time talking to her mum, friends and their boyfriends, leaving me pretty much alone to attempt to decipher what everyone was laughing about based on the very limited Thai vocabulary I had at my disposal. I almost felt embarrassed to speak English at the table - I felt so farang it was an unbelievably uneasy feeling overall. I could only smile and wished I knew Thai.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season....

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Haizz, Bro tell me anymore good places to chill? Bobian la, prefer local joints rather than go into local thai scenes to be carrotheads.

PRC ...