Woes of a Cat 40 tirak.

[sir cum-a-lot]

Originally Posted by thekiller

Of cos not. U no need to teach me how to fuck.

I need a Family Planner. Not a financial planner. I think u can help. Just give us some general guidelines.

He can only offer you advise, but you now want him be your family planner? You wanna let him tell you how many kids to have, want him tell you when to f**k, when no f**k si bo? Please lah, for your own sake, for everyone's sake, spare us all. Don't make your problem his problem.

I refered you to PM him on tirak matters is because he been trhu the same shit. Now you buay paiseh tell him be your family planner

Originally Posted by sir cum-a-lot

He can only offer you advise, but you now want him be your family planner? You wanna let him tell you how many kids to have, want him tell you when to f**k, when no f**k si bo? Please lah, for your own sake, for everyone's sake, spare us all. Don't make your problem his problem.

I refered you to PM him on tirak matters is because he been trhu the same shit. Now you buay paiseh tell him be your family planner

Sorry. Maybe I am really giving many people problems. Well, I just want to make an effort to show the problems of a tirakship.

Originally Posted by Junichi

She not yet say want to be ur gf,but already discuss where to have the baby born,where to educate the baby.Dun u think its a little bit count the chicks before they are hatched?

This one I really dunno why. Maybe I just leave it as it is. Better dun pressure her. I dun want to lose her for anything in the world.

Originally Posted by Junichi

Now not so bad,whenever u think of her or cant sleep,u can head down to GL to see her for ST,ON if u want.But when she ORD and goes back LOS,u will have a even harder time coping with the relationship.That is when the test really comes in.Not is still honeymoon period.Most tiraks enjoy this period of time.Only when she goes back,the test of "TRUE LOVE" comes into place.

Slowly things like having a kid back in LOS,having a bf and many other stuffs will slowly unreveal...

I agree. But I feel that she is not lying anythiing. She even show me the things she send back home and none for a guy except a fake LV wallet for her dad.

Originally Posted by Junichi

Heng huh,i only need 10years to move to LOS.20 years are a bit far fetched.Sure or not u do not mind being a Single Dad?

Does a lawyer need to rely on his kids to feed him?He should be rich enough to provide his future generation born with at least a silver spoon.And not the other way around.

I do not mind being a single dad if one day she leaves me. Watch "6 Weeks" by Adrian Pang. Then u will know what I mean.

Originally Posted by Junichi

Slowly things like having a kid back in LOS,having a bf and many other stuffs will slowly unreveal...

meaning will reveal or not?

Originally Posted by Junichi

Eat shit like bro Jun|ch| loh!! Sleep at busstops like him also loh...

As what he said,everything is just prelimary stages only.Honeymoon periods only talk about sweet plannings.Not yet go into details.That is why have to wait for her ORD then the actual planning comes into place.If the day would come.

Okie I get what u mean.

If she accepts me as a bf, then just maintain the relationship during her stay in SG. One week see her one time like what other bros have told me.

The rest of the planning just wait till she is about to go back Thailand then plan huh?

Originally Posted by Junichi

Yeap!!

See properly.

Surviving in LOS with that kind of money is enough.But living well in LOS is not enough.Living well does not mean drive posh cars,stay 3 storey bungalows.Cheong thong lor pubs every nite.

Living well as in u do not have to scrimp and save everyday.U get to indulge in restaurants eating,movies and shopping as well.

Btw, how much does a toyota corolla cost in Thailand?

Originally Posted by Junichi

One good ADVICE for u now.Enjoy the time u get to see her ANYTIME ,ANYWHERE at GL in SG.

Wait till she go back LOS,then u and her start planning.Since u just got to know her.

Pay her a visit at her home in upcountry.Verifying that u are the new sponsor for the family.The new cars,building of house,plus buying of land for cultivation will be placed under ur hands.

Look out for kids and elder brothers around.She will say they are her aunties' kids.

These are only the basics of checking.If u really want to know more,since probably she alreadys knows how to fool u ard that.U can learn more here.

I think this is the only thing I can do now. Thanks for this piece of advice.

Just enjoy my time with her and if she accepts me as a bf then do what a bf does to a gf.

When she goes back Thailand, then follow her back and stay with her for a few weeks.

If everything goes well, then maybe can start planning for a wedding. One step at a time now lor. Cannot rush.

Meanwhile, I really must enjoy my time there. No point worrying too much.

Originally Posted by Junichi

Depends on whether u can catch her lying or not loh.Some maybe together for tirak for a long time,in the end then realise she have kids and husband in upcountry. Like that u can LUN or not?

I told her if one day she really lies to me and leaves me, then also no choice.I am the one who wants to play along with her. Blame no one.

Of cos I cannot lun if such things happen, if it should happen, lesson learnt and just pick up quickly.

Originally Posted by Junichi

Another gan yuan jiu hao!!

But good to have such mentality.

of cos. If u want to get into any relationship, be it local gals or WLs, u have to be able to accept that one day they will leave, be it they die or they leave with another man.

Originally Posted by Junichi

The harsh conditions in upcountry was not for lawyers to stay and i mean it!!

I think at most u can stay for a few days.I myself tried staying in Isaan with very poor living conditions for 10days.They did not even have a proper shitting toilet.How can a lawyer like u stoop to stay like that rite?

But kind of enjoyable going to the plains and trying out farming under the hot sun.

If u want,better stay in bangkok with her.But u cant get to know her parents too.Also not forgetting Sin Sot u have to pay when getting married with her.How much u going to pay? U lawyer leh,since ur tirak will tell the family.Be prepared to pay alot alot for the Sin sot.

What is Sin Sot?

[sir cum-a-lot]

Originally Posted by thekiller

I told her if one day she really lies to me and leaves me, then also no choice.I am the one who wants to play along with her. Blame no one.

Of cos I cannot lun if such things happen, if it should happen, lesson learnt and just pick up quickly.

for now, you already buay tahan her actions while in GL. then by the time truth is revealed that she lying and have busload of hungry children and low-income husband at home, you think you can just pick up double quick time and recover meh?

some success story happening as we speak, many go quiet after the WL ORD. you ever wondered what happened? maybe some who bang wall when they find out the truth, go drown themselve in the mekong river or sleep on railway to end their lives.

please don't talk until its like a game, can press reset button or use cheat code. 1 thing for sure, you can never turn back the clock. time is precious.

[sir cum-a-lot]

Originally Posted by thekiller

What is Sin Sot?

seng-sot=dowry (maybe some1 can correct my spelling)

[sir cum-a-lot]

Originally Posted by thekiller

of cos. If u want to get into any relationship, be it local gals or WLs, u have to be able to accept that one day they will leave, be it they die or they leave with another man.

if you really say you gam-guan, then why all the headache? just take every step a day at a time and count your blessing lor.