Gers Are Still Gers

[Clit_LickeR]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

but next week only me to test drive, no car hor.

Woah you so jialat one huh? no kar (Legs)?
bro i dun like to push wheelchair... it reminds me of....
Fret not, i got 2 kars... toh kar and jiar kar...
Gotcha! hahahahaha

[Clit_LickeR]

Originally Posted by Clit_LickeR

Fret not, i got 2 kars... toh kar and jiar kar...

07-04-2007 09:33 AM OFF TOPIC!

Woah... like that also teo zapped arh?
win liao lor...

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

bro AXL, not to worry lah... u'll never walk alone! afterall, not that we take much pride in bashing sg gals, just that... sometimes their behaviours & the whole package really make it seem so deserving..

haha, i like that.

i'm pretty darn sure there's more to add from all bros, especially when you dont yield to her demands, her ultimate counter "u've changed! u were not like this before" and it'd be the killer move if she adds with the tear glazed eyes...

the nuclear "tear" bombs... immuned liao...

sometimes i feel its the company she mixes with that makes things sour too. its super typical that they like to bitch & compare the things their men do, during their luncheon/ high tea / manicure/ pedicure session /spa /hairdo, or all the above! but often times, they get too carried away, that they forget the other good that all their men (unique) have done respectively for them

totally agreed with this. instead of being contented with what we have given to them, they want what others have... damn, we dont have a $ printing machine at home, u know??? every cent is blood and sweat!!!

whilst gals of other nationalities, sing praises about each others men, while they try in all humility to deny the claims, in name sake to be humble - but blushing cherry red, flushed with warm pride of their own men.

will try to find out if that is true... *wink*

thanks bro, indeed much happier in comparison with all my past experiences combined. i'm sure likewise for your goodself too

so long as u r happy, it makes almost everything alright... but come to the pertinent question: is she the love of yr life??? is the love of yr life an sg girl??? well, mine is... but i choose to be happy now. we men must be more selfish... must also go search for our own happiness...

cheers...

[84gunner]

read a few articles, though written by ang mohs, & from my experience & observations, they seem 2 concur: the females are contradicting!!!

On the 1 hand, they like 2 be pampered, like things 2 go according 2 their wishes. But often, they dun really know exactly wat they want. On the other hand, they like the men 2 take charge, it's a form of manliness, masculine act. Especially when the men shows they know exactly wat 2 do, exactly wat they want, even though the gals may not like the decision, but inside them, they are impressed! On the outside, they may show their unhappiness, unhappy wif the decision, but deep inside, they are somehow impressed, & many of them (gals) may not even realise it themselves!

Did u notice, tat many of those Ah Bengs, wif tattoos all over their bodies, their gfs beside them are quite chio & obedient? These Ah Bengs, they are often short tempered & impatient. Any nonsense from the gals, & I'd seen it v often, they get verbal abuse wif expletives, bringing in parents, grandparents, etc etc, almost on the spot, in public, in anywhere! Yet these gals still obediently stay by these guys?

I'd oso seen cases, where these guys do not hold back their punches on their gfs / wives. 1 of my good fren (in his middle age now) is 1 such case. He was a big time pai kia, his police record wif CID is as thick as telephone directory. Last time, whenever his gf (now his wife) speaks bad of his frens, or when he go pia chui upon receiving 1 phone call, he will beat up his gf. It's not uncommon 2 see his gf become panda bear. He study until primary 5 only, while his wife still got O levels & worked in Japanese MNC b4. His wife is quite chio, damn good figure some more. 2day, he runs a logistics business, his wife takes care of the admin/paperwork, his wife oso does the housework, take care of his mum & son. And he is a changed man. His mind now is, everything he does, it's 4 the family. They are proud 2 tell everyone, behind a successful man, is a supportive woman!

