Advise please

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

interesting thread... i'm currently working in Thailand. Used to have a agogo "gf"... we'll go out on weekends and i'll stay over at her apartment. So she kinda have day off on every sat to spend time with me. We'll go shopping, movies, disco, restuarants, trips, etc... sometimes i'll go to her bar to "support" her and buy her friends drinks.
Anyway, I know what she's doing and I used to call her every evening to wish her "good luck".. in case u bros think i'm living off her, i give her allowance 10,000 baht every month to "support" her... which is not alot of money to her anyway but at least its "something"... anyway, with reference to the thread starter's story, this bro has to be practical lah... if they want to just sit and chit chat with customers and "khor" tips, they won't be working in agogo bar. Can go work in bar top dancing bar or "gentlemen" bars better.... so u gotta be practical too lah.. she's there to work and fucking is her job...
sometimes when i was with my "girl", her "bfs" from s'pore, japan, hk will call her. Then i'll keep very quiet (although sometimes i like to tickle her and make her giggle)... she'll chat sweetly with them... with me beside... sometimes i pity those "bfs" lah cos some of them ACTUALLY expect her to be home all the time and waiting for them..... duh....
And also, sometimes when her "bfs" come and book her for days, she'll sneak in toilet breaks to give me a call.. sometimes she'll call in front of them but she'll chat with me in Thai... so there...
while it was all fun, u gotta be practical too.. if u can't take care of ur girl, she'll have to take care of herself, and she can't live off making only 6,000 baht every month when she has to pay her own rent, bills, especially phone bills and shoppings.... so bo bian lah.... she has to go out with customers.. at least she lets u CIM and swallows ur every bit..

alright.. kae nee krup.. thuk khon, sawadeekrup.. chok dee, lae hai sanook krup!

Funny but true.

Sometimes its good to have such understanding gf that knows how to work, earn money rather than asking money from the boyfriend every month. If the man cannot see this big picture right in front of him, better go and get a decent gf instead of falling in love with WL.

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[Doomas]

Bro,

The real victim here is the gal. Just her luck to fall for this fella out of the droves of customers she had entertained. I have a serious problem even trying to understand his logic. If he dumps this gal, it's gonna be very devastating for her and will be a big blow to her sense of self-worth, which would already be very low. Given his warped sense of reality, I wonder how he would take it if the gal takes her own life in reaction to his rejection.

Of course, all these is moot if the gal is really a bloodsucker.

Doomas

Originally Posted by rave999

Bro,

Treat this girl nicely is all I can say.....aiyahh.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Doomas

Bro,

The real victim here is the gal. Just her luck to fall for this fella out of the droves of customers she had entertained. I have a serious problem even trying to understand his logic. If he dumps this gal, it's gonna be very devastating for her and will be a big blow to her sense of self-worth, which would already be very low. Given his warped sense of reality, I wonder how he would take it if the gal takes her own life in reaction to his rejection.

Of course, all these is moot if the gal is really a bloodsucker.

Doomas

Salah liao. The real victims are us. We read through 18 pages and even replied him.

Sometimes I think its not easy for a man to go after a WL when the odds are basically not in favour of the man. Every relationship will make the man wiser. So if the man can go through 7-8 such kind of relationships, I tend to think the man has aged considerably.

hahaha
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[Doomas]

Hehehe, that's a refreshing perspective. Wah, 18 pages liao. Din realise that

My one such r/s was enough to age me lots. 7 or 8...walao eh...that's pushing the limits of human endurance.

Will be in BKK from 20 Apr to 26 Apr. Staying in Majestic Suites at Sukhumvit. You gonna be in clit cuntry then? Mbe can meet up. Pai seh supp to call you here but always damn busy worrr

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Salah liao. The real victims are us. We read through 18 pages and even replied him.

Sometimes I think its not easy for a man to go after a WL when the odds are basically not in favour of the man. Every relationship will make the man wiser. So if the man can go through 7-8 such kind of relationships, I tend to think the man has aged considerably.

hahaha
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[waypastprime]

Originally Posted by chuwit

Your avatar damn shiok. Zhi Ling cai bu hui wang ji ni yor!

Lin Zhi Ling says "Thank you".

Btw, what happened to your points?

[meng]

Wah lau ...need to ask such direct question meh.....

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Doomas

My one such r/s was enough to age me lots. 7 or 8...walao eh...that's pushing the limits of human endurance.

I thought N***** have 7-8 of that? he looks older than his age.

hahaha
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[moonlight]

Originally Posted by waslee

In the first place, i don't think the girl ever worked for the sake of being with him, not after they know each other for only 2 months. Every relationship takes time to blossom even relationship with WL. How could she know he is the one for her? Somemore both from different cultures and living so far away and he cannot even speak Thai. I do not want to judge the girl because i have never spoken to her, just want to remind Jun that sometimes they put long line hook big fish, u understand?
Anyway, since the results are out, its time for this thread to stop too. Whatever happens from now on will depends on he himself.
Case Closed.

well said bro waslee

[Jun|ch|]

so much has been said while i am away...i have met up with her already and she had explained everything to me.Its a long story and I wont be able to talk about it here right now.As i am typing away she is sitting right besides me. I told her about the thread and everything.I would like to meet up with bro waslee and moonlight while i am in bangkok. I call moonlight soon tomorrow morning. I did not say anything about how i am going to deal with her and so much about me being a bad guy. As long as she understands what I told her and how i feel towards the whole situation ...other people's opinion of me does not matter. In fact I thank all for the advices and flaming. will be a follow up after i spoke to waslee and moonlight.

