Vietnamese WL - Page 19

xxxx4 · #**271** 11-09-2011, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

u r right to a certain sense...

i want it but i dunno if she's really into me as in considering me to be her life partner as well...

i will feed her if i can afford to. stay in SG me and no work? first bump is the ICA how to stay here for long if we r not married. secondly, i cannot afford to feed a wife now...

yea i think i fall for her 100%...

Dont know whether she's really into you seriously, need time. Follow what i did for step #1:
Ask her to come for 1 month and stay with you the whole month. Pay her for returned ticket. Found out more about her feeling for you and your feeling for her after stay together 1 whole month.
If still not sure, let her go back HCM alone. If there is a sign, go back with her and visit her family.

ilovedoggie · #**272** 11-09-2011, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

Dont know whether she's really into you seriously, need time. Follow what i did for step #1:
Ask her to come for 1 month and stay with you the whole month. Pay her for returned ticket. Found out more about her feeling for you and your feeling for her after stay together 1 whole month.
If still not sure, let her go back HCM alone. If there is a sign, go back with her and visit her family.

ok i will do if can. but the thing is the stupid checkpoint refuse to let her in. KNN i damn angry when come to think of it. if not i would already have less uncertainties. the probability of her seriously into me is like 60%... subjectively...

at first i thought no matter i just want to drop by her place and see her family to increase my chances and improve my odds, with the assumption that her village is very conservative and some bro told me if she dun get married to me her village ppl will laugh at her

xxxx4 · #**273** 11-09-2011, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

ok i will do if can. but the thing is the stupid checkpoint refuse to let her in. KNN i damn angry when come to think of it. if not i would already have less uncertainties. the probability of her seriously into me is like 60%... subjectively...

at first i thought no matter i just want to drop by her place and see her family to increase my chances and improve my odds, with the assumption that her village is very conservative and some bro told me if she dun get married to me her village ppl will laugh at her

I find it strange that the checkpoint refuse her to enter. One case (dont know her well, took her home 2 times), the immigration officer asked, whether she has boyfriend or husband in SG. She did not fill in DE with detail contact of a person in SG. She answered 'no' then the officer said, why you keep coming here for --> sent back.
My gf case, she came back to SG just after 2 weeks, she filled in DE full detail of SG contact. The officer brought her inside interview room, asking many questions and they checked her phone (sms, photo, etc) and her handbag contents. Later they let her in and advised her that if she wants to keep come to SG, she must get married.

"with the assumption that her village is very conservative and some bro told me if she dun get married to me her village ppl will laugh at her"
Dont assume and listen too much bro.
laugh at her if she keeps bringing new guys to her village, may be.

ilovedoggie · #**274** 11-09-2011, 02:19 PM

[QUOTE=xxxx4;6330215

Dont assume and listen too much bro.
laugh at her if she keeps bringing new guys to her village, may be.[/QUOTE]

noted with thanks. will orchestrate some good strategies by factoring in your step #1. thanks for sharing with me bro

regarding to your first scenario of VB at checkpoint, that one confirm gone case but it might help VB like my no1

bcuz i think they hv quota. those can some perform a little in the room can get in.

i got ask my no1 to put in my photo with her in her purse/phone etc.

Golden question · #**275** 11-09-2011, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

ok i will do if can. but the thing is the stupid checkpoint refuse to let her in. KNN i damn angry when come to think of it. if not i would already have less uncertainties. the probability of her seriously into me is like 60%... subjectively...

at first i thought no matter i just want to drop by her place and see her family to increase my chances and improve my odds, with the assumption that her village is very conservative and some bro told me if she dun get married to me her village ppl will laugh at her

what kind of chance are u refering to?If u are refering to chance of her family accepting u as her boyfriend,i will tell u is 100%

KangTuo · #**276** 11-09-2011, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

what kind of chance are u refering to?If u are refering to chance of her family accepting u as her boyfriend,i will tell u is 100%

reason - we are holding sillypore passport.

