woes of a tirak

[suteerak1099]

many would've been wondering how & when do they consider themselves tirak, or at least have joined the higher rankings of the WL. its comes not as a surprise if u've guessed that most WLs will most indefinately have a list of tiraks be it on her mind or in the hp call list.

being a regular cant quite determine u're 1, but at least it paints the image for the rest of her colleagues/other patrons - assuming u're 1 of the few big fish that the WL's successfully netted. showering TLC, pouring riches & gifts dun make 1 a tirak too...although it seems so. at the end of the day, it still boils down to 1 thing: "$$$"

its true that some might have shared their experiences, of when the WL claims he's her 1 & only. somehow, lets not take it overboard - bt just gotta take it w a pinch of salt. there's no telling how much trust she's invested in u. yet again, this trust level is subjected to individuals...

some might WLs call her tirak at varied times a day, so as to maximize the chances of him patronizing her the next time he visits GL. some get their tiraks to run errands for her, due to the fact that she's confined in there. some call their tiraks often enuff to monitor his movements to ensure he's not patronizing another WL elsewhere. there's other means n methods that the individual WLs apply in getting their tirak's attention.

i'm sure there's more experiences of wat goes on between the tirak n the WL, perhaps where she's even giving him $ or sponsoring his random visits from time to time. some cry n confide in their tirak when they encounter nasty guests etc. nonetheless, just creating this thread for all u tiraks out there to post ur treats n woes of being a tirak.

note, u're not obliged to disclose who/ where ur darling WL is.. just for sharing how u may have been well/mis-treated by ur tirak.

"the greatest thing is to love & be loved in return" : the key phrase featured in the movie 'moulin rouge'

[The Punisher]

it appears that you do not understand the word "tirak" which actually means "darling" so you are adding to the common confusion of equating "tirak" to being a regular of the WL (for customers), and your regular WL (for gers).

so i cannot see how you are able to have an effective thread if you do not even understand the basic meanings in the first place.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by The Punisher

it appears that you do not understand the word "tirak" which actually means "darling" so you are adding to the common confusion of equating "tirak" to being a regular of the WL (for customers), and your regular WL (for gers).

so i cannot see how you are able to have an effective thread if you do not even understand the basic meanings in the first place.

kekekekeke, so start your "punishing" already ah? kekekekeke

and he dares call himself with a "thai nick" kekekekekeke

Originally Posted by The Punisher

it appears that you do not understand the word "tirak" which actually means "darling" so you are adding to the common confusion of equating "tirak" to being a regular of the WL (for customers), and your regular WL (for gers).

so i cannot see how you are able to have an effective thread if you do not even understand the basic meanings in the first place.

To avoid confusion or if not sure, always use "tirak" instead of tirak.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by The Punisher

it appears that you do not understand the word "tirak" which actually means "darling" so you are adding to the common confusion of equating "tirak" to being a regular of the WL (for customers), and your regular WL (for gers).

so i cannot see how you are able to have an effective thread if you do not even understand the basic meanings in the first place.

thanx for the highlight, not that i dun understand the term "tirak". just that in most cases ppl tend to refer to it as regular, than wat it truly is meant in thai. perhaps by virtue of the fact that most WLs r quite pretentious about the "tirak" issue.

anyways, now that the air is clear.. if u've got treats & woes to share.. pls feel free to share. cheers!

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

thanx for the highlight, not that i dun understand the term "tirak". just that in most cases ppl tend to refer to it as regular, than wat it truly is meant in thai. perhaps by virtue of the fact that most WLs r quite pretentious about the "tirak" issue.

anyways, now that the air is clear.. if u've got treats & woes to share.. pls feel free to share. cheers!

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... (thumbs up!)

My hats off to you that you are able to take flames like a gentleman as I tot you're going to retaliate.

I can see that this forum now has a future!!!

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... (thumbs up!)

My hats off to you that you are able to take flames like a gentleman as I tot you're going to retaliate.