I admit, I am a MCP. But then, if u look at the cultures in Asian countries, aren't they mostly, if not all, male oriented? It's the ang mohs who talk more about being "gentleman", but then, if u look beyond the manners, it's juz another trick 2 pamper & coax the gals 2 bed!!! In Asia, it's the culture tat men are the breadwinners. While it's oso normal 4 women 2 stay & home 2 take care of the household. Tat's the term housewife. U heard of the word "house-husband"? If the man stays at home, dun bring the bread home, while the wife goes out 2 work & bring the bread home, u call this man gigolo, spineless, & watever negative remarks & names. But there's still quite some of this type of men in Asia! In ang moh countries, such men are not so scorned upon, compared 2 in Asia. In some ang moh countries, there's even an occupation called "Domestic Engineer"! It's nicer term for "house-husband", ie, the man stays at home & takes care of the household (men are usually better in engineering aspects).

[84gunner]

In other countries such as China, Taiwan, Thailand, Vietnam, etc etc, it's not surprising 2 see the women bashed by their husbands. Especially in Taiwan, the news reports every other day, u will see such family violence cases. Mind u, it's every other few days, like normal daily business!!! There are even cases, when the wife is several months pregnant (tummy quite big oredi), the husbands still rained blows & kicks on the wife!!!

Tat said, SG gals want the best of both worlds, want the cake & eat it 2! Talk about Asian culture, men are the breadwinner, head of household, bring the bread home. When it comes 2 satisfying the men in return, they talk 2 u about being the "gentleman", the law, ie, Women's Charter. They only wanna win, & are v poor losers. Look at their attitude 2wards gals of neighboring (Asian) countries. At 1 period of time, they scorned at Thai gals, cos most WLs are Thai gals. In recent years, they turned their scorn 2wards PRC gals, becos many PRC gals are so much more beautiful yet submissive & obedient, they melt the men's hearts! These SG gals are smart. Knowing they definitely lose 2 these foreign gals, they make a big fuss, kick up a hooha, so 2 keep a tight hold on their men.

Many SG gals told me they hate China. I asked them why, did they have bad experience when they went China? They said no, many havent stepped foot into PRC b4, but juz look at the PRC hookers in SG is enuf 2 disgust them. On the outside, they said it's disgusting, made them think the whole country is all sluts, bf/husband stealers / snatchers, etc etc. But deep inside, they are jealous, unhappy tat the PRCs are spoiling their market of winning the men over! They are not willing 2 pamper the men, then now when they meet much better competitors in terms of looks & pampering the men, this is how they react.

Tat much talk about fairness & equality. Why the guys need 2 serve military, why the gals dunnit? In Israel, the gals oso gotta serve the military. To be fair, why aren't the gals required 2 sacrifice 2.5 years of their youth, 2 serve in some public service, eg, civil defence (ambulance squad), or hospital nurses? Wat is National Service? Isn't it serving the Nation? Unless they call it Military Service, then it may be a different thing. Is serving the Nation only confined 2 within the Military only? These services are v useful in both peace & unrest times. Now, if a gruesome accident happens on the streets, u'll more likely see the SG gals scream their heads off, faint, etc etc. Some even need 2 go 4 counselling!!! knn, isnt tat requiring more resources? If they are medically trained, they could've gone 4ward 2 help the injured, help save lives!!! Tat is a tremendous increase in citizen resources, compared 2 now, many hospitals have 2 employ nurses / medical staffs from overseas, such as Philippines, PRC, etc etc.

My female colleagues & frens in Taiwan, they told me, if their husbands are capable enuf, they'll quit their jobs & be housewife. They are proud 2 tell their peers tat their husbands are capable enuf, & shows it by this action! If their husbands have affairs outside, they feel at fault, inferior, 4 not being attractive enuf 2 deter their husbands from straying, not being able 2 satisfy their husbands, tat the men gotta go outside 2 get satisfaction.

