woes of a tirak

[ah_jo]

edited due to a mistake

[free]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I hope(kwarm wung) that you understand the point that being practical and rationale in your decisions mean there is no room for hopes/dreams. Hopes and dreams can spur/drive a person to go on. But hopes/dreams can also break the person. Because with hope, you get expectations. The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment when things don't go the way we want it to happen. Leave it to the hands and actions of ownself without thinking whether heaven will be with the virtuous heart or forsake it.

SC

Herein lies the paradox. Hope & expectations. Without hope, what is there to live for tomorrow? I am not sure whether hopes lead to expectations, but perhaps you are right. At least in my case you are right, for even as I hope for my beloved to be who she said she wants to be, both for herself and for me, I do have certain minimum expectations of the one I had placed my hopes in.

I can only thank my lucky stars that she has so far exceeded much more than my minimum, and even exceeded my hopes in several areas. Perhaps I made the right choice at the start. That's why I stick with her despite the several "hot" distractions. More than just tiraks - I can safely say we are also best friends today.

Btw, I finally know who u are refering to in ur signature. Good friend of my nong and even met her at RO Towers a few months ago. Man, this is a small world indeed.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I hope(kwarm wung) that you understand the point that being practical and rationale in your decisions mean there is no room for hopes/dreams. Because with hope, you get expectations. The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment when things don't go the way we want it to happen. Leave it to the hands and actions of ownself without thinking whether heaven will be with the virtuous heart or forsake it.

SC

Everyone are presented with different paths in life to choose from. Some made a choose and suffer from it, some walk till the end with nothing to shout about and some gave up half way and turn around and ended back in square one. End of day, it is not about what they choose but the fact that they had choices to choose from. When presented with choices and decisions in own hands, i guess there is nothing much to complain at the end of days.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by free

Herein lies the paradox. Hope & expectations. Without hope, what is there to live for tomorrow? I am not sure whether hopes lead to expectations, but perhaps you are right. At least in my case you are right, for even as I hope for my beloved to be who she said she wants to be, both for herself and for me, I do have certain minimum expectations of the one I had placed my hopes in.

Btw, I finally know who u are refering to in ur signature. Good friend of my nong and even met her at RO Towers a few months ago. Man, this is a small world indeed.

I am saying this to Suteerak cos he mentioned doing practical stuff and suddenly with that quote I was thinking, he needed a bit of help from heaven. Anyway to each their own.

*BTW, the one whom I am referring to in my signature is for my 5th tirak. the one that you met as a good friend of your nong is my 3rd tirak then. Guess you got the wrong one. And btw, what I say here since u say the girl that you saw is your nong. Up to you to believe also. Got 1 morning, she came to my apt to collect some clothes from my 3rd tirak. Happens that I was sleeping and my tirak was not around. She came collect the stuff and pounce on me on bed grabbing my dick trying to arouse me and ask me to bonk her. Sorry, I don't do this kind of cb thing cos she is friend of my tirak then. Will you do that to friend's gf if you happen to be with her alone? So make sure who you be with nong and choose them carefully. You can choose to believe what I say or what she say, but what I say is the truth. Kenna lightning if I lie.

SC

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

I know..... The usual gang lo..... NEver inform me hor..... SWEE@!!!!

sorry i was late that day.....

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

bro, am happy that u're taking things easy n slowly now.. least u letting nature take its own course.. i think giving her the space also allows her to reconsider wat u've presented.

take heart bro..heores die young.. but gd man outlast~~~~

Nah.... Cos now getting a call from her don't seem so freq.... Maybe no money or she got better guy. To me e day she ORD, and she needs someone to accompanyi just accompany lor..cos... when u don't put too much into anything... u will be more relax...

[Hakoshu]

Its alright bro, looking forward to see u again!!

Originally Posted by JWNY

sorry i was late that day.....

