woes of a tirak

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

5stone, well said lol. some just enjoy dwelling n wollowing in the mud pit while others choose to lick the battle wounds, pick themselves up n move on to brave new challenges/conquer new frontiers hehe.

In life, no pain no gain.

Forrest Gump's mama said:"Life is like box of chocolate, you'll never know what're gonna get in it."

[free]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

In life, no pain no gain.

Forrest Gump's mama said:"Life is like box of chocolate, you'll never know what're gonna get in it."

Then there is this thing called "Law of Averages". Each time we fail, and we try again, we are one step closer to success. Provided we learn from our mistakes of course!

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by free

Then there is this thing called "Law of Averages". Each time we fail, and we try again, we are one step closer to success. Provided we learn from our mistakes of course!

Agreed, been there, done that and standing at where I am now.

[free]

Originally Posted by ruhua_

All sad fucks please take note if you want to find tirak in Geylang.

I suppose so, if u only see things from a very narrow perspective, as if GL is the only place on this earth to find a woman of yr dreams. And even if so, would you for the same type of women as the one before, or someone better (means more compatible)?

The only thing worse than looking for turtles in the same pond is to look for the same kind of turtles. That meant no lessons had been least. Sequel 2 is but a re-run of the 1st.

[critic]

Originally Posted by free

I suppose so, if u only see things from a very narrow perspective, as if GL is the only place on this earth to find a woman of yr dreams. And even if so, would you for the same type of women as the one before, or someone better (means more compatible)?

The only thing worse than looking for turtles in the same pond is to look for the same kind of turtles. That meant no lessons had been least. Sequel 2 is but a re-run of the 1st.

Agree. So when are you going to find a teerak that's not a WL or ex- WL? Looks like the same 'pond' with fancied fish names like Rain, Dancer or whatever???

the day my sweetheart comes crying..keke

critic

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by critic

Agree. So when are you going to find a teerak that's not a WL or ex- WL? Looks like the same 'pond' with fancied fish names like Rain, Dancer or whatever???

critic

If I don't up your rep pts, I will not be able to sleep tonight.

Funny thing is that a samster A gave me the thai handphone number of that girl while she was in SG working as an FL and told me that there's a samster B interested in her or that she is the tirak of a samster B or something like dat. I asked for the nick of the samster B but samster wouldn't want to give it to me, saying he'll let me know later. He gave me the number as she is also working in an MP while she is in BKK.

Later samster A gave me the nick of samster B, and since I know samster B, I deleted the WL number.

And according to samster B's post in another thread, when he met his present love, he was not aware that she was a WL/FL or that she has already stop being a WL. Basically, what he wanted to impressed upon readers was that he met the girl on some "innocent" circumstances.

So as not to deviate from the topic of this thread, one of the woes of tiraks (samsters) is that they has to fake stories to impress upon others as to how good their tiraks (WL) are. Not that their tiraks are not good, but many of them would rather you speak the truth, or don't say anything at all.

My 2 cents worth.

thaivisitor

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by critic

Agree. So when are you going to find a teerak that's not a WL or ex- WL? Looks like the same 'pond' with fancied fish names like Rain, Dancer or whatever???

BTW, if you check back previous posts (don't know which thread), he has said that he had the chance to know many TGs, even not WLs due to his expertise in the foreign language.

You rightly put it, Rani, Dancer and whatever.... same pond with fancied fish names.

I don't know, may be I missed it, but in between his relationship with these girls, I don't recall reading any love story with a non WL where he could have met thru the internet, or wherever.... Have anyone?

I'm sure that had there been such a relationship, it would have been posted.

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

BTW, if you check back previous posts (don't know which thread), he has said that he had the chance to know many TGs, even not WLs due to his expertise in the foreign language.

You rightly put it, Rani, Dancer and whatever.... same pond with fancied fish names.

I don't know, may be I missed it, but in between his relationship with these girls, I don't recall reading any love story with a non WL where he could have met thru the internet, or wherever.... Have anyone?

I'm sure that had there been such a relationship, it would have been posted

My friend, each time u talk like u are Mr. Know-All, you confirm that you either practice selective amnesia (remember only the parts u want remember) or you dun read the entire posts, even if you thought u did. Specifically I did tell you that Miss R, my Dreamgal is not Rain, but you never read that, I am sure. And of course there was Dancer's classmate and even her best frd while she was in CR. But I cannot be spending time with all of them forever, and I had to choose 1 and chose I did. Maybe a self-declared cheongster like u will do otherwise, but u really can't have any love r/s with them at all, cos u had advised others not to play around when they got wives mah! Or u forgot that already?

