Gers Are Still Gers - Page 128

OceanEleven · #**1906** 03-09-2007, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

u decide for her, u might get hell from her after that, or if not, u're just wasting the $, cos she'd say she cant finish it, bt eventually she orders something else.

Yup, being nice and kind does not necessay paid off. Sometimes the harder you try, the harder you fall.

#**1907** 04-09-2007, 01:52 AM

gers are still gers but we still must treat them like how a gentlemen should, without their nagging we are nothing.. haha..

red-perrier · #**1908** 04-09-2007, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Yup, being nice and kind does not necessay paid off. Sometimes the harder you try, the harder you fall.

u got the point there! sometimes, its good to let them exercise their brains & feet to get what they want. otherwise, very convenient to pin the fault on us.

#**1909** 04-09-2007, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by red-perrier

u got the point there! sometimes, its good to let them exercise their brains & feet to get what they want. otherwise, very convenient to pin the fault on us.

The moral of the story is, since chabor want equality of the sexes in terms of salary, they jolly well do their share of work ..... whatever it is

adwhitworth · #**1910** 04-09-2007, 01:53 PM

Gers Are Still Gers, don't bother fucking understand them, just fucking show ur fucking love to them.

Deep Blue · #**1911** 05-09-2007, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by red-perrier

u got the point there! sometimes, its good to let them exercise their brains & feet to get what they want. otherwise, very convenient to pin the fault on us.

Let them be the decision maker at times pays dividends though. Like my friend tends to let her GF choose where to eat and she always like to listen to hearsay and try here and there till one time she got a bad case of food poisoning then my friend jump in with the shining armour and shower her with tender loving care. Since then she became more submissive and less aggressive.

OceanEleven · #**1912** 13-09-2007, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by zusster

gers are still gers but we still must treat them like how a gentlemen should, without their nagging we are nothing.. haha..

Hmmm…beg to differ though, got to understand sometimes their nagging is like a buzzing fly that keeps irritating you no end. Best part is that what had happened will haunt you forever and will be brought up again and again.

_AXL_ · #**1913** 14-09-2007, 09:56 AM

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Hmmm…beg to differ though, got to understand sometimes their nagging is like a buzzing fly that keeps irritating you no end. Best part is that what had happened will haunt you forever and will be brought up again and again.

dont mind me saying this... i m not defending anyone here.

but i really hate people to nag!!! my mum gets anything from me, just from nagging!!! having moved out, the best part is really to get away from her nagging and complaining.

but why our women nag??? that was what i found out:

1. they found out first hand from the encounters with my mum that it works on me. they decide to use that on me, to get what they want from me. these people have short term goals with me. no point for me to have long term plans with them as well, so i fuck them and tell them to fuck off after a while.

2. they dont have the required patience to reason with me rationally why i should be doing this and that. and so, they fall back to doing what their parents do best and works, nag. eventually, i will feel the housefly effect and break up.

3. i ever come across women, after having a bad day themselves, and then are determined to make everyone else miserable as well. it seems like they just cant stand seeing us enjoying ourselves and stuff. i know talking to them and reasoning with them, or even pampering them is the right way to go. but i dont have the patience, so i just drop them like a hot potato. someone else can take up that responsibility...

4. some women did try and i, being stubborn and lazy, dont listen to their reasoning or delay doing stuff that they tell me to do. so eventually, they have no choice but to end up not bothering to explain to me why i should be doing this and that, thus the nagging starts. happened to me before. so my fault.

there r many reasons for their nagging. find out and rectify. a relationship requires a lot of efforts on both sides. i m lucky to get an OC who is very patient and takes the time to reason with me and on my part, i would listen to reason and if i find them reasonable or sound, i would get off me big ass to go about doing as she told, even when there is a footy game on. and then she reciprocated by leaving me alone to watch my games in peace and eventually, she has picked up watching with me too.

i m not saying that i know the secrets to having a good relationship, but if we guys dont put in the effort to understand why they r doing this and that, we shouldnt be dismissing them for being unreasonable. but if we put in the effort and they r still like that, then dump them and never look back.

OceanEleven · #**1914** 14-09-2007, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by _AXL_

dont mind me saying this... i m not defending anyone here.

i m not saying that i know the secrets to having a good relationship, but if we guys dont put in the effort to understand why they r doing this and that, we shouldnt be dismissing them for being unreasonable. but if we put in the effort and they r still like that, then dump them and never look back.