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by zunbo

Nah.... Cos now getting a call from her don't seem so freq.... Maybe no money or she got better guy. To me e day she ORD, and she needs someone to accompanyi just accompany lor..cos... when u don't put too much into anything... u will be more relax...

Yes, you are right. It do help alot if one doesn't give too much pressure
or harbour to much hope on the relationship since most of us already knew the success rate is slim...things will be much better for oneself and if we are able to look at it from other perspective...will defintely help to lighten the burden in our heart...overstress over the LDTR can lead to breakdown.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Got 1 morning, she came to my apt to collect some clothes from my 3rd tirak. Happens that I was sleeping and my tirak was not around. She came collect the stuff and pounce on me on bed grabbing my dick trying to arouse me and ask me to bonk her. Sorry, I don't do this kind of cb thing cos she is friend of my tirak then. Will you do that to friend's gf if you happen to be with her alone? So make sure who you be with nong and choose them carefully. You can choose to believe what I say or what she say, but what I say is the truth. Kenna lightning if I lie.

SC

Good to see people who got standard but then in the real world, not everyone have the same principle.

There was a TG who has a tirak who told me that the friend of the tirak was trying to dissuade her from being with her tirak, asking questions like, "Do you know that XX is married and have kids?" "Why do you want to go for a married guy?" "are you sure he really loves you?" and puts himself as the better guy "I'm not attached" "I understand thai culture very well" "You the type of girl that I like", "If you decide that he's not for you, let me know" etc.

The TG, in trying to keep him off her back finally says to him that she sees him like a brother so the guy, not realising the girl's intent, proudly claims that the girl wants to be his Nong Sao thinking because he's such a good or nice guy.

So now I realised that there are guys who have many nong sao but didn't realised that they became the nong sao just to keep them off their back.

So as far as "woes of a tirak" is concerned, one of the woes is that you might have a frined who does not have any principles and tries to break tou apart for his own benefit.

thaivisitor

[free]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

*BTW, the one whom I am referring to in my signature is for my 5th tirak. the one that you met as a good friend of your nong is my 3rd tirak then. Guess you got the wrong one. And btw, what I say here since u say the girl that you saw is your nong. Up to you to believe also. Got 1 morning, she came to my apt to collect some clothes from my 3rd tirak. Happens that I was sleeping and my tirak was not around. She came collect the stuff and pounce on me on bed grabbing my dick trying to arouse me and ask me to bonk her. Sorry, I don't do this kind of cb thing cos she is friend of my tirak then. Will you do that to friend's gf if you happen to be with her alone? So make sure who you be with nong and choose them carefully. You can choose to believe what I say or what she say, but what I say is the truth. Kenna lightning if I lie.

SC

Sorry I got the Tirak number wrong. A mutual friend of ours told me it was her, but I guess he was wrong about it. I will update him.

BTW, I would be very surprised that this particular Nong of mine would do that, cos I know her well as her tirak is a close bro of mine and they are very in love. Also, she is almost 40 and I really think u would entertain any "flirtatious" thoughts with her, assumming you are so attractive to turn her on and make her crazy about you, which I doubt she would be.

So I think u got the wrong Nong also. Maybe that gal u talked about was my Nong's nong!

BTW, like you, I dun have any physical activities with all my Nongs too, and all my Nongs also call me Pii. And whether they have tiraks or not (or I know their tiraks) is irrelevant to me. I just dun bonk anyone I regard as my sister.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by free

Sorry I got the Tirak number wrong. A mutual friend of ours told me it was her, but I guess he was wrong about it. I will update him.

BTW, I would be very surprised that this particular Nong of mine would do that, cos I know her well as her tirak is a close bro of mine and they are very in love. Also, she is almost 40 and I really think u would entertain any "flirtatious" thoughts with her, assumming you are so attractive to turn her on and make her crazy about you, which I doubt she would be.

So I think u got the wrong Nong also. Maybe that gal u talked about was my Nong's nong!