Worst, u might have an ulterior motive (I hope not) cos it is just too consistent. Or u must have the last word cos "everybody" think vely LC? If you want to "police" me like this, its OK, but you then have the obligation to go read every single post I have made, since Jan 2003. Maybe even go and dig out the archives of the old LDTR thread to compare. Then perhaps u will see that while there might be little loops occasionally, the direction I am on has always been consistent, cos there is only 1 version for truth. Dun tell me u have not the patience nor the time, or u effectlvely disqualify yourself to judge me (even though u keep saying u are not judging).

Just who are u to me, really? That I must report every date I had with every TG and post an "FR" for you to read? U think I need to show proof to you? Sorry hor, if u think I am bullshitting, carry on lor. Some of my close and important SBF friends do know about these TGs I dated and some even have met/talked to them personally. Anyway u are too busy to spend yr precious time with a small fry like me and my TGs. Guess u won't be keen on knowing them anyway, cos by time I dated them, even the ex-WL/FL is no longer available for u, however much $$ u may be willing to pay them. I have certainly dated other TGs (& non-TGs) who have never sold their bodies but that is not your business either. BTW, meeting a person for a couple of hours (minutes, really cos u in so hot demand mah) in a TCSS at GL10 is not getting to know a person, surely.

I choose my current tirak to walk my final lap because she matches who I want for my future life partner best, whatever her and my past was. We dun live in the past. It's gone! Tomorrow is better.

I am sure I am making the right choice (or at least the best I could) as even today with my "meeting" of other educated and eligible professional TGs, (and no longer restricted to just in English) where 2 persons can get real close as we share tots/emotions/cyber-whatever online, my tirak remains my prefered one. I had tot that will change, but our feelings for each other have gotten stronger with each "cyber-threat" instead. Dreams & Fantasy, u might be tempted to say? Well that is for us to know and for ppl like u to "analyse".

She is good enough for me. And I am good enough for her. That's what matters - not what u think or say.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by free

My friend, each time u talk like u are Mr. Know-All, you confirm that you either practice selective amnesia (remember only the parts u want remember) or you dun read the entire posts, even if you thought u did.

Some people must take their own advice from their own postings, as what they post actually reflects what they are doing.

And I quote my post again.

BTW, if you check back previous posts (don't know which thread), he has said that he had the chance to know many TGs, even not WLs due to his expertise in the foreign language.

You rightly put it, Rani, Dancer and whatever.... same pond with fancied fish names.

I don't know, may be I missed it, but in between his relationship with these girls, I don't recall reading any love story with a non WL where he could have met thru the internet, or wherever.... Have anyone?

I'm sure that had there been such a relationship, it would have been posted.

If anybody don't understand which part of my post, they are free, oops! I mean welcome to hightlight it. And I'll show that nowhere in my post did I contradict myself.

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

If I don't up your rep pts, I will not be able to sleep tonight.

Funny thing is that a samster A gave me the thai handphone number of that girl while she was in SG working as an FL and told me that there's a samster B interested in her or that she is the tirak of a samster B or something like dat. I asked for the nick of the samster B but samster wouldn't want to give it to me, saying he'll let me know later. He gave me the number as she is also working in an MP while she is in BKK.

Later samster A gave me the nick of samster B, and since I know samster B, I deleted the WL number.

And according to samster B's post in another thread, when he met his present love, he was not aware that she was a WL/FL or that she has already stop being a WL. Basically, what he wanted to impressed upon readers was that he met the girl on some "innocent" circumstances.

So as not to deviate from the topic of this thread, one of the woes of tiraks (samsters) is that they has to fake stories to impress upon others as to how good their tiraks (WL) are. Not that their tiraks are not good, but many of them would rather you speak the truth, or don't say anything at all.

Haha, Mr Know-all, I know about her past, what she did in SG & BKK before we started, much more than u will ever know. And I did not say I dun know what she had been, cos I did, and I have never attempted to hide her past and pretended she was a pure decent angel. Sigh, symptoms of aging you now got, my friend - amnesia and confusion.