I can see that this forum now has a future!!!

But in the 1st place, is there a need for a flame to be started so that people can retaliate?

Peace..........

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[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... (thumbs up!)

My hats off to you that you are able to take flames like a gentleman as I tot you're going to retaliate.

I can see that this forum now has a future!!!

I have just up his rep pts back to the default 10 pts just to give him some encouragement to keep it up... And because he can take bad comments in a gentleman manner, he deserve it...

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

But in the 1st place, is there a need for a flame to be started so that people can retaliate?

Peace..........

SC

No, there isn't but then again, you'll still see flames coming or going lah... what to do?

..... and Joy!

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i'm sure there's more experiences of wat goes on between the tirak n the WL, perhaps where she's even giving him $ or sponsoring his random visits from time to time. some cry n confide in their tirak when they encounter nasty guests etc. nonetheless, just creating this thread for all u tiraks out there to post ur treats n woes of being a tirak.

Since you threadstarter, why not you start off with an area, then we see what we can contribute.

Treats and woes too many, I don't know where to start also.

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[sneksg]

So timely, juz when i wanted to start a thread....... to share my woes.

For my gal, we often go out and always i end up buying some stuff for her..... like mobile phone.... pendant etc.. Think i was asking for trouble by agreeing to buy the items for her.

Funny thing is I dont speak thai and she does not understand and cannot read english. So we converse in simple mandarin.... there are times when she is unable to explain and brushes it off with "bu hui jiang". There are times when she calls me when she is suppose to be working..... saying miss me etc...

She lets me see and use her mobile phone..... so far only see my pic in it with hers.... saw her mesgs and i know more or less there are other guys who sms or call her.... wonder if they know that she cannot read english. At least when i book her, she refuses to pick up other calls...
It MAY be that she treats me specially, cos she only seems to go out with me. When i book her, she has a specific set of clothes for me and each time i visit her, she has a specific towel for me. Found that my toothbrush is the only one in her bathroom....even on my surprise visits... thank god.
Actually, i do not mind her having another guy, cos dont want her to be too attached to me, else jialat.

Recently, she got quite a couple of request.....
1. It was her birthday and she asked me for $$$ to either blanjah her friends makan or sponsor her $200 quilt set. Is it common for the gal to ask you for $$$..... to buy something?
2. She starts to use my phone to my long distance call..... lucky it is StarHub 018 to thailand.... shew!!!!
3. She ask me if i could subscribe a local mobile line for her..... wah piang...

Was wondering what i should do and whether if I should end it...... but cant bare to do so.... any experience or advice on this?

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by sneksg

Recently, she got quite a couple of request.....
1. It was her birthday and she asked me for $$$ to either blanjah her friends makan or sponsor her $200 quilt set. Is it common for the gal to ask you for $$$..... to buy something?
2. She starts to use my phone to my long distance call..... lucky it is StarHub 018 to thailand.... shew!!!!
3. She ask me if i could subscribe a local mobile line for her..... wah piang...

Was wondering what i should do and whether if I should end it...... but cant bare to do so.... any experience or advice on this?

Bro.... No......

I think U are fast becoming a 'walking ATM' if u continue like this.....

1) Do u think she can't afford to pay for the meal? How can thaT BE POSSIBLY BE? ( Eg she serves 12 Customers per day) therefore : 12x$20= $240 / per day. = $240x 27days = $6480/mth this amount excludes booking.Not forgetting TIPS from other customers

2) With the a/m amount u think they can't pays for the HP bill???

3)Unless u are comfortable.. Cos i have heard from other gal that my ex gal has ever chalked up to $1000+ Hp bills and her tirak was so piss of that he Lan Lan has to pay for 1/2 the amount as the line is under his name,..

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sneksg

So timely, juz when i wanted to start a thread....... to share my woes.

For my gal, we often go out and always i end up buying some stuff for her..... like mobile phone.... pendant etc.. Think i was asking for trouble by agreeing to buy the items for her.

