woes of a tirak

[DNAT]

wow .. 六 国 大 封 相 [warriors state]

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

kun hasas sas.. for your blessings n well-wishes.. i truly am appreciative and grateful. fate chose to toy w my feelings but now its my own efforts to sculpt fate into faith. keeping my fingers crossed for a better future... korb kun mak krup~!~!

mai pen rai...destiny is in your hands and there are bound to be
some exception rare cases. Remember to share your experiences
with us if you succeed.

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by piterfish__

Did you get this?

You not scared ah??

If one never did any crime or wrongdoing, at the dead of the night, should one heard the knocking of the door, one will not be scared.

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

After getting my first nick deleted, now Mr peterfish is going eliminate sex_maniac2. .

Care to tell all the people here why your original nick, Sex Maniac was deleted?

Care to tell all the people here how you like to use abusive and vulgarities at other ppl's mothers?

Think you better reflect on your miserable life and think about all the bullshit that have spouted out from your smelly mouth and ugly face.

[suteerak1099]

hmmm... guys guys.. this is starting to turn ugly.. flaming n all. sigh.
suggestion: can we just ignore those fellas w lame posts n get on w the topic cos its quite disheartening to see how my thread has evloved into...

i really hope to learn from the laujiaos here, am sure the aspiring ones here too r gaining ground w their tirakship from the constructive posts here.

korb kun mak krup~~

[suteerak1099]

ok, back to topic. in recent wks-months i've recieved several postitive feedbacks from loyal/genuine supporters to my thread, and i'm truly happy for all you fellas. knowing that there's some progress has been some form of encouragement for myself.

its true that i've had some really hard times in the TRCR (am certain those who've heard from me will agree), the headache's, the sleepless nights, the appettite swings, the paranoia at times etc. nevertheless, have learnt, have applied, have tried to understand her predicaments... am happy/contented for how things r on my end as well.

afterall the WL/FK/TGs in most cases r more reserved n less vocal about their feelings. wont spell it out to u that she's in love w u, bt at the end of the day.. actions speak louder than words. even things she do that may seem too cruel to be true, is actually her with good intent to either protect u or to prevent u to take it in the wrong perspective- hence aggravating issues that may be brewing inside.

been doing alil research on my gal's hometown n background in recent weeks.. must say, its been pretty insightful n helps w mental preparations too. some may disagree n say i'm beyond help...lol. dun matter la... there's a lesson learnt in every passing day

chok-dii na krap~!

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

hmmm... guys guys.. this is starting to turn ugly.. flaming n all. sigh.
suggestion: can we just ignore those fellas w lame posts n get on w the topic cos its quite disheartening to see how my thread has evloved into...

i really hope to learn from the laujiaos here, am sure the aspiring ones here too r gaining ground w their tirakship from the constructive posts here.

korb kun mak krup~~

Glad to see that your clone is now gone. But as what my signature suggests, as long as the mother clone is still around, there will be no end to all this cloning.

As for tirakship, in the first place if given a choice, who in his right frame of mind would wanna to be with a WL. So please don't use the term "aspiring". A more suitable word should be "unfortunate". Also there is nothing to be gained from all the "constructive" discussion cos the best advice would be for you to leave the tirakship but then again will you listen? Human beings only like to hear what they would to hear and for some pathetic individuals when others hurled the truth straight in their face, they chose to believe that they are right. When the truth hits them in the face, they created lies and wonderful stories (please note it is stories-aka friction-man made) just to put up appearances. But for what use? Deep down inside, it still hurts when the WL dumped him. Pathetic is the only word that can be used to describe him.

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

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afterall the WL/FK/TGs in most cases r more reserved n less vocal about their feelings. wont spell it out to u that she's in love w u, bt at the end of the day.. actions speak louder than words.......

You are right. she will also not ask you to spend less money on her even though it's hurting your pocket, kekeke...

Originally Posted by suteerak

.....even things she do that may seem too cruel to be true, is actually her with good intent to either protect u or to prevent u to take it in the wrong perspective- hence aggravating issues that may be brewing inside.

when she ORD and she calls you and ask you to send money to a thai man's account in thailand, dont come here and KPKB open a thread and say "PLEASE DONT TREAT US LIKE A BLOODY FOOL". No point doing that and try to paint a picture that TG WL is a bad girl. No one will pity you. You only have yourself to blame. She wouldnt treat u like a fool if you havent shown her that you are one!

