woes of a tirak

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by DNAT

I must say collin is qualified to comment on such tirak issue cos he walked through such path, had joy on it and also cried over it ... and most importantly .. he dare to say it out and face it.

Lets applause for collin_23 ... Horray!

Clap! Clap! Quite true. At least he went, he saw, he tried, he failed, he cried, he regrouped and he is now alive and well.

Better to try and failed than to speculate and speculate endlessly. The WL is now in GL. Just open the mouth and ask and the answer will be revealed more or less. No point posting endlessly asking the same questions, thinking of the different possibilities and permutations and scenarios. Ask the ppls here also not much use. Not because the ppls here have no experince. the thing is that no one knows who the WL is so no one can comments on her character as no one knows whether they have bonked her b4 or whether she is their "tirak". If the WL is revealed, at least some of the bros who tried her for ST or ON or even went out with her, can offer some valuable insights. Second thing is that no one know the person asking the question personally. So how to advice when all of us are just speculating. Just simply asked the WL and the truth will be revealed. Don't need to beat around the bushes.

If the person spent only the time and effort spent online on the WL affair, then the whole thing may have become clear. By posting online, that subject is running away from the real problem. The subject is confused because he is not sure. But by coming online, the problem is still unsolved and remain there. Hiding behind the PC will not solve the problem. Only provide temp relief.

Think I have said too much or someone will say I am starting a fire and later start scolding me mother. Zip.....my mouth is sealed.

Originally Posted by DNAT

I must say collin is qualified to comment on such tirak issue cos he walked through such path, had joy on it and also cried over it ... and most importantly .. he dare to say it out and face it.

Lets applause for collin_23 ... Horray!

Uncle, this is a forum and a public one. Only the qualified can comment?? Sorry for being blunt, but some of the things you say doesnt make sense.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Uncle, this is a forum and a public one. Only the qualified can comment?? Sorry for being blunt, but some of the things you say doesnt make sense.

I said Collin is qualified becos he told us his FULL stories ...

you are right, I sometimes say things w/o sense ... cos I am the TCSS king

Originally Posted by DNAT

you are right, I sometimes say things w/o sense ... cos I am the TCSS king

ya. I forgot you clocked more than 11K of posts

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Woes of tirak become personal suaning thread. If want to comment, comment on the incidents and not trying to stir up old stuff and talk. You all not sian, many of us see also sian lah.

SC

i also very sian. cannot shake off the parasites. got any good pesticides to recommend?

[collin_23]

Nowadays in here to see can help around anot only.

No more indulge in commercial sex liao.

Cheers

Originally Posted by DNAT

I said Collin is qualified becos he told us his FULL stories ...

you are right, I sometimes say things w/o sense ... cos I am the TCSS king

[collin_23]

It's okay, it is your life anyway. Just don't wish to see u ending up the sad path.

U need to find solace in here by all means go ahead.

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Uncle, this is a forum and a public one. Only the qualified can comment?? Sorry for being blunt, but some of the things you say doesnt make sense.

[collin_23]

nah so many clones around nowadays u never know when one is fighting and yet agreeing with himself.

There r so many women in this world but there is not one woman who will not grow old. Big boobs when young nice but old becomes sag...pretty face become wrinkled face. When choosing wife or future partner character and knowledge is still more important.

Every woman's future husband criterias the same, all the good points. Esp when she have so many choices u can never be sure who she loves. This is commercial sex not SDU.

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by collin_23

Nowadays in here to see can help around anot only.

Your experience is appreciated. Experience and words of advise from someone who has been through it is worth much much more in weight than those who have never been through one.

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by chuwit

Thanks for the rep points guys!

Wat the worth??????? haha

Originally Posted by poolhot

Wat the worth??????? haha

doesnt boost his libido, but sure boost his EGO

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

doesnt boost his libido, but sure boost his EGO

Hey........ I am a two timer. Might support him next round. wahahahaaaaaa

Or a 2 headed snake?

Which is which since U the one that write abt me. haha

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by chuwit

Enough to spray insecticide on cockroaches.

