Blowjob without condom

[goodsex]

pls help, have encountered sleepless nights.

few days back, went to geylang and normally i will not allow blowjob witout condom, but dont know that day didnt stop it.

came home and the next day, i feel that my outer skin abit of painful.

will i get any STDs or HIV? and how long more do i need to wait, then can go for check up?

i having terrible feeling now. pls advice.
thanks

[BSupDNAT]

chances of getting it(STD/HIV) is there, though it is very low. but you never know u might be the "lucky" one. if everyone think i wont be the lucky one... then how come still got people kenna STD/HIV? remember to use a rubber next time.

for most STD .. the symtoms will be out in a week or 2. for HIV go for a checkup in 3 months time.

Originally Posted by goodsex

will i get any STDs or HIV? and how long more do i need to wait, then can go for check up?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by goodsex

i having terrible feeling now. pls advice.
thanks

Should be "Please ADVISE."

"Advice" is a noun.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by goodsex

will i get any STDs or HIV? and how long more do i need to wait, then can go for check up?

http://www.brown.edu/Student_Service...ti/oralsex.htm

Can I get an STI from oral sex?
Yes, STIs can be transmitted during unprotected oral sex. Oral sex is a much lower risk activity than intercourse, but there's still a possibility for transmission. Not using a condom, dental dam, or other barrier puts both partners at risk. This means that performing and receiving oral sex puts you at risk. Some STIs are more likely to be transmitted during oral sex than others, including:


Herpes is transmitted by skin-to-skin contact with a developing or existing sore. The virus can be transmitted from genitals to mouth if the person giving oral sex has or is developing a cold sore. It can also be transmitted from mouth to genitals if the person receiving oral sex has or is developing a genital sore.


Gonorrhea is transmitted when bacteria are present in body fluids. A person giving oral sex can get a gonorrhea infection of the throat if their partner has gonorrhea.


For the person receiving oral sex, there's little chance of contracting HIV, although it's difficult to pinpoint when HIV has been transmitted because people rarely engage in only one type of sexual activity. In the case of fellatio (oral sex on a man), the HIV virus theoretically could gain entry from the mouth to the opening on the tip of the penis, or through an open cut or lesion on the penis. If you receive oral sex, however, you mainly expose yourself to saliva, which has negligible concentrations of HIV.

For the cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman) recipient, the chance of HIV transmission is also low, although the entire vagina is a mucous membrane through which, theoretically, the virus can be transmitted. A woman receiving cunnilingus is more at risk of getting herpes or gonorrhea from her partner than HIV.

The risk of HIV infection is greater for the partner who performs oral sex. A person performing oral sex on a woman should avoid it during her period, for menstrual blood can carry the HIV virus. Research presented at the 7th Conference on Retroviruses and Opportunistic Infections in February of 2000 concluded that 8 of 122 cases in an HIV-transmission study were possibly attributable to performing oral sex on a man. Of these 8 infected people, some reported having had recent dental work or having cuts in their mouths, suggesting that HIV transmission by oral sex is associated with cuts, lesions, or irritation of the tissues in the mouth.

[sammyboyfor]

http://www.smartersex.org/abstinence/oral_sex.asp

Oral sex is defined as using your mouth to stimulate your partner's genitals. Many people see oral sex as a safer, acceptable alternative to vaginal or anal intercourse - especially those who want to prevent pregnancy. It is important to discuss with your partner whether or not you are comfortable giving or receiving oral sex, as well as each other's sexual history before making any decisions about oral sex. Like sexual intercourse, oral sex does have risks that can affect your health.

Risks of Oral Sex

The primary risk of oral sex involves coming in direct contact with vaginal or seminal fluids that can transmit HIV or sexually transmitted infections. While not as risky as unprotected anal or vaginal sex, it is still possible to get STIs from having unprotected oral sex. The risk to contract HIV and other STIs is much lower for the receiver than the person performing the act. For the person performing the act, the risk of transmission is much lower if gums are healthy and if semen or vaginal fluids do not enter the mouth. However, such preventative measures aren't always enough to prevent infection since you may have cuts or ulcers in your mouth that you may not be aware of. There is no pregnancy risk associated with oral sex - women cannot get pregnant by swallowing semen.