1 Taiwanese gal even told me, her Mum taught her, 男人不坏，女人不爱。宁愿跟浪子，不要嫁书生！There's several logic here: when the man is naughty, he is in control. Tis is definitely more impressive than the studious boy, who most often looks softer & sissy, compared 2 the naughty one. Oso, it gives them a better sense of security in the ability 2 protect them physically. It impresses them wif the masculinity. The pai kia would have played alot, usually much more experience than the studious boy. He would've seen & played so much, he's likely 2 be better in bed, &, been there, done tat on many things, he's more stable when he wanna settle down. 4 the studious boy, he is definitely more boring. He may be more stable in the beginning, but, 1 fine day, when he's led astray by other pple, or he meets temptations, things are so new, so exciting 4 him, he's more likely 2 get addicted 2 the things outside, u won't know when he'll turn back!

Initially when I was in PRC, during meal times, as a "gentleman", I took some dishes & placed on my female colleagues' plates. 1st few times, I was told not 2. Subsequently, I was told-off / scolded, 4 they said it's females' duties 2 serve the men, 2 do tat. My act seems trying 2 make them look irresponsible!!!

Wherever I am in AsiaPac (except SG), I am always served by the female guests at the meal table. Even my S. Korean gf (mind u, S. Korea & Japan are oso 1st world countries, if not more advanced than SG!!!) oso serves me well. And her salary's higher than mine! They all said it's the ladies' duty, it's basic courtesy. A female SG ex-colleague was told off when she was in Korea, when she's behaving like she behaved in SG!

Tat much said, if u look ard, those guys who try 2 satisfy their gf/wives, dun u hear more complains? Compared 2 those who are fiercer, who has more, who has less complaints? Give in 2 much 2 those spoilt brats, they'll climb over yr head, & it's never ending, 4 the rest of yr r'ship wif her!!! I remember once, a SG gal told me, they set different expectations of their men. Anybody can be frens, but their bf/husband must be much better, more outstanding than their other guy frens. Therefore, they expect more, if not much more from their bf/husband. Tat much 4 female ego.

Gals r known 2 be indecisive, poor sense of direction, dun really know wat they want. By giving in 2 their wimps & whines, or even outburst, 4 the sake of pacifying them, wat do u get? The complaints posted in this thread! By giving in, aren't u letting them take the lead, make the decision? And u wanna be led by indecisive pple, pple wif poor sense of direction, who often doesnt even really know wat they exact want?

Yes, not all SG gals r so bad as posted. But, I'd say, the number is alot, & is getting more! It's like a gamble, whether the next SG u choose is a good or bad one. 4 most guys, I believe, when u gamble, u'd prefer 2 gamble when u have higher confidence of winning. Though dating foreign gals have other implications, but at the end of the day, weighing all factors in, I (incl many other guys) feel tat the chances of a happy r'ship (& marriage) is higher wif overseas gals than SG gals!!!

So, I agree wif being firm & fierce wif SG gals, dun give in 2 their wimps & whine. I do not condone physical violence nor physical abuse. Tat is wat the Women's Charter had achieved, but on top of it, it has too much other contents tat plays a big part in 2day's situation. If the gal oso love & care about u, then she should oso care about yr thots & feelings, rather than 1-sided, solely her comforts, wishes, moods & happiness! But I can tell u, tat's gonna be a big risk: either the gal will hate u, walk away & leave u, or she'll love u more. This is a gamble u gonna face. So, we see many guys dun wanna gamble, cos they afraid the gals leave & walk away.

All in all, I'd say, SG gals 生在福中不知福。

The choice is yrs!