I know u have error in yr info, kekeke. Someone told you? Like a bro said, believe only when u hear from the horse's mouth. Why you put words into my mouth yet again? lidat good meh? Not very ethical leh. Tot being ethical is something u are proud of?

So? I met her right here in GL cos I wanted someone to talked to who is of a similar age to Dancer, cos I was with Dancer at that time I met her. I know her boss then and I still see him sometimes when I come to buy my fav meal at the coffeeshop. When she was still working, she was never my tirak, cos I cannot bring myself to have a tirak who is an active WL or FL. No, I wasn't even interested in her then - just a good friend who gave me some insights in how a young TG might think. And I met her again by chance in BKK airport. (this word again is very significant u know? Changes the whole story if it is missing. U never read?) That rekindled our friendship - still no love yet hor. I called her often as a frd when I was in LOS with Rain, but never had time to meet her as I was with Rain (damn far away)and she knew. Is that how a man treats a woman he is interested in (as you alleged)? Tell her "sorry lah, I can't come see u cos now I am with my gf whom I am hoping to marry?" Siao si bo?

I can't believe that u expected me to post every little detail? Come on, inspite of yr denials, u either had ulterior motives or somewhere within you, a raw nerve is still hurting & probably hurting badly too. Pleae dun think when I added to your post, I was attacking u, Nothing that sort. It was purely to put a point across that there are risk involved with cheonging. Some bros here already kena from their CO when they got caught and it is no fun, I am sure. Dun need to interprete anything more out of it.

Anyway, I say again, I accepted with her past even as I opened my heart to her love, knowing what I already did. Guess u too high class to do such a thingy right? That she comes up tops compared with the other "more qualified" women and she turned out to be better than I dare hope for, is something I should celebrate, should I not? And u seem upset? Shouldn't u happy for her, that she can reform, 'O loving husband of a good thai lady'?

Yaa kit maak maak na!

Psssh. tell u a secret. MP? I think u got the wrong ger. That could be my nong, assuming u even got that correct

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

BTW, if you check back previous posts (don't know which thread), he has said that he had the chance to know many TGs, even not WLs due to his expertise in the foreign language.

You rightly put it, Rani, Dancer and whatever.... same pond with fancied fish names.

I don't know, may be I missed it, but in between his relationship with these girls, I don't recall reading any love story with a non WL where he could have met thru the internet, or wherever.... Have anyone?

I'm sure that had there been such a relationship, it would have been posted.

If anybody don't understand which part of my post, they are free, oops! I mean welcome to hightlight it. And I'll show that nowhere in my post did I contradict myself.

Sure u did not contradict yrself, for you had been terribly consistent in mis-reading (intentionally or not, only u know) my posts, if u even read them at all. That my friend is what I have been trying to tell you.

Dun you have any concept of time (chronological order) at all? All those names u mentioned above happened months before I started my Internet Chatting in Thai. When I met these gals, I can't do that yet. Give u benefit of doubt - u are indeed getting old and forgetful.confused. Cos the other possibility speaks of an evil man out to tarnish another (for whatever reasons?) and I rather NOT think of u as such. Prefer to think of TV as the one I knew when I met him some months ago.

My Internet "romps" are much more recent. Why no mention of names? For what? For you? Why no stories? Cos there are of ordinary/normal TGs leading normal lives, except for 1 SYT. Stories about one only my closer friends will know. Too private and fun lah. Why no stories, ask? Cos inspite of all this wonderful women I know, one woman still stands out in my heart - my tirak. So there's no news and no news is good news for us.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by free

Haha, Mr Know-all, I know about her past, what she did in SG & BKK before we started, much more than u will ever know. And I did not say I dun know what she had been, cos I did, and I have never attempted to hide her past and pretended she was a pure decent angel. Sigh, symptoms of aging you now got, my friend - amnesia and confusion.

So? I met her right here in GL cos I wanted someone to talked to who is of a similar age to Dancer, cos I was with Dancer at that time I met her. I know her boss then and I still see him sometimes when I come to buy my fav meal at the coffeeshop. When she was still working, she was never my tirak, cos I cannot bring myself to have a tirak who is an active WL or FL. No, I wasn't even interested in her then - just a good friend who gave me some insights in how a young TG might think.

*sign* I think I have to repeat someone's post so that he can take his own advise.
"you dun read the entire posts, even if you thought u did. "

*sign* Again I have to show my post.

