Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by onsenmaster

I did have one or two relationships with a mistress that can be called romantic. Didn't find it particularly fulfilling long term wise. At first, you will feel like you have achieved something most guys and submissives can only dream of. That's satisfying the egoistic part of me. Slowly, as the relationship developed, I find it increasingly unsatisfying as I am unable to relate to her on a normal level. Yes the sex was simply terrific but at the end of the day all guys need someone to return home to talk about everyday problems. Many of these mistresses are in this line because they have been introduced to it by a friend, and it's another way of making good money. I tend to always take it with a pinch of salt whenever a domme tells me she is in this line due to her interest. The interest is just something that hopefully grew with each passing session until the domme accepts this as a way of life and living. I'm speaking from an Asian perspective. Not sure if that is the view in the west.

Falling in love with a domme or trying to impress her is never wise. Other than to satisfy one self's egoistic tendencies I do not see a reason why these dommes should be treated differently from the FLs or other girls that one goes to for sexual release. Of course I'm not likening dommes to pros. Rather, the same rules of engagement apply. For pros, f and F off. For dommes, enjoy and F off. It really should be a business transaction although most guys will be clouded by self made excuses like...she really knows what I want...so sexy to submit to someone half my age...

I have been thru this stage before so I thought I'm in a better position to comment but of course you are free to think otherwise. Most Japanese men too regard such transactions as business-like. They do bring gifts but these come from the perspective of a tribute. It is easy to get withdrawal symptoms after fantastic sessions in japan. Call it the lack of culture and quality locally. I reckon singapore girls can be just as sexy or sexier than most Japanese girls. It's a pity that they do not pro domme.

Dear Onsenmaster,

I think us bro's appreciate your views & experiences of being in a relationship with a lady who is a domme.

I got on very well with one domme, who in fact required my own professional services at one stage. I told her how fond I was of her & the feeling was mutual. When I told her this, I was married with children. The domme told me she would only enter into a relationship if I left my wife & kids. I told her I couldn't do that. We had many sessions over a period of 6 years. But we never had sexual intercourse. I remain married to my wife & kids.

B 'n' Y

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by Jimm

Hi Guys,

I have a question with regards to Mistress Sayako's services, hope those who know Mistress Sayako well can advise.

I have a fetish for crossdressing and pegging which I would love to experience with Mistress Sayako, I am not into pain or scat or most of the parts that go with BDSM. I know some Mistresses are fine with milder play but not others who are into the more hardcore activities.

Just wanted to find out if anyone can advise if what I have in mind with be suitable with Mistress Sayako's sessions?

Thanks Guys

Dear Jimm,

I think you will have no problem in living out your pegging & cross dressing fantasy with Mistress Sayako

B 'n' Y

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by Darga

That was an interesting read and I agree with previous post. I dont know If I should envy him or feel sorry for him .

The poor bastard would have real problems walking the next day!!!! Hahaha!!!

B 'n' Y

[Jimm]

Originally Posted by blacknyellow

Dear Jimm,

I think you will have no problem in living out your pegging & cross dressing fantasy with Mistress Sayako

B 'n' Y

Thanks mate, appreciate the confirmation

[Lundgren]

Anyone knows anything about this: shanghaigoddess.org or .net. Is it genuine, what about rates, is the operation dodgy, does she have a "manager" etc.? It sure sounds good, but I tried to contact her two years ago on QQ (chinese local Facebook I guess), and at that time she did not reply.

Cheers.

Lundgren

[dljj]

Hi would like to ask normally whenever mistress sayako is in town,what types of equipment or tools does she bring here?

[Schrodinger]

Originally Posted by Lundgren

Anyone knows anything about this: shanghaigoddess.org or .net. Is it genuine, what about rates, is the operation dodgy, does she have a "manager" etc.? It sure sounds good, but I tried to contact her two years ago on QQ (chinese local Facebook I guess), and at that time she did not reply.

Cheers.

Lundgren

She is genuine - sessioned with her once maybe a year to 18 months ago. She is independent and I dealt with her directly. My guess is she has a lot of nuisance calls and messages from people who are not serious - at least that's what I sensed in my conversations with her prior to the session.

