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Are you here to look for solutions to your misery or are you here to seek comfort?
I came here to share my experience and i m glad that a lot of brothers here are very open to give valuable advices. I think the problem now lies in me, whether or not to take the advices.
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Originally Posted by sex_maniac2
I think hope is what is keeping you in this relationship. Sometimes they also try to give you hope (false hope), talk about the future etc so that you look forward to that day (which may not happen). This kind of make you hang on to the relationship.
Do you remember why you like her in the first place? It's because of the feeling she gave you, sweet, tender loving treatment. Now that she is no longer giving you this treatment, why are you staying on? U are emotionally attached to her and it will take some time for you to detached from her emotionally. Dont hope that she will treat you better. She will only treat you worse.
Bro, it;s difficult, but you have to do it. It's like kicking a drug habit...
I understand what you said but she didnt really try to give me hope or false hope. I know very well that there's no future in us as i really doubt that i will go that far out for her. She ever told me before that she likes another guy more but also likes me a little cos i treat her well. Although she dont treat me that well now, i m still emotionally attached to her. I guess one of the reasons is that she gives me the special feeling that i have never experienced before.
Wah, sad to tell you the truth, I don't think she love you.
You see, why do men carry on the relationship when many a times they know it will lead to no where. Different people have different purposes.
But for you, I can read you.
You think you have spent a lot of time, effort, money in this relationship hoping to make it work. Our singaporean mindset teaches us to persevere, but its used in the wrong scenario(meaning to say in this tirak relationship)
And often its because of the above reasons, carrying on seems the wisest thing to do cos you take a gamble and you think you might see miracles. But the truth is, you are just a gambler while you are dealing with house. A gambler will win if he places his bets and bet over a short period of time. As time passes, his percentage of winning goes lower and lower and the house chance of winning gets higher and higher. Until it reaches a point of time, every bet you make loses money.
Thanks brother for ur advice, i know that she dont loves me. In fact now i m trying to cut down on my expenses on her. I have spent abt 1k on her last month and now she seems like she's expecting me to spent 1k on her every month. Previously she told me not to come so often to save money but when i visited her last nite, she keep asking me to book her ON next week. It gives me an impression that she has changed. I will be pretty tied up with work next week and i also dont have much money left this month. So i told her that i may not be able to book her ON next week. She then told me that now i know how to think not like previously when i always visit her. I dunno if she has any hidden agenda behind this statement. Anyway i still gave in to her and called up the OKT after i left to book her ON next week.
I m not expecting any major returns from her cos i know very well that there wont be any. The reason that i kept going back to her is becos of the special feeling that i had for her since our 1st encounter. I guess when this special feeling fades, i will be able to stop myself from going back to her.
I understand what you said but she didnt really try to give me hope or false hope. I know very well that there's no future in us as i really doubt that i will go that far out for her. She ever told me before that she likes another guy more but also likes me a little cos i treat her well. Although she dont treat me that well now, i m still emotionally attached to her. I guess one of the reasons is that she gives me the special feeling that i have never experienced before.
I am curious to know what is the special feeling that she is giving you that some other girls can not give you.
Looking back, my ex regular was also the first WL that I fell for. She has everything I looked for, a nice body, friendly, attentive to my needs, flatters me and we had good sex. For the first time, I met a WL who is so into me. The first time is always the best and most memorable haizz.....
IMO,I think you're a case of "ONE-SIDED LOVE" so attracted to her even you can die for her. But look at the facts that you mentioned, she can even tell that somebody else is offering to marry her, so do you think she's your tirak after all? I think you are more of an obedient customer to her rather than the ONE she loves. The trick is that once they know that they can chiak you gao gao, they take advantage of you. Maybe I miss out some of those better moments that both of you spent together as I'm not involved but based on these facts, you can ask her to buzz off from your life already. Okay it's easier said than done but just think of your future and your family, do you want your family to know that you are suffering? Or are you wasting too much time on her rather than something more important to be achieve in life?
Although I agreed all men who fall into this category will have this small hope in their mind that what if she changes her mind and be with you rite? But to tell the fact is that you stand at 5%, maybe even lesser. If you want to convenice yourself, I suggest you make an appointment with a fortune teller in Upper Serangoon Rd next to Upper Serangoon Shopping Centre(he was recommanded by a celebrity who is my friend) who is quite accurate reading on relationship, just get your tirak's birthday and time of birth and yours and see him, he will work it out whether are you compatible with her, this is not a joke as for those who believe like me and my friends who had seek advise from him can get valuable advises.
Yes Brother, it's a one-sided love but i dont think i will die for her. I dont think i have reach that level yet. And recent events seem to have wake me up a bit. I wont be buying any more expensive gifts for her and i m trying to cut down on my visits also. From 1hr sessions to single session and 3 times a week to once a week. I cant really maintain that kind of expenses as i m not that rich. And lately i m drowning myself with work to make myself not to think of her so often.
Thanks for the fortune teller reccommendation but i dont think i will go for my fortune told. It's not that i dont believe in fortune telling but i m afraid of the things that i will be told. I may not be able to face it when things told dont go the way i wanted. So i just leave things to fate and face them when they come.
I am curious to know what is the special feeling that she is giving you that some other girls can not give you.
Looking back, my ex regular was also the first WL that I fell for. She has everything I looked for, a nice body, friendly, attentive to my needs, flatters me and we had good sex. For the first time, I met a WL who is so into me. The first time is always the best and most memorable haizz.....
It's hard to describe that special feeling but what i can say is that she has most of the features of my dream girl. And the sex is different from other WL, there is more emotion involved.
Very soon, I will hit 10 at the rate I am going.
Every single one is a different experience.
Guess what, My friend is going through his 5th or 6th currently and he only started 1-2 years ago. At the rate he is going, he is going to get his PHD faster than me.
SC
Since you are there to play,
How do you choose your victims/target? What are the criterias? Do you go around looking for a specific one who fits your criteria?
It's hard to describe that special feeling but what i can say is that she has most of the features of my dream girl. And the sex is different from other WL, there is more emotion involved.
since you know her, how many other's have you tried?
for all i know, the "emotion" could be just an act on their part.
since you know her, how many other's have you tried?
for all i know, the "emotion" could be just an act on their part.
I tried 1 cat40 and 1 PRC after i know her. That's on the day when she happen to be not working. And i kind of feel that my money has gone into waste spending on the 2 cos lousy service level and the feeling is not there. Since then i have not try other girls.
The trick is that once they know that they can chiak you gao gao, they take advantage of you. .
haha...this wan can be quite true...becos I gana B4...some really tink tat
since u are a Singaporean u are like a "Yao Qian Shu"(money tree).
KNN at the end of the day our money also hard earned leh....
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Originally Posted by Bangkok Master
Although I agreed all men who fall into this category will have this small hope in their mind that what if she changes her mind and be with you rite? But to tell the fact is that you stand at 5%, maybe even lesser. If you want to convenice yourself, I suggest you make an appointment with a fortune teller in Upper Serangoon Rd next to Upper Serangoon Shopping Centre(he was recommanded by a celebrity who is my friend) who is quite accurate reading on relationship, just get your tirak's birthday and time of birth and yours and see him, he will work it out whether are you compatible with her, this is not a joke as for those who believe like me and my friends who had seek advise from him can get valuable advises.
Wah didnt know tat u believe in this...Ok I will pay tis man a visit when I am free but I don know which gals "Shen chen ba zhi" to bring leh..kekeke
14-05-2005, 11:27 AM