"Funny thing is that a samster A gave me the thai handphone number of that girl while she was in SG working as an FL and told me that there's a samster B interested in her or that she is the tirak of a samster B or something like dat. I asked for the nick of the samster B but samster wouldn't want to give it to me, saying he'll let me know later. He gave me the number as she is also working in an MP while she is in BKK.

Later samster A gave me the nick of samster B, and since I know samster B, I deleted the WL number."

I think bros who read my post would understand very clearly that the samster B is already interested in this girl while she was working as an FL in SG when her contact number was given to me.

But of course the samster B is clearly saying that is not the case thru all his story and his postings, thus giving the impression that he met her or so called fall in love with her on other circumstances.

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

*sign* I think I have to repeat someone's post so that he can take his own advise.
"you dun read the entire posts, even if you thought u did. "

*sign* Again I have to show my post.

"Funny thing is that a samster A gave me the thai handphone number of that girl while she was in SG working as an FL and told me that there's a samster B interested in her or that she is the tirak of a samster B or something like dat. I asked for the nick of the samster B but samster wouldn't want to give it to me, saying he'll let me know later. He gave me the number as she is also working in an MP while she is in BKK.

Later samster A gave me the nick of samster B, and since I know samster B, I deleted the WL number."

I think bros who read my post would understand very clearly that the samster B is already interested in this girl while she was working as an FL in SG when her contact number was given to me.

But of course the samster B is clearly saying that is not the case thru all his story and his postings, thus giving the impression that he met her or so called fall in love with her on other circumstances.

Exactly u heard it from someone else. U know he knows the truth, whoever samster A is? If there is this samster B who is interested in this FL whoever it is, my bro, u got a whole bunch of mistaken identities lah. No samster knows I even talk to her then, cos I tot nothing of it - she was just a TG helpign me regarding Dancer! Plus I was definitely NOT interested in her until months after she returned to BKK.

Who is samster A huh? He knows me? If I guess who that can be, then wah lau, he got it all wrong and in his own confusion, he confused you! There is one 1 guy I know I spoke to, and that was way after she went back to BKK and after my broke up wit Rain. I told him that I had broken off with Rain (told him the reason too) and now I am developing my LDTR with my current tirak. If his nick starts with a "T", he has put u in a every embarrassing position. Perhaps now I understand what is going on

Tell me, dun u feel silly at all? What are u doing? Are losing it?

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by free

Sigh, symptoms of aging you now got, my friend - amnesia and confusion.

*sign* don't think I want to talk about amnesia, old age and confusion lah... If I do, would only embarrassed a samster publicly.

Not very ethical leh. Tot being ethical is something u are proud of?

*sign* don't think I want to talk about ethics lah... If I do, would only embarassed a samster publicly.

Anyway, I say again, I accepted with her past even as I opened my heart to her love, knowing what I already did. Guess u too high class to do such a thingy right? That she comes up tops compared with the other "more qualified" women and she turned out to be better than I dare hope for, is something I should celebrate, should I not? And u seem upset? Shouldn't u happy for her, that she can reform, 'O loving husband of a good thai lady'?

*sign* some people just cannot see that I have the utmost respect for thai ladies and would be happy if the TG has found the right guy. Unfortunately, I feel sad for the TG lah..... whom I feel will end up the loser lah....

Psssh. tell u a secret. MP? I think u got the wrong ger. That could be my nong, assuming u even got that correct

*sign* some people will think that only TG tells them the truth and will never tell lies for the hope of a relationship lah.. so only their info is 100% accurate while others' info must be flawed. Wonder why I was given her thai handphone number and instructions on where to find her if she comes back to BKK at that time.

*sign* *sign* *sign*

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by free

Exactly u heard it from someone else. U know he knows the truth, whoever samster A is? If there is this samster B who is interested in this FL whoever it is, my bro, u got a whole bunch of mistaken identities lah. No samster knows I even talk to my tirak, plus I was definitely NOT interested in her until months after she returned to BKK.

Tell me, dun u feel silly at all? What are u doing? Are losing it?

*sign* Don't know why people like to think that only info come from them. Info definitely cannot come from other sources ... like from the FL herself lah... or whatever.

*sign* didn't know that there are 2 same nicks and same names for a mistaken identity.... which could be quite possible with "clones" coming in now...

*sign* don't know who's losing it?

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