One thing that was a trifle irritating - she keeps using "I'm very popular" to justify not wasting her time, justify her rates (sorry can't rem exactly what the rates are), etc, even when one does not waste time, does not bargain.

Style-wise she is more of the fast-and-furious tempo type. Definitely experienced and reasonably skilled. Arrived in my requested attire and her trolley bag of tools. Pics are 80-90% of actual person so no worries there.

I did not have a bad experience, but my preference for a slower tempo and sensual style meant that I did not go back to her - plus the fact that there are too many Shanghai dommes I want to session with but just not enough trips there to try them all....

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by Schrodinger

She is genuine - sessioned with her once maybe a year to 18 months ago. She is independent and I dealt with her directly. My guess is she has a lot of nuisance calls and messages from people who are not serious - at least that's what I sensed in my conversations with her prior to the session.

One thing that was a trifle irritating - she keeps using "I'm very popular" to justify not wasting her time, justify her rates (sorry can't rem exactly what the rates are), etc, even when one does not waste time, does not bargain.

Style-wise she is more of the fast-and-furious tempo type. Definitely experienced and reasonably skilled. Arrived in my requested attire and her trolley bag of tools. Pics are 80-90% of actual person so no worries there.

I did not have a bad experience, but my preference for a slower tempo and sensual style meant that I did not go back to her - plus the fact that there are too many Shanghai dommes I want to session with but just not enough trips there to try them all....

Dear Bro Schodinger,

I thank you for your views. Most importantly, you are one of the most genuine bro's out there and I think everyone should consider your views on Sayako & Shanghai mistresses.

I think in SG we are limited as to what mistressss are available compared to US, UK, Germany & Japan.

As mistressss, I think they have to do their best on each session. And as slaves we have to let these ladies know if we love them or diss them. If so, why?

B 'n' Y

[Lundgren]

Originally Posted by Schrodinger

She is genuine - sessioned with her once maybe a year to 18 months ago. She is independent and I dealt with her directly. My guess is she has a lot of nuisance calls and messages from people who are not serious - at least that's what I sensed in my conversations with her prior to the session.

One thing that was a trifle irritating - she keeps using "I'm very popular" to justify not wasting her time, justify her rates (sorry can't rem exactly what the rates are), etc, even when one does not waste time, does not bargain.

Style-wise she is more of the fast-and-furious tempo type. Definitely experienced and reasonably skilled. Arrived in my requested attire and her trolley bag of tools. Pics are 80-90% of actual person so no worries there.

I did not have a bad experience, but my preference for a slower tempo and sensual style meant that I did not go back to her - plus the fact that there are too many Shanghai dommes I want to session with but just not enough trips there to try them all....

Hey Bro Schrödinger:

Thanks for the great info!

Lundgren

[Schrodinger]

Originally Posted by blacknyellow

Dear Bro Schodinger,

I thank you for your views. Most importantly, you are one of the most genuine bro's out there and I think everyone should consider your views on Sayako & Shanghai mistresses....

Originally Posted by Lundgren

Hey Bro Schrödinger:

Thanks for the great info!

Lundgren

You are most welcome bros - just keep posting your own views and reviews!

[otherOne]

Any more recent FRs on local dommes?

[kalautanak]

Hello, just wondering if there are anyone with a similar fetish of getting scissored and put in humiliating wrestling holds by a female? Fantasy wrestling as they call it. Hoping to find doms or females who caters to such fantasy.

[osubken]

Originally Posted by otherOne

Any more recent FRs on local dommes?

Has anyone had a session with Mistress Luna recently?

[rharlan]

Hi bros. Was on CM and saw a new signup for a caucasian domme. I messaged for details and got a response to talk on Skype. Immediately, it raised my suspicion, so I did a google image search. Found several pictures of the girl on porn sites globally. Most headings said "You've got boobmail". Person insists in 2 diff emails to come on Skype.

I don't know for a fact that it is a scam, but look before you leap. Iseername is sweetmistress26

[onsenmaster]

Had one session recently with Mistress Anya. IMHO still the best available in Singapore at this point in time. Only problem is getting a session as she only does it on certain days it seems.