Been there, seen it and done it. It is really a blessing to find such a companion, this, is what I call a soul mate. One who knows and understands the simplicity of life starts from the most trivial matter, one who knows how to give before taking, let alone demanding, and one who knows taking a step back is the best form of advance.

We aint no goons who go goofing around waiting for judgment day to be call upon ourselves, nonetheless we do know how to reciprocate and comes with a sense of guilt. Kindness begets kindness, if we are as screwed as what she thinks we are, move on then. We have a choice and so does she.

red-perrier · #**1915** 15-09-2007, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by _AXL_

........... i m not saying that i know the secrets to having a good relationship, but if we guys dont put in the effort to understand why they r doing this and that, we shouldnt be dismissing them for being unreasonable. but if we put in the effort and they r still like that, then dump them and never look back.

nothing to fret about not having the solution, but getting to the root of the problem is a good start.

pocketrocket · #**1916** 18-09-2007, 03:05 PM

A religious woman rubbed a bottle and out popped a genie. The amazed woman asked if she got three wishes. The genie said, "Nope, sorry, three-wish genies are a storybook myth. I'm a one-wish genie. So... what'll it be?"

The woman did not hesitate. She said, "I want peace in the Middle East. See this map? I want these countries to stop fighting with each other and I want all the Arabs to love the Jews and Americans and vice-versa. It will bring about world peace and harmony."

The genie looked at the map and exclaimed, "Lady, be reasonable. These countries have been at war for thousands of years. I'm out of shape after being in a bottle for five hundred years. I'm good but not THAT good! I don't think it can be done. Make another wish and please be reasonable."

The woman thought for a minute and said, "Well, I've never been able to find the right man. You know - one that's considerate and fun, likes to cook and help with the house cleaning, is great in bed, and gets along with my family, doesn't watch sports all the time, and is faithful. That is what I wish for...a good man........”

The genie let out a sigh, scratching his head and said, "Let me see the fucking map again."

Here you go...Girls are still girls...

suteerak1099 · #**1917** 19-09-2007, 09:42 AM

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........... The woman thought for a minute and said, "Well, I've never been able to find the right man. You know - one that's considerate and fun, likes to cook and help with the house cleaning, is great in bed, and gets along with my family, doesn't watch sports all the time, and is faithful. That is what I wish for...a good man........”

The genie let out a sigh, scratching his head and said, "Let me see the fucking map again."

Here you go...Girls are still girls...

LOL, wishful thinking... too many ladybird fairytales; hoping for a knight in shining armor riding the white stallion, to rescue her from the monsterous queen, after which; he dismounts the stallion, discards & scrap/melt down his shining armor - cast into cosume tiara for her crown, put on the apron, so to relief her of her domestic duties in the keep - and she sulks & complaints for an upgrade to a castle or palace, while she receives continued showers of gifts confiscated from the peasants, that she'd be served/pampered like a queen....??

(she forgets a knight is just another waged subject in the kingdom, and not necessarily blood relation to the royals that he serves/swears loyalty to... while she's just another peasent damsel in distress at the moment of rescue, and no princess/daughter of the king/emperor)

even the story writer for

authored clarke kent (with extra terrestrial gifts) raised to be an average joe-farmboy, and not a rich man's son.

gals sometimes confuse themselves of their expectations.... or should i say most of the time... though for some, its typically all the time

pocketrocket · #**1918** 19-09-2007, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL, wishful thinking... too many ladybird fairytales; hoping for a knight in shining armor riding the white stallion, to rescue her from the monsterous queen, after which; he dismounts the stallion, discards & scrap/melt down his shining armor - cast into cosume tiara for her crown, put on the apron, so to relief her of her domestic duties in the keep - and she sulks & complaints for an upgrade to a castle or palace, while she receives continued showers of gifts confiscated from the peasants, that she'd be served/pampered like a queen....??

(she forgets a knight is just another waged subject in the kingdom, and not necessarily blood relation to the royals that he serves/swears loyalty to... while she's just another peasent damsel in distress at the moment of rescue, and no princess/daughter of the king/emperor)

even the story writer for

authored clarke kent (with extra terrestrial gifts) raised to be an average joe-farmboy, and not a rich man's son.

gals sometimes confuse themselves of their expectations.... or should i say most of the time... though for some, its typically all the time

This is sooo true, my friend