Haiz... sigh. This matter will never end cos the subject just likes to go around in circle. Only speculation and guessing about the thinking and thoughts of the WL while all the subject does is post and post, prompting answers from the ppls here. Why? I just don't understand. The subject just posted his doubts here and then patiently wait for any Tom, Dick and Harry to express his thots and views on his problems and doubts. I am surprised that advices from total strangers that he had never meet before can influence him or at least that is what it seems. It seems that he just waiting for ppls' to post out their views and then he may or may not listen (that is something only the subject knows). As the subject had stated earlier, this is a public forum and is open to all to view their views and thots regardless of whether it is good and bad. If the subject finds that the views expressed by somes are not to his liking, then it would be more approiate if he jio a few of the samsters whom he liked and shared his same situation and views out for a personal face to face session.

I am now posting, focusing on the issue at hand and not against the subject. Through all his postings, he pondered over the followings issues :

1. No. of toothbrushes she has in the toilet

2. Giving her a Hong Bao

3. Sending her a V day card

4. Doing guard duty outside her "workplace"

5. The amount of love juice flowing out of her love hole

6. The no. of times she cum

7. Doing it RAW with her

and many more which I can't remember. All these are irrelevant issues and thingys. The subject chose to focus on the trival issues while avoiding the main issue. But never has he mentioned anything abt they talking abt post GL life and the WL family. To the Thai WL, family ranks high on their list. If the WL is talking to the subject about her family then that will show that the subject is making some progress but sad to say, nothing of such nature was mentioned.

The subject often likes to ask :

1. I wonder whether.....

2. Is she ............

3. Why is she ............

4. How come.......

5. Where is she......

6. Who is she.......

7. What is she.....

8. When she ......

All ends with a big ?. In short, the subject is making assumptions and possible scenarios and then make detailed cross analysis of each scenarios. Finally making self-deduced conclusions without actually confronting the WL for the actual truth. Again all just guesswork.

All the subject needs to do is to ask her is this : I think I have fallen for you. I have strong feelings for you. I want to know how you feel about me. Can some of the bros here translate this into Thai for the subject's use? Kum seah,

Think I have said enough. This is a post directed at the issue and nothing personal. If it had come from SC, maybe the reaction may be different.

[mysterious]

Originally Posted by peterfish

I am now posting, focusing on the issue at hand and not against the subject. Through all his postings, he pondered over the followings issues :


The subject often likes to ask :

1. I wonder whether.....

2. Is she ............

3. Why is she ............

4. How come.......

5. Where is she......

6. Who is she.......

7. What is she.....

8. When she ......


Think I have said enough. This is a post directed at the issue and nothing personal. If it had come from SC, maybe the reaction may be different.

may i add that after each of the above question... the 'subject' come to a conclusion.. that "She must be ....... OR she could...."

usually the first "must be" is the hard truth that the "subject" confesses... but he will follow up with another reasoning to console himself... example:

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

I may think that she is playing games, but in the end, it could be just the way she is.

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

However, she did assume I went to look for other girls during my 1 month absence and seem concern. But then she could only be acting. i'll bet on the acting...

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Make appointments in advance (make me happy looking forward to it) then cancel it to make me dulan? Or is she lying cos she has more important appointments with her other tiraks? Is she playing mind games with me? don't think she got time and energy to play games lor...

I know I can either believe her or I can keep on thinking whether she is playing mind games with me.

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Sometimes I wanted to confront her, have a heart to heart talk and settle things once and for all. I am really not sure if I should do this. What if she lies to me and I believe her and then I fall deeper?? What if after the talk and she believe that i am really sincere about her and she really fall for me?? Really??!!

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

At the moment, I do not think I am her tirak at all cos she never bring up the subject of our "relationship". If she do not wish to talk about our relatiohship, I guess i shouldnt too???? Or is she waiting for me to bring up the subject???? Imaginative!

[poolhot.]

And may I add too.......

Maybe all of us are just trying to increase our posting count

Wiz SM talking abt his so call "tirak"

Chuwit being reborn required the pts.

Dnat & collin23 being bored while at work.

mysterious & peterfish cos of their long running fued wiz SM.

And me?????? The ultimate KPOH...... hahaha

Well since toofast not here, someone must take over his duties lor.