HIV
There have been a few documented cases where HIV has been transmitted through oral sex since HIV is found in blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk. The virus can also be transmitted through cuts, openings, sores, and mucous membranes (mouth, anus, vagina) on the body.

Herpes
Herpes can be transmitted from genitals to mouth or mouth to genitals during unprotected oral sex.

Gonorrhea
While not always listed as an oral sex risk, experts have seen a recent increase in the number of gonorrhea infections of the throat. Exposure to vaginal or seminal fluids infected with gonorrhea are the cause of these infections.

How to Make Oral Sex Safer

* Using effective barrier methods such as condoms or latex dental dams. In the absence of barrier methods, men should avoid ejaculating in their partners' mouths.
* Being aware of sores, discharge, or unpleasant odors from your partner's genitals - signs to avoid oral sex.
* Not flossing and brushing teeth before oral sex. It might give you better breath, but it may also tear the lining of the mouth, increasing the exposure to viruses.
* Avoiding aggressive and deep thrusting in oral sex, which can damage throat tissues and increase susceptibility for throat-based gonorrhea, herpes and abrasions.

[Icarus]

I agree !!

That's a simple neat lot of useful info

Thankx

[Lustro]

might be just a minor tear or inflammation of foreskin due to what the girl was eating,drinking earlier ba. eg; if she used mouth wash then do the bbbj. might result in skin irritation maybe.

i once the same thing happen to me to. took about 2 weeks for it to stop. but as long as you dont have those disgusting white secretion coming out from your dickhead or red spots or anything not supposed to be growing on your groin area, should be safe ba. try not to have sex with gf for a while to see how it goes better. visit dsc or a doctor if you want to have peace of mind.

[heatingup]

I wish to seek guidance from senior cheongsters here.

I only try HJ in TN so far and I intend to venture into BJ with cap soon. However I have some doubts that need the help of senior cheongsters here to clear.

Q1 – Besides protection against STIs, which type of condom provides the greatest sensation for BJ for men? Won’t the taste of spermicide or lubricants put the girl off? Is there any type of condom that does not have spermicide or lubricants? Sorry. I totally have no experience with gal doing BJ with cap on me.

Q2 – I have sensitive skin problem and do scratch a lot. My pubic area and balls sometimes do itch and I involuntarily scratch during sleep. As a result of my skin problem and scratching, sometimes I have small open wounds on my pubic area and balls. What are the chances of getting STIs (like Herpes mentioned in Boss Sam’s posting) & HIV under such circumstances? Should I avoid all together BJ at TN and wait till my skin has recovered?

Q3 – I like French kissing and wish to try it at TNs. Are there any safety precautions I should take? For example, check for ulcers in the gal’s mouth? Would that be offensive to the lady?

Kindly pardon my ignorance in asking the above questions. I thank you in advance for your constructive reply.

[visaplatinum]

Bro heatingup,

Some info to your queries.

2. As long as there is a transfer of bodily fluid, the chances are there. Do take extra precaution. Do not expose yourself to unnecessary danger.

3. It won't be nice to check ulcer on the other party. I think as long as you do not have any cut / ulcer in your mouth, the risk is minimized. Danger of contracting HIV virus from saliva alone is not high, but if the other party has a cut in the mouth, and you also have, then the chances have increased.

Hope that helps.

Rgds,

[heatingup]

Originally Posted by visaplatinum

Bro heatingup,

Some info to your queries.

2. As long as there is a transfer of bodily fluid, the chances are there. Do take extra precaution. Do not expose yourself to unnecessary danger.

3. It won't be nice to check ulcer on the other party. I think as long as you do not have any cut / ulcer in your mouth, the risk is minimized. Danger of contracting HIV virus from saliva alone is not high, but if the other party has a cut in the mouth, and you also have, then the chances have increased.

Hope that helps.

Rgds,

Hi bro visaplatinum,

Thank you so much for your reply to my series of questions. I waited very long for responses till I gave up. So I didn't follow up and thank you in time. My apologies.

I am very busy lately and thus haven't ventured beyond HJ. Hope to be able to cheong soon.

Take care. Cheers

[visaplatinum]

Hi Bro heatingup,

No problem, I only share what I know. We should not do anything that we will regret later.

If you are still worried, go for anonymous testing at DSC; it will take a load off your mind.

Cheers!
Rgds,