[dominion]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

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Tat said, SG gals want the best of both worlds, want the cake & eat it 2! Talk about Asian culture, men are the breadwinner, head of household, bring the bread home. When it comes 2 satisfying the men in return, they talk 2 u about being the "gentleman", the law, ie, Women's Charter. They only wanna win, & are v poor losers. Look at their attitude 2wards gals of neighboring (Asian) countries. At 1 period of time, they scorned at Thai gals, cos most WLs are Thai gals. In recent years, they turned their scorn 2wards PRC gals, becos many PRC gals are so much more beautiful yet submissive & obedient, they melt the men's hearts! These SG gals are smart. Knowing they definitely lose 2 these foreign gals, they make a big fuss, kick up a hooha, so 2 keep a tight hold on their men.

a man after my own heart
i salute you...
this is the reason why Im S.A.D

you expressed so succinctly what I felt all along, must put you on my uplist le

[Disgusted]

Did you guys read a report in the papers sometime back, it said that Singapore has a really high percentage where domestic abuse is done by the Female spouse rather than the guy. Ours guys are getting bitten up, and of course no face to report, but because girls are usually not strong, so they use things like frying pan and golf clubs to whack husband until need to go hospital!!!

Guys we need to teach them that they need to deserve us or we'll leave them alone! Please stop treating local girls like Golden CBs!!!

[OceanEleven]

Seems that the panache of bashing “Made in Sing” are still on going and better than ever as well. So far I have the pleasure of excusing myself to such bewildering actions from the opposite sex and relocate myself in a much favorable position where I can view all drama mama unveil to great extent. Not getting embroil in unnecessary squabbles and not entangle in unimaginable troubles. God bless.....

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by Disgusted

Did you guys read a report in the papers sometime back, it said that Singapore has a really high percentage where domestic abuse is done by the Female spouse rather than the guy. Ours guys are getting bitten up, and of course no face to report, but because girls are usually not strong, so they use things like frying pan and golf clubs to whack husband until need to go hospital!!!

Guys we need to teach them that they need to deserve us or we'll leave them alone! Please stop treating local girls like Golden CBs!!!

In this aspect, I'd say it's amazing tat SG gals are united enuf in playing this game wif SG guys. I feel the SG guys are not united enuf, not garang enuf. Probably kena tekan so much during NS, tat most lose the guts 2 rebel, 2 disagree. Most learn 2 be obedient.

Tat's oso wat I told frens, both male & females, I oso speak tat aloud, even when I'm on SG streets, tat they think their CB made of gold!!! Nevermind, gold is a commodity. If we are united enuf, let's play & speculate the market prices! A simply theory of supply vs demand. Once demand drops while supply remains constant, the price naturally drops! Rather, see how much higher can the price go? Currently, there's oredi strong competition from the region, not only in terms of quality, but oso quantity & prices! And these bitches still seem stubborn & ignorant about their positions. Nevermind, wait 4 the next economic market crash, then see show!!!

Gals r emotional creatures. Come a certain time, they'll need a man 4 emotional support, someone 2 be beside them. Not the $$$ factor, but they juz need tat someone, 2 let them feel wanted, protected. It's the feeling in them, tat they need 2 fulfill. While most men can simply do wif bonking.

If u noticed, many unmarried SG women after 35 yo, tend 2 behave strangely at times. Tat's mainly cos of the unbalanced life & emotional feelings in them. I'd seen a few overseas, 1 particular frightening case in Shanghai was even stalking an Msian colleague!!! Tat case, all my colleagues in China operations know! And my Msian colleague requested (& granted) 2 transfer 2 Europe, partly oso cos of tis issue. She eventually left the coy & joined another competitor coy. But she still continued 2 harass tat Msian guy, even sending email threats on business stuffs (since we're competitor firms). Me being in China, she soon started 2 turn her attention 2 me, so I oso ran 2 Hubei & GuangZhou, using business grounds. And she can send me emails at 11+ pm, telling me she's feeling very lonely, empty, etc etc. Mind u, a senior manager wif a worldwide renowned MNC behaving like tis? When she's supposed 2 manage her time & company's time very well?

