[suteerak1099]

wowow! its only been 2-3 days n we've now got some correspondence...very good! keep the thread alive!! having read some of the posts here, i reckon there's certainly some similarity in our respective cases.

here's my story: it 1st started out as casual visits to the WL (now tirak). exchanged contact numbers bt never really called her much. bt on the other hand, she called several times check on me - where i am, who i'm with, y never go home yet etc (everything except "y never come visit me") of cos, naturally w/o her having to request...would pop by to visit her once or twice a wk. even purposely send her fav snacks on her off days.

from short time progress to ON, sometimes adhog ON cos she complain there's a jerk book her that night, need me to go ON so she dun have to face the jerk - she'd be upset n describe the jerk's rough handling, touch her whole night so she cant sleep etc. naturally, after consoling/comforting her... emotions got the better of the situation, so we soon went out on mornings when she's not tired lor.

even on our outings, she never really made me pay for the purchases (relief! cos i didnt wanna be the ATM so early in the relationship) time passes quickly, we're together for some months liao. had a bit of bonus from my soccer bettings, so bought her some lingerie+jewellery for our anniversaries on consecutive months. meanwhile, was also learning thai in my own free time - bought lotsa thai CDs, movies & books to learn. didnt take too long for us to soon be conversing in thai. of cos mine's still quite broken, & slow to reply cos need time to think... can see she's appreciative of the effort - calls home (in my presence) to impress mom about me (dunno if its true but sounds realistic), and even used my address for postage to be sent here from her home. of cos running errands aint much to complain about - only goes to show that there's a certain level of trust lor

her hp was stolen some months back by a customer, n was very upset. i even went thru the trouble in calling & confronting the thief (pay $40 bt take home a hp worth hundreds!). knowing its no use to pursue, i bought her a new hp to pacify her...of cos 1st to be added in the contact list, but i know..there's bound to be more.

then again, its never all peaceful & no storm. there were times when we had minor stints on certain issues, but quickly resolved cos i explained i'm not in the trade & cant comprehend whats in her mind all the time. having listened she's less prone to flare up too.

lately, i've been very affected by the way she behaves towards me - put aeroplane when appointment is set to go out w me, decline my bookings etc. only consolation is she still call to confide n check on me.

only keeping my fingers crossed that she wont be showing me colors again when i visit.

i suppose u guys reading now should understand wat spurred me to start this thread in the 1st place ya? nonetheless, pls contribute by sharing ur treats & woes too.

"the greatest thing of all... is to love & be loved in return"