[MIRAGE29]

YO bro,

I live in BKK so if you need any help, don't hesitate to call me on my thai hp. I live in the Srinakarin area (opposite Seacon square) so if you wanna meet up, just gimme a ring. Unfortunately,I am leaving for Germany for work tomorrow night and will only be back on 29th March.

One piece of good advice from me as I have lived in BKK for the past 7 years:

"If you really love her, you would not care for her past and if both of you are sincere to each other, you can definitely make ends meet some how."

BUT remember, everyone in BKK is very "sian shi". No one, not even you can live on fresh air and sunshine. The mentality in BKK is that most women expect the guy to be the provider for the family. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bull-shitting you. If you believe that there is true love where $$ does not matter, I think you have just wasted all our time in trying to help you.

I have pm-ed you my thai number in case you need any help.

CHeers and "doo lae tua eng"

Chok dee na krup

[easyeasy]

[QUOTE=Jun|ch|] I told her about the thread and everything.UOTE]

in actual fact i do not wish to make any comments on your subject matters as I had feel that the kind brothers here had given you enough advise. but when you do the above what are you actually trying to proof.
do you want me to tell your future and read your fortune as i am 99% sure of where you are heading.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

so much has been said while i am away...i have met up with her already and she had explained everything to me.

As long as she understands what I told her and how i feel towards the whole situation ...other people's opinion of me does not matter. In fact I thank all for the advices and flaming.

Jun, I wish you all the best ..
If you still need any help, I am still here or you can sms me .. take care.

[DNAT]

[QUOTE=john teo]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

like dat got up my pts or not? [quote}

Wah...Thaivisitor asking for pts... so openly some more. kekekek

you report his bad post to SAM lah ...

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by easyeasy

do you want me to tell your future and read your fortune as i am 99% sure of where you are heading.

can I guess? ... 99% the r/s sure flop 1.

Jun's pattern/charactor .. he easily take in by gals' words, guess maybe he is too nice liao ... hahaha

[Hungry-LoneWolf]

Wa Lao!! cannot even catch up with post before I can even say anything. I maybe too late to post but I in the same shoe as Jun[ch] so please let this poor soul yell out loud a little.

Jun[ch], I just like to let you know there are someone in this sillypore who experience the very same shit as you and at the very same time (just 1 month earlier than u).... Most know my story I posted..so you are not alone pal.

All the love sickness, suspicious, the white lies, the trust and all the crap I experiencing also and my financial situation is no better than you. Just like you i'm a ameuter to Thailand scene as well. In fact, you are much more lucky than me because your girl seem to be more committed than mine. The last visit, I have a small conflict with my girl because of trust: I don trust her I’m the chosen one and she don’t trust me I not married/or got local gf. But after that I realized I have to trust and love her all the way because I began to understand one fact is “ONLY TIME CAN TELL” (TV's advice)

Whatever test you subject your girl and whatever true-love/trust/lies in between is all meaningless because only time will tell. Even though you are the CHOSEN ONE now doesn’t mean you the one in the future…Because our gers work in this line. Once the initial passion and heat over and it very easy for them to meet more handsome;richer;better guys to spark another wave of heat with them…so only time is the best test of our love and trust. And I have decide to entrust my relationship in the hand of time. Let HIM be our judge. I looking forward for the best and prepare for worse.

Here how I manage my situation is as follow:
I meet her once a few months no matter how I missed her because I financially yet able. I don’t even call her often because it still very expensive for me and her also, only SMS.
I divert concentration of my lovesickness to work harder..also for our future, finding other hobbies and activites to enrich my life (that include going to GL more. Kekeke)

If heng heng we still together after one yr. I will make her a passport, bring her Singapore tour see she ok ..meet my parent also. Of course won’t tell them she WL (no parent can take it lah)..most imp want to put her past behind. Can then go LOS more often, no need hide from parent If miracle still together after 2nd year. Mai tu liao marry her to sillypore lah.

I also face practical obstacles because I not rich enough to give her a good life. …But willing to try solve the issue. Would like her to work in sillypore (she ok also) but she know Chinese not Eng. (Jun[ch] your ger at least knw Eng) Know Eng at least can hopefully work in MacDonald Part time, 4h can oredi to help past her time..earn 2-300 dollar for her own pocket…I can handle the rest.

How can I get her to learn Eng in one/two years. Teach her on the bed? ThaiVisitor and other liao Jiaos can offer your view?..Courses in Bangkok etc. Any other advice after I sound out my plan. Please help this another poor chap here.

Jun[ch], it seem you are more lucky than me. It only that you are too impulsive and straight-minded about the issue. I hope we can be pal to help each other on the journey to come. We are on a roller coaster ride which not easy to just jump out like that especially for us ameuter. Whether you will feel giddy or shiok at the end, we are on it to finish the ride.