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One thing for sure bro, if you marry a c gai vn that really love you...never betray her in terms you know lah or die die also cannot let her know..they will let you jialat jialat 10 times in due course but of course, if you are lucky to find those really care family de..you would say vn girl is way better then sg gal but fyi..your position in their mind is always after their family regardless anything or how bad their family are. so you marry = marry her whole family Maybe after many years together then her mindset is change after staying in sg for long long time
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yeah i think VB gets jealous very easily. when i told her i talked to a girl/her "sis" bla bla bla... her tone will change... sometimes can sense she's joking but sometimes can sense the tension that she doesn't sound ok with it... hahaha... might be a mind game though... but still i merely enjoy the moment
regarding my position IF we get married... yea can know it from what i have read here... i told her last time i am not rich so i cannot provide for her family. she say with me she wont ask much. just need to take care for her everything only (which means including her current debt)... i think its bull shit... at least for now...
i need to learn from bros with bx here how to slowly brain wash her... her siblings(an elder bro and elder sis) sound ok to me as she nvr say they ask money from her. only her father is the one asking money... drinking and beating up her mother...
after few years of marriage,my wife still think i am rich,what do u think if she say she wont ask much.no point telling her but is through you way of handling money to let her brainwash herself.
as long as u are a sg man,u are consider rich to them.for them,earning 1.5k per month is already consider rich but for sg girl is like shit.
after few years of marriage,my wife still think i am rich,what do u think if she say she wont ask much.no point telling her but is through you way of handling money to let her brainwash herself.
as long as u are a sg man,u are consider rich to them.for them,earning 1.5k per month is already consider rich but for sg girl is like shit.
actually my gal is a very smart person she also know how to say, " rich ppl stay in flat no number one... no money one stay in block with numbers" cb...
when i say ppl in sg earn 3k on average... she say earn 3k also same same as earning $300 in vn bcuz in sgp things are expensive... so same same not rich...
i try not to let her think i'm rich by saying i earn 3-4k only but she say dun worry next time i can earn 7-8k i'm her future robert...
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actually my gal is a very smart person she also know how to say, " rich ppl stay in flat no number one... no money one stay in block with numbers" cb...
when i say ppl in sg earn 3k on average... she say earn 3k also same same as earning $300 in vn bcuz in sgp things are expensive... so same same not rich...
i try not to let her think i'm rich by saying i earn 3-4k only but she say dun worry next time i can earn 7-8k :: i'm her future robert...
wow bro,u told her u earn 3-4k,good for her as this carrot is half way ready for harvest liao,few more years can chop liao and eat
i only say mine is 2k,consider low income personnel that somethime need to get subsidy from govertment
actually my gal is a very smart person she also know how to say, " rich ppl stay in flat no number one... no money one stay in block with numbers" cb...
when i say ppl in sg earn 3k on average... she say earn 3k also same same as earning $300 in vn bcuz in sgp things are expensive... so same same not rich...
i try not to let her think i'm rich by saying i earn 3-4k only but she say dun worry next time i can earn 7-8k i'm her future robert...
got flat no number one mehnever heard of,even landed property have number
wow bro,u told her u earn 3-4k,good for her as this carrot is half way ready for harvest liao,few more years can chop liao and eat
i only say mine is 2k,consider low income personnel that somethime need to get subsidy from govertment
is it? shit... shd say lower... but i dun own a car ler... enough for her to despise me on that... if she's after my money... anyway must be very careful if u say like this... recently when she know i need to do something, she got ask me if need to use a lot of money... shd hv asked her if she can gv some...
but come to think of it, i dun think she's stupid to trust that i earn 2k a month... ppl earning 2k a month how to frequent joint? maybe i tell that to my no2 she will trust la bcuz shes new to sgp. but no1 is too smart for that i think... she knows too much of a local sgp man liao...
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got flat no number one mehnever heard of,even landed property have number
is she refering to void deck
bcuz condo dun hv big numbers displayed like hdb flat mah... she had a local bf staying in condo... she had seen something more la... a very seasoned WL...
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is it? shit... shd say lower... but i dun own a car ler... enough for her to despise me on that... if she's after my money... anyway must be very careful if u say like this... recently when she know i need to do something, she got ask me if need to use a lot of money... shd hv asked her if she can gv some...
but come to think of it, i dun think she's stupid to trust that i earn 2k a month... ppl earning 2k a month how to frequent joint? maybe i tell that to my no2 she will trust la bcuz shes new to sgp. but no1 is too smart for that i think... she knows too much of a local sgp man liao...
bcuz condo dun hv big numbers displayed like hdb flat mah... she had a local bf staying in condo... she had seen something more la... a very seasoned WL...
since u say she is a season player,so for her 3k-4k is consider a not bad income for her future husband like uBut she might be another gem who need u to uncover her beauty so sometime when u say u poor,they are smart to know u are Lying to them.so if u cheong frequently and if open bottle every night,u think she believe u poor
since u say she is a season player,so for her 3k-4k is consider a not bad income for her future husband like uBut she might be another gem who need u to uncover her beauty so sometime when u say u poor,they are smart to know u are Lying to them.so if u cheong frequently and if open bottle every night,u think she believe u poor
yeah, the time when i told her this income i was still newbie, i must admit. with no2, i nvr mention about it. yes, the idea that time is to say a comfortable figure which is good enough to keep a wife but when i told her this figure, she say ppl in sgp earn 5-6k a month didn't know i shd say 2-3k instead... sian...
the seasoned i meant is she knows a lot but not too much until she's so smart that she can detect us lying this and that...
i have a feeling that she trust that i'm earning this figure from the way she speaks. i only met her twice in her joint anyway the rest is off-time and in wet nam.
but anyway i analyze everything from the way she speaks. nonetheless i must be very very very careful from now onwards since u say this to me... i dont know what to say liao...
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But bro golden question, thanks for bringing up some issues that I hv left out. It's time to think of test again... Or let time proves everything...
Dont worry bro,the most important is how u handle your money towards her.They want to have a better life in sg thats why they will marry any sg guy.Even if it turn out that sg man is a low income earner (less thank 2k)per month after marry,they still think marry here is better cos they got a chance to work here(decent job)
but sad to say most cant work because of low education or language barrier as most will hold a LTVP when just marry.so it become a problem cos have to feed 2 ppl with one low income,problem start to surface.
They will always think sg man is rich.There was once while chatting with my wife about my income.I was suprise when she guess i have 60k sgd in my saving account
Dont worry bro,the most important is how u handle your money towards her.They want to have a better life in sg thats why they will marry any sg guy.Even if it turn out that sg man is a low income earner (less thank 2k)per month after marry,they still think marry here is better cos they got a chance to work here(decent job)
but sad to say most cant work because of low education or language barrier as most will hold a LTVP when just marry.so it become a problem cos have to feed 2 ppl with one low income,problem start to surface.
They will always think sg man is rich.There was once while chatting with my wife about my income.I was suprise when she guess i have 60k sgd in my saving account
i dont think she will marry a guy with an income less than 2k a month bcuz like i said, she know earning $3k a month is so-so in sgp... well i dont intend to let her work if we really do get married. maybe she want to work as a waitress/medicure/make-up(she likes the subject of make-up) then i will let her do it...
yeah they think sg man is rich but... lucky she doesn't even think i can afford to buy her $4k house when i mentioned i wan to buy when i got money haha... she suan me,"u got money then first, u no money pls dun anyhow say." i take this as a good indicator
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