But I believe, any man tat attaches wif her will be a happy man. She'll pamper her man, treat him as everything in her life!!! $$$ is not an issue 2 her at all. It's about satisfying her inner needs, hee hee hee. So, I think things may get worse b4 they get better. So guys, u have 2 get united in teaching these bitches a real good lesson b4 u can enjoy them!!!

While I'd oredi quit SG.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

If u noticed, many unmarried SG women after 35 yo, tend 2 behave strangely at times. Tat's mainly cos of the unbalanced life & emotional feelings in them. I'd seen a few overseas, 1 particular frightening case in Shanghai was even stalking an Msian colleague!!! Tat case, all my colleagues in China operations know! And my Msian colleague requested (& granted) 2 transfer 2 Europe, partly oso cos of tis issue. She eventually left the coy & joined another competitor coy. But she still continued 2 harass tat Msian guy, even sending email threats on business stuffs (since we're competitor firms). Me being in China, she soon started 2 turn her attention 2 me, so I oso ran 2 Hubei & GuangZhou, using business grounds. And she can send me emails at 11+ pm, telling me she's feeling very lonely, empty, etc etc. Mind u, a senior manager wif a worldwide renowned MNC behaving like tis? When she's supposed 2 manage her time & company's time very well?

I've had similar experiences but with Foreigners. The common points are that they are above 35 and in senior/exec mgmt in global MNCs. I guess they are just repressed and need attention.

Originally Posted by 84gunner

But I believe, any man tat attaches wif her will be a happy man. She'll pamper her man, treat him as everything in her life!!! $$$ is not an issue 2 her at all. It's about satisfying her inner needs, hee hee hee. So, I think things may get worse b4 they get better. So guys, u have 2 get united in teaching these bitches a real good lesson b4 u can enjoy them!!!

Half agree. Once you satisfy her needs, she'll treat you well. So well, that you may get BJs as wakeup calls and BJs before bedtime... sometimes even during lunch and teabreaks. You get everything and much more. That's where the half agree part comes in. She'll give you so much more that you'd suffocate... suddenly that 3 BJs are day becomes 20! and she'll be upset if you reject. She'll keep on harping on how you don't care about her any more, you are not the same as before, etc. You'll give in to her and before you know it, one week later it's 30 BJs, 40 BJs, and so on. Very soon, you'll find your life totally sucked right out of you (pun intended).

So... if you have not experienced getting sick of BJs, go look for Snr Mgmt in MNCs in their mid to late 30s. Attending board meetings will never be the same again.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Half agree. Once you satisfy her needs, she'll treat you well. So well, that you may get BJs as wakeup calls and BJs before bedtime... sometimes even during lunch and teabreaks. You get everything and much more. That's where the half agree part comes in. She'll give you so much more that you'd suffocate... suddenly that 3 BJs are day becomes 20! and she'll be upset if you reject. She'll keep on harping on how you don't care about her any more, you are not the same as before, etc. You'll give in to her and before you know it, one week later it's 30 BJs, 40 BJs, and so on. Very soon, you'll find your life totally sucked right out of you (pun intended).

So... if you have not experienced getting sick of BJs, go look for Snr Mgmt in MNCs in their mid to late 30s. Attending board meetings will never be the same again.

haha, agree wif this point. Besides tat, u may not need 2 worry about anything financially, she'll may shoulder the $$$ costs of dates, outings, etc etc.

But, it might oso lead back 2 square when u let someone wif poor sense of direction leading u, not 2 mention the psychologically unbalanced!!!

Ya, experience the "dry" spell every now & then, ever since I quit SG. Knn, u juz wanna "hang white flag" & stay away from sex 4 a least the next few days!!!

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

Ya, experience the "dry" spell every now & then, ever since I quit SG. Knn, u juz wanna "hang white flag" & stay away from sex 4 a least the next few days!!!

This is 1 major difference I noticed between SG gals & foreign gals, at least from my experience.