Funny thing is I dont speak thai and she does not understand and cannot read english. So we converse in simple mandarin.... there are times when she is unable to explain and brushes it off with "bu hui jiang". There are times when she calls me when she is suppose to be working..... saying miss me etc...

She lets me see and use her mobile phone..... so far only see my pic in it with hers.... saw her mesgs and i know more or less there are other guys who sms or call her.... wonder if they know that she cannot read english. At least when i book her, she refuses to pick up other calls...
It MAY be that she treats me specially, cos she only seems to go out with me. When i book her, she has a specific set of clothes for me and each time i visit her, she has a specific towel for me. Found that my toothbrush is the only one in her bathroom....even on my surprise visits... thank god.
Actually, i do not mind her having another guy, cos dont want her to be too attached to me, else jialat.

Recently, she got quite a couple of request.....
1. It was her birthday and she asked me for $$$ to either blanjah her friends makan or sponsor her $200 quilt set. Is it common for the gal to ask you for $$$..... to buy something?
2. She starts to use my phone to my long distance call..... lucky it is StarHub 018 to thailand.... shew!!!!
3. She ask me if i could subscribe a local mobile line for her..... wah piang...

Was wondering what i should do and whether if I should end it...... but cant bare to do so.... any experience or advice on this?

When you buy things for her, do you feel happy? If you feel happy, why bother? Unless you do not feel happy after spending all the money, then think deep into it.

1. Actually, you see when you date a normal girl, they also will ask you for presents too. So you must see whether this kind of girl is the kind of materialistic girl. If you think she is materialistic, then forget her.

2.You can also get her to use Starhub prepaid. Got free 018

3. Depends on you lor.

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[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by sneksg

It MAY be that she treats me specially, cos she only seems to go out with me. When i book her, she has a specific set of clothes for me and each time i visit her, she has a specific towel for me. Found that my toothbrush is the only one in her bathroom....even on my surprise visits... thank god.
Actually, i do not mind her having another guy, cos dont want her to be too attached to me, else jialat.

That's one of those examples that we men are weak in(including myself). We always assume that if we are close to her then we are the ONE. But in fact, there are ways for a thai girl to win our hearts. From my opinion, I think either she's really an expert on playing mind games or she really like you. But not forgetting the point that she can always hide the rest of the toothbrushes, clothes or even that specific towel. Or everyone of the tirak uses the same set as u. keke

Originally Posted by sneksg

Recently, she got quite a couple of request.....
1. It was her birthday and she asked me for $$$ to either blanjah her friends makan or sponsor her $200 quilt set. Is it common for the gal to ask you for $$$..... to buy something?
2. She starts to use my phone to my long distance call..... lucky it is StarHub 018 to thailand.... shew!!!!
3. She ask me if i could subscribe a local mobile line for her..... wah piang...

Was wondering what i should do and whether if I should end it...... but cant bare to do so.... any experience or advice on this?

1. It's not whether is it common for the girl to ask you for $$$, it's whether are you trapped inside her cunt already. Even if you have a Sg gf, she also expects you to shower her with gifts and treats. But the point is that you have to gauge yourself when is the limit. For your case, I see you been used as her "CARROT HEAD".

2. That's the best way to save her phone bills. She can do it to you so she can do it to others as well.

3. If you do it, please be prepare to face a heavy subscription phone bill sponsorship program. I would say she will promise to pay you but everytime if you need to collect $$$ for her you must first fork out $40 to collect the $$$ from her. So for you is a "lose lose" situation but even we can give advices, utimately it's up to you to decide whether you want to be a good samatarian. My advice is if you are not serious with her, stay out from this and I assure you that you will have a better life. Cheers!

[sneksg]

Thanks guys..... u all made me think with the correct head......

So how do you all juggle the $$$ and the relationship with them.... How do u subtlely tell them NO, yet they will be ok with it?