[hoodlum]

Originally Posted by peterfish

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As for tirakship, in the first place if given a choice, who in his right frame of mind would wanna to be with a WL. So please don't use the term "aspiring". A more suitable word should be "unfortunate". Also there is nothing to be gained from all the "constructive" discussion cos the best advice would be for you to leave the tirakship but then again will you listen? Human beings only like to hear what they would to hear and for some pathetic individuals when others hurled the truth straight in their face, they chose to believe that they are right. When the truth hits them in the face, they created lies and wonderful stories (please note it is stories-aka friction-man made) just to put up appearances. But for what use? Deep down inside, it still hurts when the WL dumped him. Pathetic is the only word that can be used to describe him.

Well said bru. My exact sentiments. Couldn't have put it better.

cheerios
hoodlum

[Five Stone]

Each to his own path and choice. One aint the fish hence ignorant of the joy.

[hoodlum]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Each to his own path and choice. One aint the fish hence ignorant of the joy.

Of course. To each his own. Some like shit eating, scat play and pee fun...

Should we try it? Maybe we are missing or 'ignorant of the joy'. Who knows?

And that is another counter to the '... don't try how you know?' school of thought.

hoodlum

[Five Stone]

wow .. 六 国 大 封 相

Is it such fun walking around dumping one liner?

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Is it such fun walking around dumping one liner?

Yes (one word also fun .. each to his own)

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by hoodlum

Should we try it? Maybe we are missing or 'ignorant of the joy'. Who knows?

And that is another counter to the '... don't try how you know?' school of thought.

hoodlum

Some might say I biased if I say that its very emtionally taxing to have tirakship or talk kum-cheng with a WL 很 伤 感

Chinese poem says ：

十 年 一 觉 扬 州 梦
赢 得 青 楼 薄 悻 名

[suteerak1099]

hmmm, funny it seems that many here think this thread is somewhat brainwashing or (putting the rifle to the head) forcing readers here to take on the TRCR, n perhaps eventually develope n lead to the LDTR...

nothing wrong for those who've been hurt or slammed hard in their previous TRCR, that left them badly scarred or crippled in the arena of tirakship...to be hurling abuse/discouragements for TRCR. nevertheless, its sad to know that despite many discouragements, many still enjoy their tirakship even though they come online to write negative FRs/slam the WL after he's gotten his money worth. some even post negative no RTF FRs on their own tirak... so as to possess her in entirety (cos no $ to bail her). watever the issues & agendas, there's still vulnerable souls out there.

we'd be kidding ourselves that TRCR is invalid n just a fantasy, cos there's been success stories too. watever the results become...its up to the individuals to reap n sow at the end of the day.

no intention of being a foul mouth, bt for some who think the mind is strong enuff to will the ways of the heart/dick...think again. there''ll come a day of reckoning, when u see that "1" in the tank.. the "1" with whom ur chemistry ooze n flow like flood gates opening (more firece than ur ejaculation)...then dont come crying foul n say u got a weak heart/wild dick without a leash.

we're all made of flesh & blood, live on sustainance no different from the person next to us... interactive therefore subjected to temptations of the hearts too. mind/KC games watever it is.. if guys can play the fishing game in any club/pub/disco... no different if gals perform their craft in their territory.

denial...? arent we all in the same state of mind?? if there's contentment, where's the need to patronize GL, where's the desire for GF feeling, where the vulnerability of falling into KC traps? if the root of the problem is resolved, then surely there's no need for the existance for SBF. we'd all be having hellava gd time w our spouses/gfs/sex partners etc.

TRCR/LDTR/thai marriage.. we all know exist. only matter is subjective to the capacity of the hearts. failed TRCR/LDTR/thai marriage... also exist. so its inevitable for the couples to work things out if there should be a next lap in the tirakship. if want..then thread the path carefully, if dont want.. then dont walk at all..better to tuck tail n return to the safety of mom's bossoms.

TRCR aint for the faint hearted... so pls... jai yen yen...