KangTuo · #**277** 11-09-2011, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

What he wish is, to be lufe partner but dont want to feed her and also really want her stay in SG stay with him and no work. How???

how? difficult.
at least must give some allowance when she goes back vn... how much is diffcult to guage also.

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Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

i will feed her if i can afford to. stay in SG me and no work? first bump is the ICA how to stay here for long if we r not married. secondly, i cannot afford to feed a wife now...

1 month....
you cannot afford wife, how about allowance for that 1 month period?

xxxx4 · #**278** 11-09-2011, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

how? difficult.
at least must give some allowance when she goes back vn... how much is diffcult to guage also.

1 month....
you cannot afford wife, how about allowance for that 1 month period?

I actually realised that when she is with me for the whole month, my spending less than she is not with me.
For start if she is not with me, at least i go JC/GL twice a week and hard to resist not to bring one home

. Now with her, i dont go out much, even go out only cost me a jug of beer. Afraid she will found out if i take a girl, beside she checks on me and ask to call her specially Fri and Sat during crucial hours ~11pm.
Yes, i gave her the money for the ticket and i give her allowance once awhile when she is here, gave her pocket money whenever she go out with my mother.
Before i left her in HCM, i gave her the remaining SG$ in my wallet, which was left around $300. That's it.

So Bro lovedoggie, be brave and dont think too much

you can always walk away if you find something not right between you and her and move on with the next #2 or #3

KangTuo · #**279** 12-09-2011, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

I actually realised that when she is with me for the whole month, my spending less than she is not with me.

read back your post...is this the vb you met on your 2nd trip to hcmc 1 year and 1 month ago?

KangTuo · #**280** 12-09-2011, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by lanevoviii

So in conclusion, I may not gain anything tangible from this trip but I know I have made someone's life slightly better and I definitely feel happy myself too. In a crude way, I am actually building up the relationship in order to have a hot and steamy sex this weekend. One where she have feeling for me and not treating me as customer. And currently, I am thinking of ways to build romance in this coming hotel trip. Wish me luck.

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Originally Posted by lanevoviii

Tomorrow meet her 1st then ask her not to work. Whole day itinerary all planned out nicely. Even have romantic viet songs.

Stay tuned...

any updates?

KangTuo · #**281** 12-09-2011, 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

U so many, but are u willing to give me???

which vb you want?
i can give you the number if i still record in my hp but you sure you interested?

xxxx4 · #**282** 12-09-2011, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

read back your post...is this the vb you met on your 2nd trip to hcmc 1 year and 1 month ago?

No Bro KT,
Since last year i been through a few VB's, a few HCM and 1x Hanoi.

The 2nd trip if i remember correctly is the one i met in local HCM bar, Uyen. That's history long time ago. Been many many trips to HCM (some in 2 weeks interval), just that i hardly active in this forum. Been through a few bad/bored relationships, either from WL met in JC or VB met from vietnam cupid. Good thing though that the quality is improving

. I think this one will be my last, best of everything. Even my JC partner find me strange, as not interested in JC/GL VB no more whenever we go out.

How is your To'i? it's still the one that you tried to bring it over one year ago and counting the number of days over her banned period?

KangTuo · #**283** 12-09-2011, 03:47 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

How is your To'i? it's still the one that you tried to bring it over one year ago and counting the number of days over her banned period?

eeehhh, who is toi? my bx not name To'i.
"toi" means my/mine

she is stillthe same bx i know for nearly 5years already.
no more counting the numbers of days over her banned period but counting the number of days for my permanent arrest....

Honey Boon · #**284** 12-09-2011, 02:20 PM

you need introduciton meh?

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Wow u so many numbers......... ask your numbers to intro some frens to me leh

ilovedoggie · #**285** 12-09-2011, 04:23 PM

one month allowance is how much? $500?

yeah the chance of securing her parents first... and hopefully their daughter will follow... but all of them conspire together... i will die cock stand...