BTW, like you, I dun have any physical activities with all my Nongs too, and all my Nongs also call me Pii. And whether they have tiraks or not (or I know their tiraks) is irrelevant to me. I just dun bonk anyone I regard as my sister.

Sorry to get your nong wrong too. Because you mention my extirak's and since my signature was meant for my 5th tirak and not the 3rd one which you thought, then might be a whole lot of miscommunication.

Then your nong is not the nong that i mention. Paiseh.

Anyway what others said to you probably wouldn't be true cos you need to hear from the horse's mouth then it will be true. Sometimes truth gets distorted along the way just like passing a message.


SC

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I hope(kwarm wung) that you understand the point that being practical and rationale in your decisions mean there is no room for hopes/dreams. Hopes and dreams can spur/drive a person to go on. But hopes/dreams can also break the person. Because with hope, you get expectations. The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment when things don't go the way we want it to happen. Leave it to the hands and actions of ownself without thinking whether heaven will be with the virtuous heart or forsake it.

SC

SC,well said... its unfortunate that you still dont know me well enuff, cos to me i tend not to mix the 2 definations up. my motto is quite simple n straightforth (to some they think i'm outta my mind). my defination of love is to give & be contented w however little i recieve. hence expectations never really came into the equation. (sounds like some crazy headless love zombie huh?) cant say i totally disregard the returns...cos to me...all it takes is her genuine smile of appreciation that really matters.

hoping & dreaming is for a future. none can tell the future... even oracles/fortune tellers can prefict very general things, even doctors cant guarantee complete recovery for patients. so in this case, hoping & dreaming is definately not speculating. nobody's hurt if dreams never come true... bt ppl die when speculation results go against their will.

maybe there's some improper phrasing/miscommunications in my previous posts, that led u into thinking that i'm just like any other ordinary sad fuck. but i hope i've cleared the air for u in this one.

nevertheless, pt taken in regards to your advise/opinions...very much appreciated. cheers

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by poo|hot

how come got so shameless (wu chi) bastards like this guy.

You'll be surprise what the world is made of.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

You'll be surprise what the world is made of.

well, if anything's the case.. we're all just too trigger happy when it comes to pointing out faults/flaws of others prior to checking ourselves in the mirror. shameless bastards in this society's a plenty. anyhow spit on the street also chow chow kena a cluster lol. no wonder why the idiom: [pot laughing at the kettle black] came about la.

somehow relates to my past posts about having to think back of our own unleashed pricks searching for the gap to do a little sparring n spitting. if there wasnt demand, there wouldnt be supply. n even if there was supply, dont think the trade will thrive at all.

i'm still anxiously waiting to see if the much talked about integrated resorts will prove my predictions correct lol. think very soon there's gonna be more tabloid thrash about KC/tirakship/sayangship ongoing at those premises. PRCs, Minahs, Puyings all on travel permit... go shopping for potential retirees as "laogong","Ah-bang","Piichai"...to sextisfy, n drain their gambling capital/winnings.

oops, dont wanna drag further on this... will wait till the time is right to start a new thread about the IRs lol.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

well, if anything's the case.. we're all just too trigger happy when it comes to pointing out faults/flaws of others prior to checking ourselves in the mirror. shameless bastards in this society's a plenty. anyhow spit on the street also chow chow kena a cluster lol. no wonder why the idiom: [pot laughing at the kettle black] came about la.

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Pointing out faults/flaws of others and letting it out serves the purpose of having a "case study" whereby we can learn from it. Sometimes it helps us realise our own flaws and we can then take remedial actions.

If all of us were to witness any crimes and keep quiet about it because we ourselves are not perfect (let those with no sins cast the first stone), then all criminals will go free since even policemen, prosecutors and judges would have in their lives, commit at least a minor or petty crime.

So as far as this forum is concern, if all pots are not going to call the kettle black, there wouldn't be any postings anymore, would it?