Many SG gals view sex wif her bf/husband as a chore, as a duty, rather than the pleasurable feelings & times enjoyed by both parties. So it's kinda rather mechanical task. It's oso common 2 hear them using sex as a bait 2 get the guys 2 do things or reward them, which ends up & seems like a commodity / trade / deal.

My PRC & Thai gfs, especially b4 I travel, whether 2 another city or province or country, they'd bonk me like they're gonna miss me a long time! Especially my Hubei gf, even during lunch time oso we went back 2 my hotel room 4 quickie, until I missed lunch & gotta eat snacks. Lucky tat my Korean gf is steadily constant.

Tat Hubei gf even told me, she cant control me nor able 2 stop me from bonking other gals when she's not beside me. She knows it's a fact, useless 2 deceive herself, she rather face & accept tis fact. She told me 2 promise her I must wear cap whenever / whoever I bonk. But well, she can bonk me 11 rounds in a week, tat resting well is the more on my mind than sex!!! But well, wif this strategy, she readily wins bigger time; She sextified me, made me happy, at the same time, it keeps me from bonking 2 many other gals, at least within those next few days!!! Inside me, I'd often tell myself I'm a real lucky man, especially compared wif many peers in SG!!!

I often describe 2 my frens, when in AsiaPac (excl SG), it's nto afraid tat u dun have enuf $$$, it's afraid tat u dun have enuf energy!!! Knn, u go imagine, so much sex until yr legs oso soft when walking, & the feeling of "warehouse inventory stock" running low is oso quite strange & not quite nice.

[yanz]

very intresting. pls continue in sharing ur views on local gals.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

.... totally agreed with this. instead of being contented with what we have given to them, they want what others have... damn, we dont have a $ printing machine at home, u know??? every cent is blood and sweat!!!

as the old saying goes: 人比人，气死人。and the funny thing is, they never reflect if their frens did anything to deserve that treatment received? or perhaps the hubby struct lottery or had a promo/raise and so.. can better afford some luxuries.

Originally Posted by _AXL_

will try to find out if that is true... *wink*

if it aint true, observe... gals of other nationalities like to compliment their fren's partners of being outstanding & virtuos, while the she'd return compliments to her fren...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

... I admit, I am a MCP. But then, if u look at the cultures in Asian countries, aren't they mostly, if not all, male oriented? It's the ang mohs who talk more about being "gentleman", but then, if u look beyond the manners, it's juz another trick 2 pamper & coax the gals 2 bed!!! In Asia, it's the culture tat men are the breadwinners. While it's oso normal 4 women 2 stay & home 2 take care of the household. Tat's the term housewife. U heard of the word "house-husband"? If the man stays at home, dun bring the bread home, while the wife goes out 2 work & bring the bread home, u call this man gigolo, spineless, & watever negative remarks & names. But there's still quite some of this type of men in Asia! In ang moh countries, such men are not so scorned upon, compared 2 in Asia. In some ang moh countries, there's even an occupation called "Domestic Engineer"! It's nicer term for "house-husband", ie, the man stays at home & takes care of the household (men are usually better in engineering aspects).

i think not all gals subscribe to such treatment, and of all things u examplified the ah beng+ ah lian scenario, which to me is quite odd. 1 simple reason, almost 99% of such abusive relationships fail drastic. the following chapter as seen almost all the time....

a nice chap comes along, deals to the gal ample TLC, sweeps her off her battered limbs... and she dumps the abusive ah beng like a sack of hot potatoes. then, what comes next? the ah beng will be crying father & mother... complain to his peers that the gf 走师 (zao sai) "run lion".

so in the case of ah lian being submissive to the abusive ah beng... she's nothing but his flower pot, 1 that he lugs around like a rag doll, a bag that he can land a few punch & kicks so as to satisfy his sorry self with. by that, i think she's just simply excuse brains... no much different from a blown up sex doll, except she comes with a pulse, and routine monthly cycle of 大姨妈